Female Led Relationships, FemDom, D/s
Obedient Love 32: For Women - Why Not Dominate Him?
Ms. Viola asks women about their reaction to submissive men and dispels some misconceptions about FemDom for women who are new to (or put off by) Dominating men. Women's feedback is welcome!
Lil Simz, Woman: https://youtu.be/zHGf6tmnLYE
Kasia Urbaniak: https://www.youtube.com/c/KasiaUrbaniakYT
Cathexis House - Ms. V's 24/7 D/s household + lessons in FLR for men: http://cathexishouse.com
Ms. V's movie based on the book by Renee Lane: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm
Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gyanrchy: http://150yearsofgynarchy.com
Obedient Love 31: FemDom as Religion
Ms. V. delves into the dangerous territory of the patriarchy vs. the divine feminine, witchcraft as liberation, and the Living Goddess tradition.
Obedient Love 30: Submissive Pride
As Pride month comes to a close, Ms. V. encourages you to follow the example of history and feel bold and proud in being who you are.
Submissive Attraction Flag
Submissive Attraction (Alternative flag by me)
Submissive attraction is a form of attraction in which one feels the desire to be taken care and protected of by a certain person(usually a dominant or someone that feels dominant attraction). This may include a strong desire to feel needed by the person as well, and may also include a desire to please the person emotionally. (May also include a desire to be the submissive/not be dominant in the relationship if one is formed)
Can be accompanied with any orientation such as bi-, poly-, pan-, omni-, hetero-, etc… While not inherently sexual/romantic/sensual/etc, the person experiencing sumbissive attraction MAY or may not desire any form of relationship(romantic/sexual/QP/etc) with the other person(usually dominant)
While this isn’t specified to the kink community and isn’t inherently tied in with it, Kink members of course can be LGBTQ+ or be any identity within the MOGAI+ or whatever community, as being in the kink community doesn’t exclude you from this. So, if you’re a submissive person and you feel this form of attraction as well, awesome!
Dark red/whatever color that is: Grey-submissive/demi-submissive, asubmissivespec
Red: regular intensity submissive attraction
Bright red: intense submissive attraction
reddish/brown?: Mix of brown and red, showing unity between submissive and dominant.
The brown colors represent the opposite dominant attraction and how they are in a sense dependent on each-other
FREE 3-DAY FLR CLASS at http://obedient.love
Take Ms. V.'s FLR course and follow her 24/7 D/s household at http://cathexishouse.com
By Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy at http://www.smantics.com/VVoltairine/BookInfo.html
Check out the movie Ms. V is working on at http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm
Obedient Love 29: Generative Power
Just the beginnings of some of Ms. V's rambling musings on how we might unthink hierarchy and focus on the nature of generative power. This one is a bit less practical and more about changing our modes of thinking to facilitate new modes of of structuring consensual power relationships.
Follow Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household and take take lessons on how to find and maintain a FLR at http://cathexhishouse.com
Read Ms. Viola's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy at: http://www.smantics.com/VVoltairine/BookInfo.html
Sign up for Ms. Viola's FREE 3-day FLR class at: http://obedient.love
Find out about Ms. V's upcoming movie based on the book Finding Love Through Female Domination, by Renee Lane. Screenplay by Guinevere Turner: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm
Obedient Love 28: Domestic Service - Level up!
Ms. Viola rants a bit about what is and is not real domestic service, and and tells you how to take your service to new levels, beyond being simply a good considerate partner.
Obedient Love 27: Pegging
Ms. V goes over the ins and outs of anal play and pegging for men and their partners.
This is a segment taken from Obedient Love FLR classes, found at