Unschooling Conversations

Heidi Steel
Unschooling Conversations

Unschooling conversations with Heidi Steel and guests, discussing life and learning from an Unschooling perspective

  1. Conscious Parenting is for Everybody

    15 AUG

    Conscious Parenting is for Everybody

    In this insightful episode, Heidi Steel sits down with conscious parenting and living coach Sarah Parkes to explore the transformative power of conscious parenting. Sarah shares how the foundations of unconditional love, radical acceptance, and emotional regulation can profoundly impact families. They discuss the practical ways conscious parenting looks in daily life, including allowing big emotions to run their course and repairing relationships after past mistakes. Sarah emphasizes that it's never too late to make positive changes, even for parents who feel they've damaged their connection with their children. The conversation also delves into the pressure many parents feel to be "perfect" and how embracing our own humanity models important lessons for our kids. Sarah and Heidi share powerful stories of children's wisdom and the healing that can occur when we approach parenting with self-compassion. Whether you're new to conscious parenting or seeking to deepen your practice, this episode is filled with invaluable insights that can transform your family dynamics. Tune in to discover how you can cultivate the strong, connected relationships you desire with your children. Here are the key highlights from the conversation with Sarah Parkes and where they can be found: Defining conscious parenting as unconditional love and acceptance (0:02:30 - 0:02:52) How conscious parenting creates strong attachment and reduces anxiety in children (0:04:25 - 0:05:01) Allowing big emotions to run their course, rather than controlling behavior (0:07:22 - 0:08:32) The importance of self-compassion and compassion for children (0:10:07 - 0:10:37) Repairing relationships after past mistakes through apology and collaborative conversations (0:14:06 - 0:15:32) Conscious parenting being beneficial for all families, including those with neurodivergent children (0:21:28 - 0:22:45) Embracing imperfection and not striving for perfection as parents (0:24:47 - 0:26:56) The speaker's personal story of repair and wisdom from her 9-year-old daughter (0:28:55 - 0:30:17) Breaking unconscious cycles and creating a conscious parenting legacy (0:30:33 - 0:33:40) The key message that it's never too late to make positive changes (0:34:25)

    36 min
  2. Managing Emotions and Improving Relationships

    2 JUL

    Managing Emotions and Improving Relationships

    Are you worried about your child’s mental health and feel that they (and you) need a little extra support? Unschooling allows for you to prioritise your child’s mental health and your relationships, and whilst the principles of unschooling and the lifestyle are naturally therapeutic, they are not therapy. This episode of Unschooling Conversations introduces you to the work of NLP4Kids as I interview the lovely, and knowledgeable NLP4Kids practitioner, Naomi Emison. She shares with us the work that she undertakes with families and insights on NLP techniques for improving mental health in children and families. She demonstrates how unconscious thought patterns can be effective and non effective in your child’s day to day life and how, working in partnership with parents and children, these thought patterns can be changed. That’s really a fancy way of saying that I was the Guinea Pig whilst she demonstrates these things with practical examples and I experienced a moment of euphoria at the magic of our minds!! You’ll have to listen in to experience the magic for yourself.   Skip to the good part: Naomi introduces herself and her work as an NLP for kids’ practitioner. (01:30)   Unconscious and conscious mind, and decision-making. (07:32) - Naomi explains the difference between conscious and unconscious mind, highlighting their roles in decision-making and problem-solving.   Identify problem areas, set goals, and reframe issues using NLP techniques. (12:36)   How unschooling aligns with supporting children's mental health and wellbeing. (16:06)   Naomi discusses workshops for parents to improve communication with children. (22:37) - Focusing on communication, connection, and positive parenting in workshops.   Using anchoring technique to manage emotions in children. (27:57) - Naomi explains a technique called anchoring to help children manage anxiety by associating a positive memory with a specific body part. Guest Contact details: Website Email Facebook Guest Information: I am an NLP4Kids Practitioner offering therapy and personal development tools and techniques to help children, young people, parents and families to flourish and to be the best versions of themselves. My favourite moment when working with children and young people is when they overcome a challenge ( either personally or with their learning) and become confident to use strategies, tools and techniques to be the best version of themselves. I love working with and seeing children, teenagers and families flourish. I have taught all year groups from Reception to year 6. I have first -hand experience of working with children at different developmental stages and have worked alongside many children and families to build confidence both socially and academically and help them take the next positive in managing feelings, behaviours and relationships. I have been a member of the school senior management as Deputy Headteacher, KS1 lead, KS2 lead and Eary Years lead. I have led the development and learning of both children’s personal and social behaviour within schools that I have worked in. I currently work part time as safeguarding officer and a personal tutor. My volunteer work has been in a Church context as a children’s worker, youth worker and pastoral group leader. In all of these areas of work, I have travelled alongside people of all ages and listened with care to worries and concerns and worked together on positive solutions. I enjoy walking, swimming, singing , cooking, playing the piano, listening to all sorts of music and spending time with friends and family.

    39 min
  3. Voices of Unschooling with Martha

    20 JUN

    Voices of Unschooling with Martha

    Welcome to the first in a new series of episodes The Voices of Unschooling. We know that unschooling looks different in every family and that there is no curriculum, manual or blueprint for what unschooling looks like. Unschooling families are drawn together by their ideas on how learning happens and their focus on building and establishing a family culture based on shared principles. This series is a way of showcasing how those ideas are put into practice in unschooling homes and what unschooling can look like on any given day. The Voices of Unschooling episodes are an invitation to celebrate and share what life and learning can look like and how families made the change from schooled to unschooled. This episode I am joined by Martha, parent to one beautiful child who struggled with various mainstream and alternative educational settings and found their way to unschooling. Martha has been part of the LivePlayLearn Membership for two years and openly shares her families journey in this familiar story. If you feel able and willing to contribute your lived experience and to encourage others along their way by sharing your family story, please get in contact and together we can shine a light on this most fabulous way to live and learn.   Skip to the good part: 130 how Martha came to Home Education 830 how Martha first discovered unschooling and what she thought of it. 1100 The changes that unschooling made for Martha’s child 1430 Deschooling and managing burn out 1900 Initial expectations and the reality   2200 The difficulty with unschooling. 2500 The joy of the membership

    31 min
  4. #22 Seen, Heard, and Understood with Lainie Liberti

    16/06/2022

    #22 Seen, Heard, and Understood with Lainie Liberti

    SUPPORT THE PODCAST ON Ko-fi: ko-fi.com/liveplaylearn Lainie Liberti joins Heidi Steel this month, to talk about her journey into radical unschooling and her recent book Seen, Heard and Understood. As a result of the 2008 California economy crash, Liberti closed her Los Angeles based branding agency. Liberti and her then 9-year-old Miro decided to “be the change” instead of victims and chose a life of adventure. After, selling all of their possessions, Lainie and her son hit the road for what was to be a one year adventure in 2009. After thirteen years and almost 50 countries, the pair calls Guanajuato, Mexico their home. Lainie published the Amazon best-selling book Seen, Heard & Understood, Parenting and Partnering with Teens for Greater Mental Health in May, 2022. Lainie Liberti is the founder and creator of Transformative Mentoring for Teens that launched in early 2020 offering virtual 1:1 coaching for teens as well as a 12-week course designed to transform lives. Lainie is a certified life coach, specializing in transformational coaching. We discuss: · The cult of busy-ness · The importance of core values within our homes. · What partnership parenting means to us both and the AHA! moments that led us to find a more peaceful and connected way to be with our children. · The art of learning as a by-product of a vibrant, connected life. · The importance of continued support through the adolescent years. · What we as parents can do to continue living in respectful and collaborative families with our teens. · What makes the teen years so extraordinary and the benefits of consciously seeing, hearing and understanding your teens during this time. · And, of course, the all-important tips for parenting through the teen years. GUEST MEDIA LINKS: https://transformativementoringforteens.com/ and my personal facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ilainie/ LIVEPLAYLEARN LINKS: Website Liveplaylearn.org Facebook Live. Play. Learn

    49 min

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