The New Rules Podcast

Adrian Crawford
The New Rules Podcast

Helping you write New Rules no matter what place and space you find yourself.

  1. FEB 19

    E76: The Truth About Culture: Why Most Leaders Get It Wrong

    🔥 What if culture isn’t what you say—it’s what you tolerate? 🎙️ Culture isn’t just a corporate buzzword—it’s the invisible force shaping every decision, every interaction, and every outcome in your organization. It’s not just about values on a wall or feel-good mission statements—it’s about what actually happens in the day-to-day. In this episode, we’re breaking down what culture really is, why most leaders fail at creating it, and how it determines success or failure. Whether you’re leading a business, a team, or even just yourself, understanding culture is the key to lasting impact, high performance, and alignment between vision and reality. We explore: ✅ What is culture, really? (Beyond the feel-good definitions) ✅ How leaders unconsciously create toxic environments (even with good intentions) ✅ The difference between culture and strategy—and why getting it wrong leads to disaster ✅ How to measure and improve culture in your business or team ✅ What happens when a company’s values don’t match its actions? ✅ How vision should attract & repel the right people ✅ The impact of culture on leadership, business growth, and team success 🚀 If you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or someone who just wants to understand how culture shapes everything—this episode is for you. 🧠 Reflection Questions: What’s one unspoken rule in your workplace or community that defines its culture? Does your organization’s stated culture align with how people actually experience it? Are you building a culture that attracts the right people—or repels them? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

    47 min
  2. FEB 12

    E75: Rewriting Time: Part 2 – Breaking Patterns to Create a New Future

    What if the past isn’t behind you—it’s within you? 🎙️ Your choices today shape more than just your life—they create ripple effects for generations. In Part 2 of Rewriting Time, we shift from understanding past patterns to breaking cycles and shaping the future. Adrian and Bri discuss the power of intentionality, leadership, and decision-making in transcending time and leaving a lasting impact. We explore: ✅ Why critical thinking is a skill that will set you apart in the future ✅ How being present helps you make better decisions and strengthen relationships ✅ Why saying “I don’t have time” actually means time is controlling you ✅ How the mindset of “it is what it is” keeps you from taking action ✅ The legacy effect—how today’s choices shape the world for those who come after you 🚀 If you missed Part 1, go back and listen to "Rewriting Time: Part 1 – Understanding the Patterns of Your Past" to get the full picture! 🧠 Reflection Questions: What’s one belief you hold about yourself that has shaped your decisions? Are you controlling your time, or is time controlling you? Where in your life are you letting fear hold you back from moving forward? What’s a small but meaningful habit you can change today to shape a better future? If your great-grandchildren were impacted by today’s choices, what would you want that impact to be? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: Listen on Spotify (linked) Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked) Watch on YouTube (linked on lib) Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules   #NewRulesPodcast #RewritingTime #BreakingPatterns #MindsetShift #GrowthMindset #LifeAndLeadership #LeadershipDevelopment #AuthenticityMatters #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #TimeManagement #UnlockYourPotential #SuccessMindset #IntentionalLiving #FutureFocused #InspireChange #TrueLeadership #SelfImprovement #ReflectAndGrow #LeadWithPurpose #DecisionMaking #OvercomingFear #BreakingCycles #CreateYourFuture #OwnYourTime #ProductivityHacks #ResilientLeadership #NewEpisode #LegacyBuilding #EmpowermentJourney

    31 min
  3. FEB 5

    E75: Rewriting Time: Part 1 – Understanding the Patterns of Your Past

    What if the past isn’t behind you—it’s within you?" In Part 1 of this powerful two-part episode, Adrian and Bri explore how time isn’t linear; it’s dense, layered, and often hidden in the way we think, feel, and lead. The conversations we have today, the choices we make, and even the insecurities we carry are often echoes from the past—shaping us without us even realizing it. Through personal reflections and raw honesty, they unpack how family history, childhood experiences, and seemingly small moments have ripple effects in our lives. But this isn’t just about looking back—it’s about understanding the present and recognizing how presence is a skill that can transform relationships, leadership, and self-awareness. Key Takeaways: The Layered Nature of Time: How the past, present, and external influences overlap more than we realize. Hidden Time Capsules: Unprocessed moments from childhood that shape how we view ourselves and the world. The Legacy of Family Patterns: How inherited beliefs impact our identity and leadership styles. The Power of Presence: Why slowing down and being present is harder than it sounds—but more transformative than we think. Processing the Past: How to acknowledge your history without letting it define your future. Reflection Questions: What "time capsules" from your past might still be influencing your present decisions? Are there patterns in your life that you’ve accepted as normal but may be rooted in unresolved history? How do you define being “present” in your daily life? What distracts you from it? What’s one small moment from your past that shaped you more than you realized? How can understanding your past help you become a better leader, friend, or family member today?  Don’t miss Part 2, where we shift the conversation to the future—how to navigate uncertainty, think critically, and create the life you’re meant to live.   📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

    24 min
  4. JAN 22

    E74: The Fear of Authenticity and How to Overcome It

    Authenticity is a word we hear all the time, but what does it actually mean to live it out? In this episode, Adrian and Bri dive deep into the reality of authenticity—why it’s hard, why most people avoid it, and what’s waiting on the other side when you choose to embrace it. We explore the pressure to conform, the fear of being truly seen, and the cost of showing up as your real self. If you’ve ever felt the tension between who you are and who you think you should be, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways: The Fear of Authenticity Why stepping into your real self can feel terrifying—and why so many people avoid it. The False Self vs. The True Self Understanding the internal battle between who you present to the world and who you truly are. The Cost of Being Authentic Authenticity isn’t free—it comes with challenges, but the reward is a life of true impact and fulfillment. Why Most People Stay in Their False Self The subconscious reasons we cling to an inauthentic life and how to start breaking free. How to Master Authenticity in Your Life Practical steps to embrace vulnerability, build self-awareness, and step fully into who you were meant to be. Reflection Questions: Where in your life are you holding back from being fully authentic? What’s one fear that keeps you from showing up as your true self? How would your life change if you embraced authenticity, no matter the cost? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: Listen on Spotify (linked) Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked) Watch on YouTube (linked on lib) Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

    50 min
  5. JAN 15

    E73: Brick by Brick: The Power of Faithfulness

    Welcome to Car Chronicles! Today, we’re taking you on a drive—literally. These are the kinds of conversations we usually have on the road, but this time, we’re bringing you along too. In this candid and reflective episode, Adrian and Bri dive into the profound impact of faithfulness in leadership, relationships, and personal growth. They unpack the hidden value of staying present, the discipline it takes to remain committed to your purpose, and why “someday” isn’t a real plan. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of a big vision or feeling stuck in a season of waiting, this conversation offers practical insights on how to recognize the lies that hold you back, build an abundance mindset, and stay faithful to the work that truly matters. Key Takeaways: Why Faithfulness Matters: It’s not about grand gestures but the small, consistent actions that create compounding growth over time. The Myth of “Someday”: Waiting for perfect circumstances can paralyze your progress. Start where you are with what you have. Faithfulness vs. Personal Gain: True leadership isn’t about chasing personal success—it’s about serving others and staying committed to your purpose. Discipline and Growth: Discipline is the foundation for navigating tough seasons and preparing for future opportunities. Building an Abundance Mindset: How to cultivate gratitude and a positive outlook, even when resources feel scarce. Reflection Questions: What does faithfulness look like in your life right now? Are there any lies or limiting beliefs holding you back from progress? How can you practice being more present in your relationships and work?   📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

    54 min
  6. JAN 1

    E72: How New Rules Began: The Hidden Rules We Follow and Why They Need Disruption

    We’re kicking off the New Year by diving into the story behind New Rules—how it all began, the moments that shaped its vision, and the purpose driving its growth. From an unexpected inspiration during the NBA Finals to the journey of creating a movement that unlocks human flourishing, this episode is filled with insight, reflection, and inspiration for anyone ready to write their own rules in 2025. Key Takeaways: The Origin of New Rules: Every movement begins with a moment of clarity. For New Rules, that moment came during the NBA Finals, when a Jay-Z commercial reframed how success could be defined. This sparked the idea to create a collective that challenges traditional measures of achievement and helps people redefine success on their own terms. Moments That Define Us: Life offers defining moments that demand a response. Adrian and Bri reflect on how being aware of these moments—and choosing to act on them—can alter the trajectory of your life. These moments often come disguised as challenges, but they hold the power to refine purpose and unlock potential. Writing New Rules for Yourself: Success isn’t about playing by someone else’s rules. It’s about creating your own scoreboard for life, aligned with your values and unique purpose. Bri and Adrian explore the courage it takes to break free from societal norms and live authentically, even when it feels risky or countercultural. Unlocking Authenticity Through New Rules: Authenticity isn’t a buzzword—it’s a practice. Through New Rules, individuals and organizations are guided toward self-awareness, resilience, and creating meaningful impact. This process requires an honest confrontation of fears and limitations, but it paves the way for true transformation. The Power of Internal Work: External success starts with internal alignment. Bri and Adrian discuss why meaningful change begins with doing the hard work of self-examination. They emphasize that transformation isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress, and the courage to continuously refine yourself from the inside out. Reflection Questions: What pivotal moments have shaped the way you see the world? How are you defining success in your own life? What rules do you need to rewrite to live authentically in 2025?   📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules Check out Rocket Fuel:  https://www.amazon.com/Culture-Making-Recovering-Creative-Calling/dp/151400576X/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ehnBghSYLUMTtrPb6i1kCI2ggBHw_iZuuYl7exJsHlc0NbHENqqYuO50AstHZBHmmMp2dkLCVuVItvCJOs9fkUi2RnvBfcG6IPrQwpa2RXk67VGHSvlyxv6HnWtvHeE5qj1gx72_QZxOkyXUnRUs39cxGvv5QYT889NZBmClHz3-dN6rClRZ_PGM25aatO1QkbKn1O319o0-tkg3m1D_ECyztmaYzVf5vjDc2teICxA.Rc_JNDvzoG-Ug7ZM-_MRmT2pEirPdHm56Ha2nXcJcHM&dib_tag=se&hvadid=598658135236&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011573&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=16835846654935510467&hvtargid=kwd-11157012471&hydadcr=8269_13544333&keywords=culture+making+by+andy+crouch&qid=1734619290&sr=8-1

    58 min
  7. 12/18/2024

    E71: 2024 Reflection: Authenticity is Hard

    Leadership is a weight that many carry, but few truly understand. In this episode, we dive deep into the challenges, tensions, and motivations that shape leaders. From balancing vision with reality to finding purpose beyond the paycheck, we explore what it means to lead authentically in 2024. Bri and Adrian unpack lessons learned about carrying the responsibility of leadership, defining authenticity, and why motivation matters more than ever. Whether you’re a seasoned leader or just starting your journey, this episode will inspire you to embrace the challenges and find clarity in your purpose. Key Takeaways: Carrying the Weight of Leadership: Leadership isn’t about avoiding pressure—it’s about learning how to carry it well. We discuss how to stay grounded when the demands of leadership feel heavy and why it’s crucial to align your actions with your values. Purpose Over Paycheck: Motivation matters. Leaders who are driven by a deeper purpose—not just financial or external rewards—create lasting impact. We explore how to uncover your “why” and use it as a guiding force in your leadership. Stewarding Well: Leadership requires stewardship—of your time, your team, and your vision. We unpack what it means to manage resources wisely while keeping the bigger picture in mind. The Visionary-Integrator Balance: Visionaries dream big, while integrators bring ideas to life. We dive into the tension between dreaming and doing, and how leaders can thrive in both roles or collaborate effectively with others who complement their strengths. Defining Authenticity in Leadership: Authentic leadership requires resilience and clarity. We challenge the idea of perfection and discuss how being real with your team builds trust and long-term success. The Power of Reflection and Reset: As the new year approaches, we share practical ways to reflect on your leadership journey and reset your priorities to move forward with clarity and purpose.   Reflection Questions: What drives your leadership—purpose, a paycheck, or something else? How do you navigate the tension between vision and execution? What’s one area of leadership you can improve on in 2024? 🎙️ Tune in to Episode 71: and discover what it takes to lead authentically and with purpose. Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford

    49 min
  8. 12/11/2024

    E70: Confidence Won’t Fix Your Self-Worth

    What happens when your confidence shines in one area, but deep down, you struggle to believe in your worth? In this episode, Bri and Adrian explore the powerful differences between self-worth and self-confidence—and why understanding these differences is critical for growth. Through personal stories and practical insights, they discuss how self-worth influences relationships, careers, and how we show up in the world. From overcoming imposter syndrome to navigating spaces where you feel like you don’t belong, this episode is a relatable and thought-provoking guide to embracing your value. Key Takeaways: Self-Worth vs. Self-Confidence: Self-worth is the belief that you are inherently valuable, while self-confidence is belief in your abilities in specific areas. Motivation Matters: Healthy self-worth fuels a desire to add value to others rather than seeking approval or survival through achievements. The Role of Community: Having the right people around you helps you stay grounded and avoid arrogance or delusion. Reframing Failure: Failure is an opportunity to learn, not a reflection of your worth. Practical Tips to Grow Self-Worth: Capture your thoughts and evaluate your motives. Seek feedback from a select, trusted few rather than everyone. Walk into rooms with curiosity rather than a need to prove yourself. Reflection Questions: What happens when your confidence feels strong, but your self-worth doesn’t match it? What’s one step you can take this week to separate your worth from external validation? Recommended Resources: Worthy by Jamie Kern Lima, a powerful book on reframing failure and understanding your value. https://www.amazon.com/s?k=worthy+by+jamie+kern&hvadid=703780796383&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011573&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=10109663932167348718&hvtargid=kwd-2318911362460&hydadcr=21900_13324139&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_34g0y4rq2f_e    📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself.  We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

    35 min
4.8
out of 5
39 Ratings

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