2 Dads 1 Car

Steven Ngo
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2 Dads 1 Car

By dads, for dads. We'll be exploring everything from unspoken truths, parenting myths and how to thrive in your career (while balancing family and life).

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    Cal Newport: Slow Parenting, Deep Growth

    “It’s important that you can model a thriving life as a parent. That message can be as important as any rule you put in place. It’s the most influence parents have over their kids: how they live.” -Cal Newport Hello friends! Thank you for tuning into this very special episode of 2 Dads 1 Car recorded outside of DC in Takoma Park, Maryland! Our guest this episode needs no introduction: Cal Newport, who is a computer science professor at Georgetown University, podcast host of “Deep Questions”, and critically-acclaimed author of “Deep Work”, “Slow Productivity”, and so many more works that have inspired me ever since I was in law school. He is also a dedicated father to three young boys. Our conversation aims to contextualize Cal’s research and work on productivity and purpose in the modern era through the perspective of parenthood. As we reflect on the challenges of raising young children in the age of smartphones and social media, Cal offers insights on the impact of unrestricted internet access on children, and the ways in which our relationship with technology as parents can impact our attempts to build healthy habits within our children. As our conversation shifts on the discussion of productivity as a parent, Cal shares his seasonal approach to productivity throughout the year, and how he intentionally creates the space for his children not only to participate in that routine of productivity with him, but grow alongside him in their learning journeys. A big shout-out to Cal and everyone involved in the process to make this episode happen (Jesse Miller, Daniel Marx, Amanda Lang, Jessica Phan, Baron Hsueh, and of course, my in-laws for taking care of our daughter while my wife and I were out of town). This episode was a dream come true, and I am continuously inspired to see the stories, interactions, and feedback generated in our tight-knit community. Thank you for joining us! Please check us out at 2dads1car.com, and follow us on Instagram for any exciting updates. I hope you love this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: Cal Newport Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    36 min

  2. 23 OCT

    Ken Sim: Mayor by Day, Father by Night

    “If you’re self sufficient, you can do anything, and its really cool seeing our kids on that journey where they’re become independent and kind, self-led adults." -Ken Sim Hello friends! Thank you for joining us on this very special episode of 2 Dads 1 Car! Our guest today is Ken Sim, a businessman, a leader, and a father to 4 sons. He is also the mayor of Vancouver! Our conversation includes a very candid discussion of how the experience of being a second-generation Asian immigrant and the spotlight of public office have shaped Ken’s perspective not only on fatherhood, but also on the experiences of the community. Ken also offers a refreshing commentary on how your role as a parent changes as you and your children enter different stages of life, and how to balance your commitment to your family and career in a way that encourages growth on both sides. Finally, Ken and I discuss the relationship between fatherhood, family, and personal success, and the importance of both parents and children seeing each other succeed in our joint journeys together through life. Thank you for joining us on this episode of 2 Dads 1 Car! Many thanks to Ken for making the time for this episode, and special shout-out to my cousin, Kristian Young, for helping me out behind the scene! Please check us out at our website 2dads1car.com, and follow us on Instagram for any exciting updates. I hope you love this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: Ken Sim Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    35 min

  3. 9 OCT

    Jesse Robbins: Growing Empathy in Masculinity

    “How can I practice self-awareness, and use that self-awareness to explore how I’m teaching my kids to grow up as men in our world? I feel like that is modern fatherhood.” -Jesse Robbins Hello friends! Thanks so much for tuning into this episode of 2 Dads 1 Car! This episode was recorded in Seattle, where our guest today is Jesse Robbins, a good friend of mine who currently runs a Krav Maga school in Seattle and is the very proud father of two young boys. Today’s episode focuses on Jesse’s journey in fatherhood and self-discovery while going through a turbulent divorce. Touching on the pertinent role of masculinity and emotional vulnerability in his healing journey, Jesse contextualizes his path towards self-acceptance and resilience through his expressions of love for his children, and his unwavering sense of responsibility as a father. This episode ends with a powerful message on loneliness as an epidemic, the crucial need for community and connection for fathers, and Jesse’s personal experiences of support from his friends and rebirth through empowering others. Thank you all so much for joining us on this episode of 2 Dads 1 Car, and big shout-out to Jesse for sharing his time and story with us. Please visit our website on 2dads1car.com for the latest updates, and feel free to leave a comment below to keep the conversation going! I hope you love this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: Jesse Robbins Podcast Host; Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    43 min

  4. 25 SEPT

    Steven Ngo: Looking Back on 3 Years

    “In this world, there is so much chaos, so much in-fighting, so many different things happening, but when we work and approach our days from a place of love and kindness, when I’m interacting with my daughter from a place of love, it just changes everything” -Steven Ngo Hello friends! Thank you for tuning into 2 Dads 1 Car. Just to change the pace a little bit, this episode’s special guest is: me! Since my daughter’s third birthday has just passed, I wanted to take this time to thoughtfully reflect on the lessons I’ve learned, experiences I’ve internalized, and memories I’m looking back on during these last three years as a father. In this episode, I revisit a few of the most important insights I gained from my conversations with previous podcast guests, including the ways in which I have engaged with the relationship between discomfort and growth as a father, the importance of time management when dealing with the unexpected curveballs of life, and the conscious navigation of energy in a social interaction, especially with your children. This episode concludes with a few words on the increasing role of technology in our children’s lives, the importance of remaining spiritually aligned with our parental roles, and how we as parents can strive to become better people. I would like to extend a sincere thank you for every guest who has taken the time to be on my podcast and share their life experiences and stories with me. It is truly during these moments when I am reminded of the purpose of this podcast, which is to create a safe and open community to share the untold truths and unique experiences of fatherhood. Thank you for joining us on this journey. Thank you so much for listening to this episode of 2 Dads 1 Car. Please check out our website at 2dads1car.com. I hope you enjoy this episode! Credits: Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    27 min

  5. 4 SEPT

    Ron Lo: How to Wear Your Hats

    “You gotta be the friend, the teacher, the coach, the mentor. You have to be all these different things because that’s what a modern dad should be.” -Ron Lo Hi friends! Thank you for joining us on this new episode of 2 Dads 1 Car! Our special guest today is a very good friend of mine, Ron Lo, who happened to be in town from Calgary and has been a long-time inspiration and mentor of mine as the father to two young boys, a thriving legal professional, and family man. In this conversation, Ron and I dissect the concept of fatherhood by exploring the array of identities that are encompassed within a modern definition of what it means to be a parent. While discussing our parental identities as providers, mentors, and leaders of our children, Ron and I also explore the importance of maintaining our relationship with our children by remaining cognizant of these distinct responsibilities and how sympathetic reactions can support our children’s journey to understanding themselves. Offering a psychological perspective on the conversation, Ron also describes the importance of fostering intimacy with your partner, and consciously finding the time to be present even while working on the monumental task of raising children. Thank you all for your continued support of 2 Dads 1 Car! Please check out our website at 2dads1car.com, and I hope you love this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: Ron Lo Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    35 min

  6. 21 AUG

    Alex Su: Redefining Success as a Dad and Influencer

    “Making sure that you do what little you can to make sure you hold onto the parts of you that are not just being a father, I think that’s going to be super important.” -Alex Su Hello friends! Thanks so much for joining us on this episode of 2 Dads 1 Car (the very first recorded outside of Vancouver!). Our special guest today is Alex Su, a thought leader in the community, familiar face for those who are on the legal side of TikTok, and dedicated father to a young daughter and son. In our conversation, Alex and I delve into the challenges we’ve faced when trying to balance parenthood with our careers. As he recounts his vibrant career in the legal industry, Alex shares valuable insights and stories about the different ways in which life as a father has diverted and inspired his work in unexpected and exciting ways. To conclude this episode, Alex and I extend our discussion of networking as a community-building tool towards fatherhood, and contemplate some unique ideas on what it would be like to build a community of dads to share each others’ experiences and insights into parenting. Thank you for tuning into 2 Dads 1 Car! Please visit our website at 2dads1car.com for the latest updates, and feel free to leave a comment on Spotify to keep the discussion going! I hope you enjoy this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: Alex Su Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    36 min

  7. 7 AUG

    James Chang: Letting Love Live On

    “Have I fully grieved, compensated, and dealt with this? No, absolutely not. But part of dealing with it is not forgetting; remembering, and sharing with the boys.” -James Chang Hello friends! Thank you for tuning in to this new episode of 2 Dads 1 Car. Our special guest today is James Chang, a great friend of mine from the Bay Area who is a thriving leader of his community, bona fide family man, and the father to two young, curious, and energetic boys. During our conversation, James and I explore our common experience of family loss as fathers. While bonding over our journeys through grief and mourning, our discussion shifts towards the difficult question of how to address the topic of loss with our children as it inevitably occurs throughout our lives. As we contemplate the critical balance between treating death with compassion and honesty, James and I reflect on the beautiful, devastating, and inspiring ways in which our lost loved ones live on through the stories, memories, and lives we share with our children. Thank you for joining us on this particularly meaningful episode of 2 Dads 1 Car; I appreciate you for joining us on this journey. Please check out our new website at 2dads1car.com, and I hope you enjoy this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: James Chang Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    37 min

  8. 24 JUL

    Eric Wong: Finding Leadership in Parenthood

    “I feel like I’m entering into the ‘funnest’ period so far. The teaching, doing activities with them, and learning: what are the necessary skills to figure out this world?” - Eric Wong Hello friends! Thank you for listening to our newest episode of 2 Dads 1 Car. Our very special guest today is Eric Wong, a new friend of mine who is actively involved in the Vancouver community, has two young daughters (a certified girl-dad!), and had recently moved back to Vancouver after a few years living and working in the Bay Area. Eric offers unique insights into the logistics, expectations, and surprises of raising children in two similar yet very different environments. As we discuss the distinct cultures around parenthood in North America, Eric and I reflect on the pressures of achievement and prestige that were prevalent in our childhoods, as well as how that impacts us as role models for our children. Concluding on the topic of leadership, Eric and I talk about the importance of recognizing success as a diversity of experiences, and our role as parents to nurture and guide our children as they embark on understanding what it means to live a successful life. Thank you all so much for tuning in to this episode of 2 Dads 1 Car! Please check us out at our new website at 2dads1car.com. I hope you enjoy this episode! Credits: Podcast Guest: Eric Wong Podcast Host: Steven Ngo Podcast Producer: Baron Hsueh

    39 min
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By dads, for dads. We'll be exploring everything from unspoken truths, parenting myths and how to thrive in your career (while balancing family and life).

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  • Creator
    Steven Ngo
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2024
  • Episodes
    42
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    © Steven Ngo
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    2 Dads 1 Car

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