Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with author and men’s coach GS Youngblood. He wrote a book titled “The Masculine in Relationship”, which offers a model called the Masculine Blueprint for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculinity - which is a combination of groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. This is what he

teaches to men. GS's work draws inspiration from various disciplines, including psychology, men's work, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.



Key points:

- GS introduces himself

- Overcoming emasculation

- What is The Masculine Blueprint?

- Applying the Blueprint

- Recap and Call-to-action



Relevant links:

GS’s website: gsyoungblood.com

GS’s Instagram: @gsyoungbloodmir


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From episode #63 wit Betty Martin. More from that episode:



- Betty shares about her career

- The inception of The Wheel of Consent

- Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To

- The four quadrants

- The 3 Minute Game

- Learning how to take pleasure

- You can’t make someone surrender

- Practical advice for men using The Wheel


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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Love. Jenna has been a sex worker in Australia for over a decade, mostly as an independent full service sex worker and online adult content creator, but also with experience in brothels and massage parlours. She is the President of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, and is the co-host and Producer of sex industry podcast Somebody You Love, which was a finalist in the Australian Podcast Awards Sex & Relationships category in 2021. She is a pansexual polyamorous cat mum who lives with her husband of 15 years on Dharug & Gundungurra land in the Blue Mountains, NSW.



Key points:

- Jenna introduces herself

- Decriminalization vs legalization models

- The “whorearhcy”

- Challenging misconceptions about clients

- The range of client experiences

- Pleasure and sex work



Relevant links:

Jenna’s Instagram: @jennaloveaus




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From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara.



More from that episode:

- Julieta shares some of her journey

- Sexuality related career pathways

- Discovering your authentic sexual self

- Sex industry expectations and assumptions

- Introducing kink and BDSM

- Male submission and surrender

- Male dominance and assertiveness

- Creating safety to sexually explore

- Experimenting with power play

- Tantra and Shibari


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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive Devotion. Destin hosts the podcast Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution.



Key points:

- Destin introduces himself

- Creating safe erotic spaces through consent and care

- Impact of mainstream porn on relationships and sex

- Transforming masculinity through self-mastery and care for women

- Working with high-achieving men through somatic sexology



Relevant links:

Destin’s website: https://destingerek.com/

Destin’s Instagram: @destingerek




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From episode 61 with Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar.

More from that episode:

- Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk

- Competition vs collaboration

- Polyamory, jealousy and compersion

- You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs

- What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle?

- Pleasure practices and advice

- How can women get their men to open up?

- Stop coaching your partner

- An unfiltered look inside women’s minds


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