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This is a recording of a live talk I gave at a tech company called Kaluza. If you'd like to book me to give a talk at your company or charity you can reach me on reubenwachs@gmail.com

Everything I talk about is linked below:


RESOURCES

Counselling Directory - https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/

4 Pillar Plan - Dr Rangan Chatterjee

The Stress Solution - Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Stutz - Netflix

Yoga with Kassandra playlist - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLW0v0k7UCVrkh5WZyHu0d0fWnaNgbmQTw

How to deal with anxiety - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j25dBJHuvJc&t=149s

How to help someone else with anxiety and panic attacks - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U1EEcYJaTD0&t=66s




QUOTES ON SELF
‘How am I complicit in creating the conditions I say I don’t want.’ Tim Ferris from a coach he knows

‘Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate’ - Carl Jung

‘How close or far we are with ourselves is how close or far we will be in our relationships’ - Dr Nicole LePera

‘Men are not moved by things but the views which they take of them’ - Epictetus

WORK QUOTES
“Your lack of preparation is not my emergency” - Tim Ferriss

‘What would this look like if it was easy.’ - Tim Ferriss

‘Be careful what you let become critical to you. Try to get yourself into situations where the most urgent problems are ones you want to think about.’ - Paul Graham

Everything I talk about is linked below:


RESOURCES

Counselling Directory - https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/

4 Pillar Plan - Dr Rangan Chatterjee

The Stress Solution - Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Stutz - Netflix

Yoga with Kassandra playlist - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLW0v0k7UCVrkh5WZyHu0d0fWnaNgbmQTw

How to deal with anxiety - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j25dBJHuvJc&t=149s

How to help someone else with anxiety and panic attacks - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U1EEcYJaTD0&t=66s




QUOTES ON SELF
‘How am I complicit in creating the conditions I say I don’t want.’ Tim Ferris from a coach he knows

‘Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate’ - Carl Jung

‘How close or far we are with ourselves is how close or far we will be in our relationships’ - Dr Nicole LePera

‘Men are not moved by things but the views which they take of them’ - Epictetus

WORK QUOTES
“Your lack of preparation is not my emergency” - Tim Ferriss

‘What would this look like if it was easy.’ - Tim Ferriss

‘Be careful what you let become critical to you. Try to get yourself into situations where the most urgent problems are ones you want to think about.’ - Paul Graham

Hey I hope you all enjoyed the talk I gave at CAE Technology on Point.

Here is the list with everything I mentioned in the talk:

RESOURCES:
4 Pillar Plan - Dr Rangan Chatterjee
The Stress Solution - Dr Rangan Chatterjee
Stutz - Netflix
Yoga with Kassandra playlist - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLW0v0k7UCVrkh5WZyHu0d0fWnaNgbmQTw
How to deal with anxiety - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j25dBJHuvJc&t=149s
How to help someone else with anxiety and panic attacks - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U1EEcYJaTD0&t=66s

QUOTES ON SELF:
‘Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate’ - Carl Jung
‘How close or far we are with ourselves is how close or far we will be in our relationships’ - Dr Nicole LePera
‘How am I complicit in creating the conditions I say I don’t want.’ Tim Ferris from a coach he knows
‘Men are not moved by things but the views which they take of them’ - Epictetus

WORK QUOTES:
“Your lack of preparation is not my emergency” - Tim Ferriss
‘What would this look like if it was easy.’ - Tim Ferriss
‘Be careful what you let become critical to you. Try to get yourself into situations where the most urgent problems are ones you want to think about.’ - Paul Graham

Happy 2023 everyone and I hope you enjoy the video!   
    
After watching, if you're interested at all and you’ve got any questions such as, why not just vegetarian instead of vegan? Or where do you get your protein from? Then please feel free to message me and ask    
    
You can find the things I mentioned below:     
    
The Game Changers - Netflix    
    
Earthling Ed’s Ted Talk - Arguments Against Veganism - Youtube    
    
A Meat Eater’s Case For Veganism - Youtube    
    
Gousto    
    
Sending you all big love!    

Hi and welcome to the Annual Reuben Awards where I give you my top recommendations for 2023!

Here is everything that is mentioned in the podcast!

Best Non-Fiction
No bad parts - Richard Schwartz
Stolen focus - Johann Harri


Best Fantasy
Lord of the silver boy (Troy) - David Gammel
The Blade Itself - Joe Abercrombie

Sci-Fi Speaker of the dead - Orsen Scott Wells


Best Comedy/enjoyable Book
And away… - Bob Mortimer
First Person Singlular - Murakami


Overal best Book
First Person Singlular - Murakami
No Bad Parts - Richard Schwartz


Best Podcast
Sam Harris Waking Up
Hey riddle riddle


Best film: Letterboxd
Everything Everywhere All At Once
Top Gun Maverick
The Last Duel
CODA
The King

Best documentary
Stutz
Tim’s Vermeer
The Making of Arcane

Series:
Severance
Arcane
Cheer


Best album:
Low Island - If You could have it all again
Khruangbin - Mordechai

Best video:
Guy knocking down dominos
https://twitter.com/OnlyZans/status/1569416356839280640

Best idea or concept
Top Idea in Your Mind
Taking action Triangle of life

Best purchase
Blackout eye mask

Most important change in my life
Switching departments at work
Taking action
Top idea in your mind

Favourite fact
Griezman having 3 separate kids born on the same day

NASA mission controllers for the Apollo mission - their average age was 21 when the mission started and when they did the impossible they were an average of 28


Favourite quote
FEEL THE FEAR...AND DO IT ANYWAY
Often we think, 'I'll do it when I am not so afraid.' But in reality, it works the other way round. The 'doing it' comes before the fear goes away. The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out and do it.

The Five Truths about Fear
The fear will never go away as long as I continue to grow.The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out... and do it!The only way to feel better about myself is to go out... and do it!Not only am I going to experience fear whenever I am on unfamiliar territory, but so is everyone else.Pushing through fear is less frightening than living with the underlying fear that comes from feeling helplessness.I'll Handle It! ---- Susan Jeffers

Autobiography in Five Short Chapters Written by Portia Nelson

‘Be careful what you let become critical to you. Try to get yourself into situations where the most urgent problems are ones you want to think about.’ - Paul Graham

‘Animals are my friends, and I don’t eat my friends’ - George Bernard Shaw

“I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy.” — Attributed to Rabindranath Tagore

‘It is perfectly human to be afraid and, while afraid, that one is still obliged to live one’s life and to undertake one’s journey.’ (Hollis, 1994 p. 90)

Robert Hilleger says, ‘Shame started as a two-person experience, But as I got older I learned to do shame all by myself.”

Welcome to my first edition of What Have I Learned This Month?

In this episode, I talk about:
Limits on your emotions
The importance of releasing anger
The power of the group
Acceptance
Receiving compliments
How it can only takes a couple times to become much more comfortable with something
Feedback
Not judging others

I hope you enjoy!