The Glam Reaper Podcast

Jennifer Muldowney
The Glam Reaper Podcast

The Glam Reaper podcast is about telling human stories of life, love and loss through the lens of the funeral world. Without death we never lived. The existence of grief proves love also existed and through life and love we experience loss. We want to tell YOUR story. Reach out to us: www.theglamreaperpodcast.com

  1. Where Loss Meets Love: Inside the World of Pet Cremation

    2 DAYS AGO

    Where Loss Meets Love: Inside the World of Pet Cremation

    This episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast is split into two parts - Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Sydney Tracy, a former elementary school teacher who now runs a pet cremation business in Arizona.  Paw Prints on Woodland, a pet cremation facility inspired by her grandfather’s legacy, had Sydney returning to her hometown with a heart-centered mission to support grieving pet owners. Jennifer and Sydney are together (Glam Reaper in the Wild Series!) at the annual conference of IAOPCC (International Association Of Pet Cemeteries & Crematories) and during this episode they dive into what defines her work, and the emotional journey behind every service.  Sydney shares her insights on different types of grief—preemptive, sudden, and traumatic—highlighting the importance of patience and gentle support. Together, they remind us that healing isn’t about replacing lost loved ones but creating space for new love while cherishing old memories. Catch this episode for a deep dive into the types of grief and the healing process when saying goodbye to a beloved pet. Key Topics: -Meet Sydney and her journey into the world of pet cremation -From teacher to comforter in times of loss -How compassion and strength create a safe space for grieving pet owners -Navigating the different types of grief and finding healing after loss -Sydney’s heartfelt vision to grow her business and help more families Quotes from the episode:  “I don't believe in coincidences. I believe that there is a reason for everything that happens.” -Sydney Tracy “I don't think that any adult goes through life or gets to the end of their life without multiple scars on their heart” -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:52] Sydney opens up about her unexpected path into pet cremation, drawing from her background in teaching and life experiences. [10:11] Jennifer and Sydney share a conversation on the emotional journey of pet loss. [14:57] They reflect on how adopting pets isn’t about replacement but rather about making space in one’s heart for more love. [17:01] Sydney shares her dreams of growing her pet cremation business and creating a space that truly meets her clients’ needs. [20:22] Sydney thoughtfully weighs the benefits of fire cremation versus aquamation, considering what’s best for her clients and business. [26:18] Jennifer and Sydney explore how client needs, location, and new methods of aftercare shape the future of their services. [28:05] Outro Connect with Sydney Tracy: Website - https://pawprintsonwoodland.com/about Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sydney.r.tracy/?locale=ms_MY Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page -...

    27 min
  2. From Personal Loss to Professional Legacy: The Story of Continuing Vision

    14 OCT

    From Personal Loss to Professional Legacy: The Story of Continuing Vision

    In this inspiring episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Jeff Holcomb, a funeral director who’s been in the industry for over 43 years. He’s also the mind behind Continuing Vision, an educational platform for funeral professionals. What makes Jeff’s story so powerful is the deeply personal journey behind his work. He created Continuing Vision in memory of his late son, Brian, building a legacy that continues to touch so many lives in the profession. Continuing education for funeral directors is very important, especially for those who can’t attend the state or national conventions. Jeff’s platform makes these invaluable resources accessible to everyone. He discusses the new mentorship program launched at the convention—something close to Jeff’s heart—as it helps guide young professionals through the unique challenges they face.  This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a conversation that could change how you approach your work and life. Take a moment and tune in! Key Topics: -The heartfelt story behind Continuing Vision and family legacy -Launch of a mentorship program to support new funeral directors -Inclusivity through the celebrant program for all families -The future of Continuing Vision focused on learning and growth Quotes from the episode:  “We want it to be a safe place for for these young people that there's no judgment” -Jeff Holcomb “Inclusion, diversity, and just making sure everyone's seen and heard. And that's really what it's about, serving the families at the end of the day” -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:19] Jeff shared the origin and purpose of the Continuing Vision company. [04:00] Jeff elaborated on the personal meaning behind the name "Continuing Vision," explaining how it reflects both the importance of continuing education for funeral professionals and the fight to restore the vision of their children. [06:06] Jeff introduced the launch of a new mentorship program, designed to pair seasoned funeral professionals and educators with mentees. [08:41] Jennifer and Jeff emphasized the importance of creating a safe, judgment-free space for young funeral professionals in the mentorship program, where they can seek guidance without fear of criticism or anger from their superiors. [09:53] Jeff discussed how their partnership in the celebrant program will be a game-changer for offering meaningful services. [11:55] Outro Connect with Jeff Holcomb: Website - https://www.continuingvision.com/the-morticians-blog LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/jeff-holcomb-194b8615 Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page Memorials - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - a...

    11 min
  3. Uncovering New York's Dark History: Death, Mayhem, and Cemeteries

    24 SEPT

    Uncovering New York's Dark History: Death, Mayhem, and Cemeteries

    In this captivating episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, host Jennifer Muldowney, aka The Glam Reaper, takes listeners on a journey through New York City’s darker history with the brilliant K. Krombie, a British author, freelance writer, journalist, and founder of Purefinder New York. All while sitting in Central Park!! Krombie is renowned for her deeply researched walking tours that shine a light on the city's untold stories of death and cemeteries. Jennifer and Krombie dive into the fascinating world of burials in the Big Apple, spanning over 400 years of history. Together, they discuss Krombie’s book, Death in New York: History and Culture of Burials, Undertakers and Executions, and explore the mismanagement of death in Manhattan, from overcrowded cemeteries to forgotten burial grounds. They also uncover how epidemics, riots, and even forgotten skeletons have shaped the city’s landscape and reflect on the ongoing challenges of honoring the dead in a space-challenged metropolis. Whether you’re a history buff or simply curious about New York’s hidden past, this episode will transport you to a side of the city you’ve never seen before. Don’t miss this insightful conversation packed with forgotten tales, burial scandals, and thought-provoking discussions about life and death in the concrete jungle. Tune in now to learn about the past that’s still buried beneath New York’s streets! Key Topics: -History of cemeteries and honoring the deceased -Epidemics and changes in burial practices -Cemetery belt and space for loved ones -Grave robberies and respect for remains -Krombie’s book and tours on death and legacy Awesome facts from the episode:  Washington Square Park holds a secret: There are approximately 20,000 bodies buried beneath it, a result of yellow fever epidemics in the 1800s. Grave robbing was a serious issue in New York: In 1788, a riot broke out when student doctors were caught stealing bodies from cemeteries for dissection, leading to legal reforms. In the 1700s, drinking water in New York often flowed through graveyards, including a fountain at Trinity Church, contributing to cholera outbreaks. Seneca Village, located in what is now Central Park, was a black settlement in the 1820s with churches and burial grounds, many of which remain under the park today. The Bone Bill of 1854 allowed unclaimed bodies, particularly vagrants, to be dissected by medical students, a law that remained in place until it was finally amended in 2016. Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:59] Jennifer and Krombie focused on the fascinating history of cemeteries and death management in New York City. [05:23] Jennifer and Krombie talk about the extensive cemetery belt in Queens and personal experiences of exploring cemeteries during lockdown. [08:45] Jennifer and Krombie recounted experiences at a haunted funeral convention in Savannah, Georgia, and explored the history of grave robbing in New York City. [12:13] Krombie covered a grim historical event where a student doctor in 1788 provoked a riot by claiming a dismembered arm belonged to a boy's recently deceased mother. [15:01] Jennifer and Krombie reflected on how much there is to learn about death and burial practices. [18:42] Krombie shared their various tours in New York. [22:41] Outro Connect with K.Krombie: Website - https://www.purefindernewyork.com/ Twitter/X - @KKrombie Promotional code to get 15% discount:...

    23 min
  4. The Complexity of Grief: A Personal Reflection

    9 SEPT

    The Complexity of Grief: A Personal Reflection

    Sweta Vikram, a renowned Author, Doctor of Ayurveda, Speaker, and Professor, sits down with Jennifer, The Glam Reaper to discuss grief and the profound journey to healing. Sweta shares her personal experiences of losing her father and father-in-law, offering an intimate look at the initial stages of mourning. The discussion highlights the significance of treating those who are grieving with compassion and understanding. Jennifer and Sweta explore the unique nature of grief, underscoring the importance of recognizing each individual's grieving experience. They also address the impact of unresolved grief on both mental and physical health, stressing the need to avoid labeling those who are grieving as simply strong or resilient. Tune in to understand the unique and individual nature of grief and why it’s crucial to recognize it! Key Topics: -Personal loss stories reveal deep emotions -Essential ways to support grieving families -Yoga and Ayurveda secrets for funeral directors -Understanding unique grief reactions at funerals -Hidden dangers of unresolved grief in the funeral industry Quotes  From The Episode:  "The grief also brings around this dark side in us. No one talks about that, because the world we live in, we are just supposed to discuss highlighted reels of our lives" - Sweta Vikram "Often times a stranger can be more kind to you and your grief space, where you're in your grief than your friends and your family"  - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [03:42] Sweta shared her personal experience of losing her father and father-in-law. [06:23] Jennifer highlighted the importance of treating people who are grieving. [08:48] Sweta emphasized the transformative impact of Yoga and Ayurveda on mental self-reliance. [11:41] Jennifer discussed the importance of recognizing the unique and individual nature of grief. [14:31] Jennifer and Sweta talk about the impact of unresolved grief on mental and physical health. [17:59] Sweta stressed the importance of not labeling those who are grieving as strong or resilient. [20:46] Jennifer delves into the importance of self-care and clear communication in dealing with grief. [24:53] Jennifer and Sweta highlighted the importance of preserving the memory of loved ones through actions. [30:06] Sweta  shared insights from her book "The Loss that Binds Us”. [35:53] Outro Connect with Sweta Vikram: LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/swetavikram Website - swetavikram.com  Instagram - @swetavikram Twitter/X - @swetavikram Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials  Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

    36 min
  5. The Revival of Keening: Ireland’s Ancient Grief Ritual Returns

    2 SEPT

    The Revival of Keening: Ireland’s Ancient Grief Ritual Returns

    In this episode of the Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer has a thoughtful conversation with Kevin Toolis, a writer and BAFTA-winning filmmaker, as they dive into the often overlooked aspects of death and the rituals that surround it. Kevin shares stories from his Irish and Scottish roots, reflecting on how these cultural traditions have shaped his views on life and death. He introduces the Irish wake, a communal and therapeutic practice that offers a striking contrast to modern funeral customs. Drawing from his book, My Father's Wake, Kevin reveals how the open nature of Irish wakes provides a space for grieving and healing, emphasizing the importance of properly honoring the dead. Tune in to explore the timeless rituals that influence our understanding of life, death, and the healing power of communal grief. Key Topics: -Kevin Toolis shares his deep cultural roots and family history -The healing power of the Irish wake in grief -How modern funeral practices change our way of grieving -The comforting role of keening in collective mourning -The keening festival’s efforts to keep these rituals alive Quotes  From The Episode:  “The first best hope of life is that you will be born into a family and people who will love you and the last best hope of life is that you will die within a community who will love you too” - Kevin Toolis “We kind of are born into this world, naked, with no shame, no guilt, you know nothing, and then we go back basically naked”  - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:23] Kevin shares insights about his Irish and Scottish heritage, his life on Achill Island, and his book on the traditional Irish wake. [05:28] Kevin elaborates on his book "My Father's Wake: How the Irish Teach Us to Live, Love, and Die. [09:36] Jennifer reflects on the complexities of Irish attitudes toward death and funerals. [15:17] Kevin contrasts the differences between Irish and English funeral practices. [17:29] Jennifer shares her perspective on the importance of modernizing the Irish wake to create personalized. [20:02] Kevin discussed the ancient and cross-cultural tradition of keening. [25:22] Kevin conveyed that the Keening Festival was a tremendous success. [27:15] Kevin emphasized that the festival is designed to be participatory rather than academic. [28:50] Outro Connect with Kevin Toolis: LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/kevin-toolis-43a48912 Website - www.wondersofthewake.com Instagram - @thewondersofthewake Twitter/X - @KevinToolis Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kevin.toolis/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials  Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

    27 min
  6. Death Glitch: How Tech is Changing Mourning Forever

    5 AUG

    Death Glitch: How Tech is Changing Mourning Forever

    In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Tamara Kneese, Author, and Leader of the Data & Society Research Institute’s Algorithmic Impact Methods Lab. They explore the intersection of death, and technology. Tamara, an academic and writer, shares her unique insights into how technology is rapidly changing the landscape of digital legacy and mourning. From her book "Death Glitch" to recent discussions on AI and grief, Tamara reflects on the evolving challenges and the necessity for continuous research in the field of Death and Tech. The conversation delves into the history and evolution of digital cultures, highlighting the rise and fall of startups in the funeral space. Don't miss this insightful discussion on the future of digital legacy and the intersection of technology and mortality! Key Topics: -How technology impacts our final farewell -Navigating digital legacies in the funeral industry -The rise and fall of tech-based funeral services -Preserving memories in a digital age -Ethical concerns with future tech in funerals Quotes From The Episode: “A lot of my work is more focused on the people who are creating companies and so the startup ecosystem and understanding the motivations behind that” - Tamara Kneese “A funeral is both for the living and the deceased” - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:36] Tamara explored the intersection of digital subcultures [02:49] Jennifer and Tamara shared their experiences and interests in the death industry. [09:00] Tamara expressed discomfort with interviewing grieving individuals for her book. [17:01] Jennifer highlighted the complex emotional and ethical issues surrounding AI and digital legacies. [19:08] Jennifer and Tamara discussed the increasing potential for deception and scams with AI technology. [21:06] Jennifer talks about the limited control over one's digital legacy after death. [23:37] Jennifer and Tamara delve into the need for big tech companies to include memorialization in their policies. [25:18] Outro Connect with Tamara Kneese: LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/tamara-kneese Website - https://www.tamarakneese.com/ Twitter/X - @tamigraph Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

    26 min
  7. Six Feet Under Pressure: A Legacy's Burden in the Funeral Industry Finale

    18 JUN

    Six Feet Under Pressure: A Legacy's Burden in the Funeral Industry Finale

    In this third and final part with Caleb Wilde on The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney will discuss the evolving landscape of the funeral industry and nurturing diversity and adapting to different cultures. They delve into the necessity of adapting funeral homes to cater to individual preferences, moving away from rigid scripts and traditions. Caleb reflects on the impact of globalization and changing religious beliefs on traditional funeral services. The conversation touches on the Catholic Church's influence on funeral proceedings and the growing desire for more personalized and inclusive services. Caleb shares his personal experiences with misogyny in the funeral industry, highlighting the ongoing gender inequality and the challenges women face in leadership positions. They discuss the toxicity within the industry, including outdated views on gender and racial profiling in hiring practices. Tune in to understand how funeral homes can better meet the diverse needs of today's families while addressing the significant issues within the industry! Key Topics: -Meeting families' unique needs in funeral services -Navigating the effects of globalization and changing faith on funerals -Addressing gender inequality and support for women in the funeral industry -Combating racial profiling and promoting fair hiring in funeral homes -Prioritizing mental health support for funeral professionals Quotes From The Episode: I'm attempting to provide people who are burnt out or who have come to a place where they've lost themselves in this business and give them somebody to talk to and somebody who can walk with them. - Caleb Wilde For me, I don't need to go to mass to prove I'm Catholic. I don't need to go to mass to have some guy I don't know preach to me. - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:53] Jennifer emphasized that funeral homes need to adapt to the varying needs of families by offering personalized options and meeting families where they are. [02:05] Jennifer and Caleb explained that the decline in traditional funeral services is largely due to the changing role of the church in people's lives. [05:40] Jennifer elaborated on how the church's attempt to remove eulogies from funerals to focus more on the mass and ritual might lead to a purer but smaller congregation. [08:31] Jennifer and Caleb highlighted the similarities between the lack of adaptation in both traditional religion and the death care industry in the United States. [12:32] Caleb shared his early awareness of the misogyny in the funeral industry and recounted numerous stories of harassment he had heard over the years. [17:38] Jennifer noted that while there is a growing number of women entering the funeral industry, many are still in school and won't enter the workforce or attain leadership positions for years. [20:14] Jennifer expressed his desire to start a conversation about mental health in the funeral industry. [25:10] Outro Connect with Caleb Wilde: Facebook - /ConfessionsofaFuneralDirector Website - book.calebwilde.com Instagram - @confessions_of_a_funeral_dir Twitter - @CalebWilde Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 YouTube -...

    22 min
  8. Six Feet Under Pressure: A Legacy's Burden in the Funeral Industry Part 2

    7 JUN

    Six Feet Under Pressure: A Legacy's Burden in the Funeral Industry Part 2

    In part 2 of this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney continues her conversation with Caleb Wilde and delves into how the funeral industry is evolving due to generational shifts and technological advancements. Caleb talks about the challenges funeral directors face with rapid changes and resistance to new ideas. He highlights the different communication styles across generations and the pressure to conform to traditional practices in family-owned businesses. Jennifer acknowledges the industry's shift towards more personalized and diverse practices, recognizing that the funeral industry is not static but continually evolving to meet the needs of modern society. Tune in to this enlightening episode as Jennifer and Caleb delve into the evolving challenges and triumphs within the funeral industry! Key Topics: -Struggles of funeral directors with societal changes -Generational differences in adapting to changes in Funeral industry -Challenges between family-owned and corporate-run funeral homes -Importance of trust, transparency, and understanding individual values in supporting grieving families -Mental health challenges faced by funeral directors Quotes From The Episode: They would rather feel the comfort of doing what they already know, than the discomfort of being challenged to think about something new. - Caleb Wilde All of these moments are sewn together to make these moments happen. - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:30] Caleb highlights how funeral directors are struggling to adapt to rapid societal changes. [01:47] Jennifer reflects on generational differences in adapting to change. [04:28] Caleb emphasizes the differences between family-owned and corporate-run funeral homes. [10:29] Jennifer delves into the importance of trust, transparency, and understanding individual values in the funeral industry. [13:58] Caleb talks about his personal journey and experience of writing books. [17:23] Caleb discussed the mental health challenges faced by funeral directors, including burnout, depression, and anxiety. [24:54] Jennifer acknowledges that the funeral industry is evolving towards more personalized and diverse practices. [27:49] Outro Connect with Caleb Wilde: Facebook - /ConfessionsofaFuneralDirector Website - book.calebwilde.com Instagram - @confessions_of_a_funeral_dir Twitter - @CalebWilde Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 You Tube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

    26 min

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The Glam Reaper podcast is about telling human stories of life, love and loss through the lens of the funeral world. Without death we never lived. The existence of grief proves love also existed and through life and love we experience loss. We want to tell YOUR story. Reach out to us: www.theglamreaperpodcast.com

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