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Life Betterment Through God

Elevate Your Leadership, Empower Your Congregation—Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong~Ephesians 3:17 alexia.substack.com

  1. 2D AGO

    JUDGES

    Judges 1-21 Judges 2:20-23 (NLT): So the Lord burned with anger against Israel. He said, “Because these people have violated my covenant, which I made with their ancestors, and have ignored my commands, I will no longer drive out the nations that Joshua left unconquered when he died. I did this to test Israel—to see whether or not they would follow the ways of the Lord as their ancestors did.” That is why the Lord left those nations in place. He did not quickly drive them out or allow Joshua to conquer them all. Judges 3:1-4 (NLT): These are the nations that the Lord left in the land to test those Israelites who had not experienced the wars of Canaan. He did this to teach warfare to generations of Israelites who had no experience in battle. These are the nations: the Philistines (those living under the five Philistine rulers), all the Canaanites, the Sidonians, and the Hivites living in the mountains of Lebanon from Mount Baal-hermon to Lebo-hamath. These people were left to test the Israelites—to see whether they would obey the commands the Lord had given to their ancestors through Moses. The consequences for Israel not driving out the people of Canaan as God commanded are detailed in several parts of the Book of Judges. The Israelites' failure to fully obey God's command resulted in severe spiritual and social consequences. These include their entanglement with the pagan nations and their practices, which led to idolatry and divine punishment. Here are key passages that describe these consequences: Judges 2:1-3 (NLT): The angel of the Lord went up from Gilgal to Bokim and said to the Israelites, "I brought you out of Egypt into this land that I swore to give your ancestors, and I said I would never break my covenant with you. For your part, you were not to make any covenants with the people living in this land; instead, you were to destroy their altars. But you disobeyed my command. Why did you do this? So now I declare that I will no longer drive out the people living in your land. They will be thorns in your sides, and their gods will be a constant temptation to you." Consequence: The Canaanite nations became a source of constant trouble for Israel, and the foreign gods would continually lead them into temptation and idolatry. Judges 2:11-15 (NLT): The Israelites did evil in the Lord’s sight and served the images of Baal. They abandoned the Lord, the God of their ancestors, who had brought them out of Egypt. They went after other gods, worshiping the gods of the people around them. And they angered the Lord. They abandoned the Lord to serve Baal and the images of Ashtoreth. This made the Lord burn with anger against Israel, so he handed them over to raiders who stole their possessions. He turned them over to their enemies all around, and they were no longer able to resist them. Every time Israel went out to battle, the Lord fought against them, causing them to be defeated, just as he had warned. And the people were in great distress. Consequence: Because of their idolatry and disobedience, the Israelites suffered defeat at the hands of their enemies and were oppressed. The Lord withdrew His protection and allowed their enemies to overpower them. Judges 3:5-8 (NLT): So the people of Israel lived among the Canaanites, Hittites, Amorites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites, and they intermarried with them. Israelite sons married their daughters, and Israelite daughters were given in marriage to their sons. And the Israelites served their gods. The Israelites did evil in the Lord’s sight. They forgot about the Lord their God, and they served the images of Baal and the Asherah poles. Then the Lord burned with anger against Israel, and he turned them over to King Cushan-rishathaim of Aram-naharaim. And the Israelites were subject to Cushan-rishathaim for eight years. Consequence: By living among and intermarrying with the Canaanites, the Israelites were led into idolatry. As a result, God allowed them to be conquered and oppressed by foreign rulers. Judges 10:13-14 (NLT): Yet you have abandoned me and served other gods. So I will not rescue you anymore. Go and cry out to the gods you have chosen! Let them rescue you in your hour of distress!" Consequence: As a result of Israel's persistent idolatry, God temporarily refused to deliver them, telling them to seek help from the false gods they had chosen to serve. These passages illustrate how Israel’s failure to fully obey God’s command to drive out the inhabitants of the land resulted in idolatry, oppression, and suffering. The foreign nations became "thorns in their sides" (Judges 2:3), leading them away from the covenant with God and into cycles of judgment and distress. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alexia.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 29m
  2. MAR 9

    JOSHUA

    Joshua 1-24 The land promised to the Israelites in the Bible, specifically in the Book of Joshua, roughly corresponds to a region that spans several modern-day countries in the Middle East. In the Book of Joshua, this "Promised Land" includes the area from the Jordan River to the Mediterranean Sea and extends from Lebanon in the north to the Sinai Peninsula in the south. Here’s how this biblical region maps onto current-day countries: 1. Israel: * Much of modern-day Israel is part of the land described in the Book of Joshua. The central and southern parts of Israel, including cities like Jerusalem, Hebron, and Jericho, were key territories. * The coastal plains along the Mediterranean, including areas like Jaffa (modern-day Tel Aviv), are part of this land. 2. Palestine (West Bank and Gaza Strip): * Parts of the West Bank, including cities such as Bethlehem, Hebron, and Jericho, are also part of the land described. * Gaza, where the Philistines lived, was part of the Promised Land’s coastal region. 3. Jordan: * Eastern Jordan, particularly areas to the east of the Jordan River, such as the region of Gilead, Ammon, and Moab, are part of the biblical descriptions. The tribes of Reuben, Gad, and half of Manasseh settled in this area. 4. Lebanon: * The northern boundary of the Promised Land extended into parts of Lebanon, particularly the areas south of the Litani River and the region around Mount Hermon. 5. Syria: * Parts of southern Syria, particularly near the Golan Heights and the Bashan region, are included in the northern boundary of the land described in Joshua. 6. Egypt (Sinai Peninsula): * The southernmost extent of the Promised Land, according to some biblical descriptions, includes parts of the Sinai Peninsula, which is today part of Egypt. Key Areas in Modern Countries: * Israel and Palestine: Most of the land described as the Promised Land, including Jerusalem, Jericho, Hebron, and the coastal cities, are within modern Israel and the Palestinian territories. * Jordan: Eastern areas, like Ammon and Moab, where the tribes of Israel settled east of the Jordan River. * Lebanon: The far northern boundary touches southern Lebanon, especially near Mount Hermon. * Syria: Southern Syria, around the Golan Heights and Bashan. * Egypt: The southernmost border may have included parts of the Sinai Peninsula. The Promised Land described in the Book of Joshua spans territories that are today part of Israel, Palestine, Jordan, Lebanon, Syria, and Egypt. The specific boundaries are subject to interpretation, but these countries broadly correspond to the areas outlined in the biblical text. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alexia.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 35m
  3. FEB 27

    Biblical Happiness

    Happiness Through Obedience to the Beatitudes The Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-12) describe the attitudes and actions that bring true happiness or "blessedness" in God's kingdom. This happiness is not based on external circumstances but on a heart transformed by God—humble, merciful, pure, and seeking righteousness. “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” (Matthew 5:6) Nearness to Jesus Produces the Fruit of Joy Joy is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), meaning it naturally grows when we walk with God. As we live in obedience and abide in Christ, His Spirit fills us with joy. Meaning of Makarios (μακάριος): * It means "blessed, happy, fortunate" In classical Greek, it was sometimes used to describe the gods (who were thought to be free from earthly troubles), but in the Bible, it speaks of divine joy and fulfillment. Makarios" in the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-11) Jesus uses makarios nine times in the Beatitudes to describe those who are blessed in God's kingdom: * "Blessed are the poor in spirit" (μακάριοι οἱ πτωχοὶ τῷ πνεύματι) – Matthew 5:3 * "Blessed are those who mourn" (μακάριοι οἱ πενθοῦντες) – Matthew 5:4 * "Blessed are the meek" (μακάριοι οἱ πραεῖς) – Matthew 5:5 Abiding in Jesus Leads to True Joy Obedience to Jesus’ teachings, including the Beatitudes, is how we abide (remain) in Him. In John 15, Jesus compares Himself to the vine and believers to branches—only by staying connected to Him can we bear fruit. “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” (John 15:10-11) When we obey Jesus and live out the Beatitudes, we stay close to Him and experience His joy, which is greater than worldly happiness. John 15:4-11 Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me. 5 “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.6 Anyone who does not remain in me is thrown away like a useless branch and withers. Such branches are gathered into a pile to be burned. 7 But if you remain in me and my words remain in you, you may ask for anything you want, and it will be granted! 8 When you produce much fruit, you are my true disciples. This brings great glory to my Father. 9 “I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love.10 When you obey my commandments, you remain in my love, just as I obey my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. 11 I have told you these things so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow! Galatians 5:22-23- Fruit of the Spirit produced by abiding Nearness to Jesus Produces the Fruit of Joy Joy is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), meaning it naturally grows when we walk with God. As we live in obedience and abide in Christ, His Spirit fills us with joy—not just temporary happiness, but a deep, lasting joy that sustains us even in trials. “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10) The Greek word for "joy" in Galatians 5:22 (which lists the fruit of the Spirit) is "χαρά" (chara). Meaning of Chara (χαρά): * It refers to gladness, joy, delight, or rejoicing. * It is often associated with spiritual joy—a deep, abiding sense of well-being that comes from God, rather than from external circumstances. * The root word is "χάρις" (charis), meaning "grace," showing that joy is closely connected to God's grace. Abiding is obedience to the beatitudes, which literally means happiness in Latin. The Beatitudes are a series of blessings spoken by Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5:3-12) and the Sermon on the Plain (Luke 6:20-23). The word "Beatitude" comes from the Latin beatus, meaning "blessed" or "happy." They describe the attitudes and characteristics of those who are blessed by God and provide a vision of the values of God's kingdom. Matthew 5:3-12 * Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. * Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. * Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. * Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. * Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. * Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. * Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. * Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. * Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven. The Beatitudes emphasize humility, mercy, righteousness, and peace, reflecting the heart of Jesus' teachings. They contrast worldly values with the values of God's kingdom, showing that true happiness and blessing come not from power or wealth, but from faithfulness, compassion, and dependence on God. Summary: The Path to True Joy * Follow the Beatitudes → Cultivate a heart that aligns with God’s kingdom. * Abide in Jesus → Stay connected to Him through obedience and love. * Bear the Fruit of Joy → The Holy Spirit produces lasting joy as we walk in faith. If true joy comes from abiding in Jesus and living in alignment with God’s kingdom, then what happens when we try to find fulfillment in isolation or the wrong sources? The Rat Park experiment provides a powerful parallel. In early addiction studies, rats placed in solitary cages were given a choice between regular water and drug-laced water. Deprived of social connection and stimulation, many chose the drug, often to the point of self-destruction. But when placed in Rat Park—a rich, communal environment where they could interact and thrive—the same rats largely ignored the drug. Their surroundings shaped their desires. Likewise, when we disconnect from God and community, we may seek fulfillment in fleeting pleasures that can never satisfy. But Jesus calls us to abide in Him, where true and lasting joy is found. Just as the rats in Rat Park thrived in a nourishing environment, we flourish when we stay rooted in Christ, walking in faith and bearing the fruit of joy through the Holy Spirit. MORE NOTES FROM THE EPISODE Deuteronomy is considered the last message of Moses. It consists of a series of speeches he delivered to the Israelites before they entered the Promised Land. In these speeches, Moses restates the law, reminds the people of their covenant with God, and warns them to remain faithful. The book ends with Moses blessing the tribes of Israel and his death on Mount Nebo. Since Moses dies at the end of Deuteronomy, this marks his final words and farewell to the people of Israel. Deuteronomy 17:18-20, God commands that when Israel appoints a king, he must write a copy of the law (Deuteronomy) and read it daily to ensure he rules justly and follows God's commands. Here’s what the passage says: "When he takes the throne of his kingdom, he is to write for himself on a scroll a copy of this law, taken from that of the Levitical priests. It is to be with him, and he is to read it all the days of his life so that he may learn to revere the Lord his God and follow carefully all the words of this law and these decrees and not consider himself better than his fellow Israelites and turn from the law to the right or to the left. Then he and his descendants will reign a long time over his kingdom in Israel." (Deuteronomy 17:18-20, NIV) This command was meant to ensure that the king remained humble, obedient to God, and governed wisely according to divine law. Joshua 1:8 (NIV): "Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful." This verse is God's command to Joshua after Moses' death, instructing him to meditate on and obey the Book of the Law(which includes Deuteronomy and the other books of Moses). It emphasizes the importance of continually studying and applying God's word to experience success and blessings. Romans 12:2: "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2, NIV) This verse encourages believers to reject worldly influences and instead allow their minds to be renewed through God's truth. Transformation comes through aligning one's thoughts with God's will, leading to a changed life that reflects His purposes. This is a public episode. 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    22 min
  4. FEB 17

    Deuteronomy 13-34

    Deuteronomy 13-34 The Death of Moses 34 Then Moses went up to Mount Nebo from the plains of Moab and climbed Pisgah Peak, which is across from Jericho. And the Lord showed him the whole land, from Gilead as far as Dan; 2 all the land of Naphtali; the land of Ephraim and Manasseh; all the land of Judah, extending to the Mediterranean Sea; 3 the Negev; the Jordan Valley with Jericho—the city of palms—as far as Zoar. 4 Then the Lord said to Moses, “This is the land I promised on oath to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob when I said, ‘I will give it to your descendants.’ I have now allowed you to see it with your own eyes, but you will not enter the land.” 5 So Moses, the servant of the Lord, died there in the land of Moab, just as the Lord had said. 6 The Lord buried him in a valley near Beth-peor in Moab, but to this day no one knows the exact place. 7 Moses was 120 years old when he died, yet his eyesight was clear, and he was as strong as ever. 8 The people of Israel mourned for Moses on the plains of Moab for thirty days, until the customary period of mourning was over. 9 Now Joshua son of Nun was full of the spirit of wisdom, for Moses had laid his hands on him. So the people of Israel obeyed him, doing just as the Lord had commanded Moses. 10 There has never been another prophet in Israel like Moses, whom the Lord knew face to face. 11 The Lord sent him to perform all the miraculous signs and wonders in the land of Egypt against Pharaoh, and all his servants, and his entire land. 12 With mighty power, Moses performed terrifying acts in the sight of all Israel. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alexia.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 20m

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