@SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics Host Dian Griesel interviews Joe Pardavila, bestselling author of “Good Listen: Creating Memorable Conversations in Business and Life” and a veteran media professional who has produced over 10,000 hours of radio and podcast content, including work on The Scott and Todd Morning Show on WPLJ. They discuss why conversation feels degraded today, contrasting online shouting and social-media amplification with real-life hesitancy driven by introversion and learned fear of asking questions. Joe argues that meaningful communication is often better by phone or in person because tone and energy get lost in text, while quick logistics can be handled via text; he recommends taking tense threads “offline” into calls or meetings (including workplace Slack huddles). Drawing on radio experience, Joe emphasizes projecting energy, clear enunciation, and “turning the dial to 11” to be a heightened version of oneself during important conversations, presentations, and podcasts; they also discuss tone, giving people grace, and self-awareness when interactions go wrong. The conversation highlights personal responsibility, introspection (“know thyself”), and a Stoic approach of controlling what you can control, including directly and calmly addressing issues rather than passive-aggressively posting online (illustrated by Joe calling a neighbor about loud music). They explore anonymity and accountability, including how requiring names and standing to speak reduces aggression in public meetings, and how comment sections encourage behavior people wouldn’t show in person. For workplace communication, Joe recommends reducing “message fog” across too many platforms, setting cultural expectations for timely replies as a sign of respect, and treating everyone equally regardless of title. On job searching and interviews, Joe stresses networking, building a “I have a guy for that” network across industries, offering value rather than only asking for help, and doing homework on people to create genuine connections in interviews, mentorships, and family gatherings. Dian closes by encouraging listeners to follow Joe and find his book and consulting resources in the episode links. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on Instagram Facebook and @DianGriesel X Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/
