23 episodes

Welcome to Finger Food.
I’m your maitre d, Stacey O, Intimacy Coach and Culinary Artist and I’m bringing sex, to the dinner table. 
On the menu is a selection of heart-to-hearts with people who vulnerably share their stories, insights and perspectives.
This podcast is about sex and so much more. We explore connection, letting go of judgement and accepting ourselves exactly as we are.
Let dine.


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Finger Food Stacey O

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.7 • 21 Ratings

Welcome to Finger Food.
I’m your maitre d, Stacey O, Intimacy Coach and Culinary Artist and I’m bringing sex, to the dinner table. 
On the menu is a selection of heart-to-hearts with people who vulnerably share their stories, insights and perspectives.
This podcast is about sex and so much more. We explore connection, letting go of judgement and accepting ourselves exactly as we are.
Let dine.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Shaneel Lal: Conversion Therapy, Queer Representation & Bun Cha

    Shaneel Lal: Conversion Therapy, Queer Representation & Bun Cha

    Welcoming Shaneel Lal to the table!
    Shaneel is a queer rights activist known for spearheading the movement to ban conversion therapy in New Zealand. Lal won Young New Zealander of the Year in 2023 and made history by becoming the first transgender person to win an award at the New Zealander of the Year Awards since its inception in 2010.
    I had the honour of sitting down with Shaneel over a bowl of Chicken Bun Cha. We dove into some steamy excerpts from Shaneel's memoir, including their first romantic experience. They shared their experience with conversion therapy and we explored pivotal moments in their life journey, including when Lal first realised their attraction to boys, the critical importance of queer representation, and why it matters so profoundly!
    Big thank you to our partner at Peaches & Cream for helping us spread the sexy word!
    Follow Shaneel on Instagram here
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    Find out more about working with Stacey O here - www.staceyogorman.com
    I get so inspired by every conversation I have with my community, so if you loved this episode, share it and come say hi on Instagram or email me!


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    • 56 min
    Juliet Allen: Return to the Dick, Pregnancy Sex & Apple Crumble

    Juliet Allen: Return to the Dick, Pregnancy Sex & Apple Crumble

    Welcoming Juliet Allen to the table!
    Juliet is a globally leading sexologist and mentor who draws on her background in psychology, sexology, yoga, and Kundalini Tantra to empower individuals to embrace their sexuality and transform their sex lives and relationships. She initiates the conversation on how to have great sex every day through her online Pleasure School and her own podcast, Authentic Sex.
    In this intimate conversation, Juliet shares her experience of returning to a heterosexual relationship after a four-year partnership with a woman and how much she missed it. She also discusses how the day she met her baby daddy, Nick, she knew in that moment that he was the one for her. Juliet opens up about the challenges she faced in their relationship when she was ready for a baby and he wasn't quite there yet. She emphasizes how therapy has played a pivotal role in their relationship's success and evolution. She delves into the differences between having babies in your 40s vs your 20s, offers insights on keeping the spark alive through saucy role play, and provides guidance on navigating conflicts in relationships and so much more!
    Big thank you to our partner at Peaches & Cream for helping us spread the sexy word!
    Follow Juliet on Instagram here
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    Follow Stacey O on Instagram here
    Find out more about working with Stacey O here - www.staceyogorman.com
    I get so inspired by every conversation I have with my community, so if you loved this episode, share it and come say hi on Instagram or email me!


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    • 42 min
    Chris Parker: Activating His Sex Life, Porn & Seasonal Cheese Boards

    Chris Parker: Activating His Sex Life, Porn & Seasonal Cheese Boards

    Welcoming Chris Parker to the table!
    In this episode I chat to actor, comedian and writer Chris Parker. Chris is an actor, comedian and writer and is renowned for his outstanding work in numerous brilliant movies, comedy shows, theatre performances, podcasts, reality TV, and game shows. However, for me, his most significant achievement lies in how he kept the spirits of the team of 5 mil New Zealanders alive during the COVID-19 lockdowns through his comedy reels.
    In this intimate conversation Chris and I sit down over a seasonally appropriate cheese board. Chris opens up about his eye-opening journey into the fascinating world of the adult entertainment industry, which he explored with Eli Mathewson in his Spinoff show, "The Porn Revolution."
    Chris shares about his personal journey with coming out and the challenges he encountered while building connections with both men and women during the early stages. He recounts the story of how he decided to 'activate his sex life' one New Year's Eve and how he has navigated an eight-year relationship with his now-husband, complete with the magical details of their wedding day.
    It’s great to have you here at the table, let’s get started.
    Big thank you to our partner at Peaches & Cream for helping us spread the sexy word!
    Follow Chris on Instagram here
    Follow Finger Food Podcast on Instagram here
    Follow Stacey O on Instagram here
    Find out more about working with Stacey O here - www.staceyogorman.com
    I get so inspired by every conversation I have with my community, so if you loved this episode, share it and come say hi on Instagram or email me!

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    • 45 min
    Jordan Rondel: Sexual Expression, Balancing Business & Pleasure & Mezze

    Jordan Rondel: Sexual Expression, Balancing Business & Pleasure & Mezze

    Welcoming Jordan Rondel aka The Caker to the table!
    Jordan started her made-to-order cake business 13 years ago when she started selling stunning home-made style cakes in NZ that were exactly what her customers were craving. She has now expanded her bakery business to LA and makes the most delicious luxury cake mixes imaginable. You truly wouldn’t believe it until you try it!
    She transcends not only the culinary space, but also the world of entrepreneurship, fashion and beauty. Jordan has 5 recipe books under her belt and is one of the judges on ‘The Great Kiwi Bake Off’!
    In this intimate conversation, Jordan and I sit down over a mezze platter and a few carrot sticks and discuss Jordans experience with sex love and relating which as Jordan shares, is the first time she has ever done this and is a total edge for her. We discus the difference between being a “sex symbol” and being a “sexual person”. How being a full powered, driven and ambitious business woman has affected her sex, love and relating life. We discus how stress can be a major cockblock, Jordans green flags, red flags and so much more! 
    It’s great to have you here at the table, let's get started. 
    Big thank you to our partner at Peaches & Cream for helping us spread the sexy word!
    Follow Jordan on Instagram here
    Follow Finger Food Podcast on Instagram here
    Follow Stacey O on Instagram here
    Find out more about working with Stacey O here - www.staceyogorman.com
    I get so inspired by every conversation I have with my community, so if you loved this episode, share it and come say hi on Instagram or email me!

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    • 32 min
    Joe Daymond: Sex Therapy, Toxic Masculinity & Chinese Noodles

    Joe Daymond: Sex Therapy, Toxic Masculinity & Chinese Noodles

    Welcoming Joe Daymond to the table!
    Joe is one of Aotearoa's most exciting young comedians. Having starred in 'Have You Been Paying Attention'? and 'Celebrity Treasure Island', selling out the Sky City Theatre twice and growing an online audience of over 140,000 followers, he’s no stranger to being in the spotlight. Since then he’s co-written Comedy Central’s first-ever Polynesian comedian series, 'SIS', and followed that up with his own series, 'BOUNCERS', which he created, wrote, directed and starred in for Comedy Central UK.
    Joe is an advocate for men's mental health, he’s worked alongside the country’s largest mental health organisations including raising $15k for Movember through his work on 'Celebrity Treasure Island'.
    In this episode Joe and I sit down over a bowl of Chinese noodles and discus what straight men actually want. We discus toxic masculinity, the importance of communication and aftercare in relationships, Joes journey with both psychotherapy and sex therapy and so much more!
    It’s great to have you here at the table, let's get started. 
    Big thank you to our partner at Peaches & Cream for helping us spread the sexy word!
    Follow Joe on Instagram here
    Follow Finger Food Podcast on Instagram here
    Follow Stacey O on Instagram here
    Find out more about working with Stacey O here - www.staceyogorman.com
    I get so inspired by every conversation I have with my community, so if you loved this episode, share it, say hi on Instagram or email me!

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    • 53 min
    Benee: Breakups, Seasonal Sex, Self Pleasure & Green Honda Sauce

    Benee: Breakups, Seasonal Sex, Self Pleasure & Green Honda Sauce

    Welcoming Stella Rose Bennett aka Benee to the table!
    This is a woman that needs no introduction, but I’ll introduce her anyway. She is a global chart-climbing artist from Aotearoa. Benee entered the global stage when her viral hit “Supalonely” reached the Top Ten in 10 countries and received almost seven billion plays on TikTok in one month.
    In this intimate conversation, Stella shares her journey with mental health and how her experience with anxiety and depression has affected her sex life and relationships. We talk break-ups, self-pleasure, the seasonality of sexuality, the importance of communication, the lack of sex education she received growing up in an  all-girls catholic school and so much more!
    It’s great to have you here at the table, let's get started. 
    Big thank you to our partner at Peaches & Cream for helping us spread the sexy word!
    Follow Benee on Instagram here
    Follow Finger Food Podcast on Instagram here
    Follow Stacey O on Instagram here
    Find out more about working with Stacey O here - www.staceyogorman.com
    I get so inspired by every conversation I have with my community, so if you loved this episode, share it, say hi on Instagram or email me!


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    • 38 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
21 Ratings

21 Ratings

louiseannabelgraham ,

LOVE FINGERFOOD

Stacey is such an engaged, funny, empathetic, and smart interviewer. She has such a great range of fascinating guests on the show. Listen!

Rudorudorudo ,

Absolute gem of a show

I was suggested this show from Apple Podcasts and wow was this a spot on match for me! The guests bring incredible stories to the table and Stacey is a great host 🙌

Finger food listener ,

Great podcast!

Loved the podcast! The constant moaning from the host is a bit distracting though 😂

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