51 min
Marc Hauser on Building Resilience ON BOYS Podcast
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- Kids & Family
Building boys’ resilience can help them thrive, says Marc Hauser.
Even if they’ve experienced a lot of adversity.
“Adversity experienced by children is not a rare event, but a relatively common event,” says Marc, author of Vulnerable Minds: The Harms of Childhood Trauma & the Hope of Resilience. Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) may include abuse, violence, neglect, poverty, and loss of a caregiver, and these experiences can negatively affect kids’ development.
But although research linking ACEs to behavioral problems and decreased academic achievement has been around for more than two decades, many adults still do not understand that adverse experiences may be at the root of children’s behavioral issues. Boys who act up (or out) at school, at home, or in the community are frequently met with punishment, not understanding.
Shifting your mindset from What’s wrong with you? to What happened to you? What’s happening? can be “transformative,” Marc says.
The 5 Ts (& How They Impact ACEs)All adverse experiences are not equal. There are 5 Ts that can impact a child’s adverse experiences:
Type – Poverty may impact a child differently than sexual abuse or loss of a caregiver, for instance.
Tenure – How long is the child exposed to the adverse experience? Is it relatively fleeting, or a persistent issue over many months or years?
Timing – When, during the child’s development, did they experience an adverse event? Some ACEs are particularly impactful if they occur during specific phases of development.
Toxicity — This describes the severity of the event. Broadly speaking, severe physical abuse is typically more impactful than mild physical abuse.
Turbulence – How unpredictable and uncontrollable is the event?
In this episode, Jen, Janet, & Marc discuss:Prevalence of ACEsHow exposure to trauma affects parents & their parenting practicesACEs impact on malesThe COVID pandemic’s impact on boysStrategies boys (& others) can use to mitigate the impact of ACEsLinks we mentioned (or should have) in this episode:Vulnerable Minds: The Harms of Childhood Trauma & the Hope of Resilience, by Marc Hauser
marcdhauser.com — Marc’s website
risk-eraser.com
“Whole Child, Whole Life” with Stephanie Malia Krauss — ON BOYS episode
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) & Muscle Dysphoria — ON BOYS episode
Sponsor Spotlight: ArmoireClothing rental subscription that makes getting dressed easier. Visit armoire.style/ONBOYS to get up to 50% OFF your first month.
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Building boys’ resilience can help them thrive, says Marc Hauser.
Even if they’ve experienced a lot of adversity.
“Adversity experienced by children is not a rare event, but a relatively common event,” says Marc, author of Vulnerable Minds: The Harms of Childhood Trauma & the Hope of Resilience. Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) may include abuse, violence, neglect, poverty, and loss of a caregiver, and these experiences can negatively affect kids’ development.
But although research linking ACEs to behavioral problems and decreased academic achievement has been around for more than two decades, many adults still do not understand that adverse experiences may be at the root of children’s behavioral issues. Boys who act up (or out) at school, at home, or in the community are frequently met with punishment, not understanding.
Shifting your mindset from What’s wrong with you? to What happened to you? What’s happening? can be “transformative,” Marc says.
The 5 Ts (& How They Impact ACEs)All adverse experiences are not equal. There are 5 Ts that can impact a child’s adverse experiences:
Type – Poverty may impact a child differently than sexual abuse or loss of a caregiver, for instance.
Tenure – How long is the child exposed to the adverse experience? Is it relatively fleeting, or a persistent issue over many months or years?
Timing – When, during the child’s development, did they experience an adverse event? Some ACEs are particularly impactful if they occur during specific phases of development.
Toxicity — This describes the severity of the event. Broadly speaking, severe physical abuse is typically more impactful than mild physical abuse.
Turbulence – How unpredictable and uncontrollable is the event?
In this episode, Jen, Janet, & Marc discuss:Prevalence of ACEsHow exposure to trauma affects parents & their parenting practicesACEs impact on malesThe COVID pandemic’s impact on boysStrategies boys (& others) can use to mitigate the impact of ACEsLinks we mentioned (or should have) in this episode:Vulnerable Minds: The Harms of Childhood Trauma & the Hope of Resilience, by Marc Hauser
marcdhauser.com — Marc’s website
risk-eraser.com
“Whole Child, Whole Life” with Stephanie Malia Krauss — ON BOYS episode
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) & Muscle Dysphoria — ON BOYS episode
Sponsor Spotlight: ArmoireClothing rental subscription that makes getting dressed easier. Visit armoire.style/ONBOYS to get up to 50% OFF your first month.
Jen’s Feb. Armoire haul
Sponsor Spotlight: Dabble & DollopNatural bath products for kids. Visit dabbleandollop.com/onboys to get 20% OFF your first order!
Sponsor Spotlight: American Blossom LinensGrown, spun, & woven in the USA. Use code ONBOYS to save 20%.
Sponsor Spotlight: WinonaMenopause care made easy!
Visit bywinona.com/onboys & use code ONBOYS to get 25% your first order.
Sponsor Spotlight: HomeThreadsMake your home family friendly. Use this link to get 15% off.
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Homethreads and use my code ONBOYS for a great deal: www.homethreads.com
* Check out My Life in a Book and use my code ONBOYS for a great deal:
* Check out undefined and use my code ONBOYS for a great deal: undefined
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
51 min