Heal You, Heal Your Relationship

Sasha Quince
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Heal You, Heal Your Relationship

"Heal You, Heal Your Relationship" is exactly what I did to save my own marriage. Overcoming anxious attachment, fear of abandonment and self sabotage have been my greatest transformation. The process of learning and unlearning is a path we walk when we are intrigued to heal and grow. This is not your average podcast of someone telling you what to do, these are the experiences, lessons of a woman who practices what she preaches and spent two decades overcoming trauma, fears and anxiety. Tune in to break free of relationship cycles, intrusive anxious thoughts, love fears and behaviors that leave you feeling guilty, worried and ashamed. As you build your self awareness, you grow, as you grow your relationship transforms. The ripple affect is powerful and your host Sasha Quince is proof of that. Sasha, now 17 years into her own marriage after overcoming self sabotage, a mom of two boys but also a trauma survivor, love coach, and dedicated advocate of personal development. Let's do this together! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    Heal Through Self-Love (Special Guest Inside!)

    Sasha welcomes her 4th guest who shows us the power of releasing the role of the strong one and embracing her softness, her feminine energy and the tool of self love that has had a ripple effect of connection and positivity into motherhood, career and important relationships. In this heart-to-heart episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha chats with her longtime friend Ola about the rollercoaster of personal growth, self-compassion, and embracing vulnerability. From navigating single parenthood with two boys to balancing boundaries and softness, Ola shares her journey of healing and finding inner peace. Together, they explore the power of validation, self-awareness, and how humor can lighten even the heaviest of days. Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week: What emotions are you currently sitting with? How can you give yourself permission to feel them fully?What is one way you can set or strengthen a boundary that aligns with your values this week?How can you bring more self-compassion into your life today? In this episode, you will learn the following : Realizing that vulnerability complements strength, rather than diminishing it.Acknowledging mistakes as part of growth rather than a failure.Celebrating small victories, like recognizing awareness of emotions.Validation as a tool for strengthening relationships (personal and professional).Reframing healing as a journey of continuous growth rather than an end goal.Addressing misconceptions that healing is linear or always peaceful. Build The Love That Lasts is here - the 11 week relationship roadmap to healthy lasting love for those in relationships and seeking their life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to feel peace, joy and balance in your love life with the teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.  https://bit.ly/BuildTheLoveThatLasts LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    50 min

  2. 12/26/2024

    Reflect on the Year That Has Passed, Feel Clarity and Calm.

    This is Sasha's annual reflection prompt that leaves her feeling clear and calm. Come along for the ride and let's reflect on the year that has passed. Reflection is key to growth. In this heartfelt episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship,  Sasha invites listeners to embark on a reflective journey to close out the year. Sasha shares her personal ritual for year-end reflections, inspiring listeners to celebrate their growth, acknowledge challenges, and set intentions for the year ahead. She dives deep into topics like overcoming fears, strengthening intimate relationships, and learning to let go of control.  Sasha's questions for reflecting on the past year: What made you feel proud this year?   What did you learn about yourself this year?  Where did you feel the most freedom this year? What brought you the most pleasure and joy?  What is your one word to take into the new year?  In this episode, you will learn the following : Strengthening intimate relationships through mutual effort and growth. Navigating through health struggles and maintaining focus on personal and professional goals. The importance of trusting life’s processes and embracing outcomes.Releasing control over relationships and outcomes. Embracing simple pleasures like traveling, quality time with loved ones, and personal growth. 👉 Don’t Miss Out on This Limited-Time Offer! 🎉 Sign up before December 30th and enjoy an exclusive 50% OFF discount! 🌟 Build The Love That Lasts is here - the 11 week relationship roadmap to healthy lasting love for those in relationships and seeking their life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to feel peace, joy and balance in your love life with the teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.  https://bit.ly/BuildTheLoveThatLasts LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    24 min

  3. 12/19/2024

    4 love hacks I wish I knew in my 30s for self love and a love that lasts

    Sasha shares the 4 love hacks she wish she knew in her 30s that heal from within and attract and keep healthy lasting love. In this episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha uncovers the transformative power of self-healing to improve relationships, sharing the four love hacks she wishes she knew in her 30s. These insights stem from Sasha’s personal experiences and her work with clients, offering practical steps to foster growth and emotional connection. Discover how focusing on yourself, regulating emotions, setting boundaries and cultivating appreciation can create lasting changes in love dynamics. Sasha also shares real-life anecdotes and techniques to practice emotional regulation and establish meaningful boundaries that enhance, rather than weaken, relationships.  Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week: Which love hack did you most resonate with and why?  Where do you need to get better in fostering healthy love, loving relationships in your life? What is one thing you can appreciate about yourself right now?   In this episode, you will learn the following : How self-healing can transform your relationships. Four practical love hacks to create lasting love. The difference between boundaries and requests and how to set effective ones.  Techniques to regulate emotions and strengthen emotional connections. How to shift focus from changing others to changing yourself. Value of appreciating yourself and asking for appreciation from others.  Ways to identify and overcome limiting beliefs about love. Strategies to create a balanced and grounded foundation in relationships.   💞 Only 2 spots left for 1:1 Conscious Love Mentorship in 2024! Ready to deepen your journey? Email SashaQuinceMentoring@gmail.com to reserve your place today. Build The Love That Lasts is here - the 11 week relationship roadmap to healthy lasting love for those in relationships and seeking their life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to feel peace, joy and balance in your love life with the teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.  https://bit.ly/BuildTheLoveThatLasts LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    38 min

  4. 12/12/2024

    3 steps to relationships that last (they may surprise you)

    Here are the 3 steps to relationships that last from the training I shared with 100 women last week. You don't wanna miss this one. In this episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha breaks down three essential steps to building lasting relationships. She gets real about her own struggles with control and anxiety, sharing how self-awareness and taking responsibility have been game-changers for her. Sasha highlights the importance of emotional regulation, tackling limiting beliefs, and nailing good communication. Plus, she introduces a super practical tool called AVP (Acknowledge, Validate, Permit) to help handle emotions and talks about why setting boundaries and clear communication are total relationship must-haves. Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week: Do you avoid your emotions after hearing this?What did you learn about managing your thoughts from this episode?What is one goal you want to take into the new year as you commit to healing yourself? In this episode, you will learn the following : Sasha’s personal experiences with relationship challengesImportance of emotional regulation and mindset managementRecognizing and addressing limiting beliefsEffective communication and accountability in relationshipsThe role of self-awareness in fostering connectionTechniques for managing emotions (e.g., AVP: Acknowledge, Validate, Permit)Understanding communication dynamics between partnersEncouragement for personal growth and reflection in relationships 💞 Only 2 spots left for 1:1 Conscious Love Mentorship in 2024! Ready to deepen your journey? Email SashaQuinceMentoring@gmail.com to reserve your place today. Build The Love That Lasts is here - the 11 week relationship roadmap to healthy lasting love for those in relationships and seeking their life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to feel peace, joy and balance in your love life with the teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.  https://bit.ly/BuildTheLoveThatLasts LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    26 min

  5. 12/05/2024

    I never understood why I lost my sht on my partner until I realized this.

    Understanding why losing my shit on my partner was a deeper level of dysregulation showing up in my relationship and sabotaging it lasting. In this episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha gets real about her healing journey, from dealing with abandonment issues to breaking free from toxic love patterns. She shares how small things in her relationship used to trigger big emotional reactions, all rooted in past traumas like losing her dad and sister. Sasha explains why self-awareness, inner child work, and healing your subconscious are so important for changing your behavior and improving your relationships. Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week: What do you feel from listening to this is still dysregulated in your past? Was there anything that came up? And if so, what? And what can you tell yourself to remind yourself that your current reality is now and you do matter? In this episode, you will learn the following : Understanding emotional triggers and their rootsThe impact of past traumas on present relationshipsImportance of self-awareness and emotional regulationInner child work and subconscious healingThe role of community and connection in healingStrategies for managing emotional responses 💞 Only 2 spots left for 1:1 Conscious Love Mentorship in 2024! Ready to deepen your journey? Email SashaQuinceMentoring@gmail.com to reserve your place today. Build The Love That Lasts is here - the 11 week relationship roadmap to healthy lasting love for those in relationships and seeking their life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to feel peace, joy and balance in your love life with the teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.  https://bit.ly/BuildTheLoveThatLasts LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    25 min

  6. 11/28/2024

    You're today years old when you find out these behaviors sabotage love.

    You're today years old when you find out these behaviors sabotage love. In this episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha delves into the silent relationship killers that many of us unknowingly practice. From the constant need for reassurance to explosive outbursts, Sasha unpacks five subconscious behaviors that sabotage love. Using her personal journey and insights, she provides practical tools to recognize and heal these habits, enabling listeners to build trust, set healthy boundaries, and foster self-compassion. Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week: What resonated most with you from this week's episode? Which behavior feels most relatable? Which of these resonates with you the most: doubting someone’s love or commitment, feeling anxious that something bad will happen, isolating or reacting defensively, struggling to set boundaries, or having explosive outbursts? Do you think you might be subconsciously self-sabotaging love? And what would you like to work on? In this episode, you will learn the following : Building inner confidence to reduce dependency on external validation.Tips for self-reflection and daily affirmations to cultivate self-trust.Techniques to identify whether doubts are rooted in past trauma or present reality.The role of trust and vulnerability in creating a secure relationship dynamic.Recognizing when people-pleasing behaviors mask true needs.Tools for establishing boundaries that respect personal needs and prevent burnout. 💞 Only 2 spots left for 1:1 Conscious Love Mentorship in 2024! Ready to deepen your journey? Email SashaQuinceMentoring@gmail.com to reserve your place today. Join Our Free Training: Master the 3-Step Relationship Roadmap to Create a Healthy, Lasting Love! Learn powerful strategies to strengthen your connection and build the foundation for a fulfilling, lifelong partnership. 👇🏽 https://welcoming-snow-52053.myflodesk.com/e77hmtfia6 LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    20 min

  7. 11/21/2024

    How my clients are attracting healthy love.

    Hear the real life stories of women like you and me who are healing and attracting healthy love both on dating apps and of them. In this heartwarming episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into real-life success stories of healing and self-growth. Sasha shares the journeys of three inspiring clients—Susan, E, and M—each of whom worked through deep-rooted emotional challenges to attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships. From overcoming fear of abandonment and loneliness to building boundaries and emotional resilience, these stories reveal the power of inner healing. Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week: Which story out of the three did you most resonate with and why?How are you feeling after hearing the stories of these three women?Who will you share this episode with? In this episode, you will learn the following : Susan: Overcome boundaries issues and abandonment fears, leading to a healthy, committed relationship. E: Learned to connect with her emotions and found an emotionally available partner in a new country. M: Built self-trust and resilience, enabling her to date outside her comfort zone and attract meaningful connections. 💞 Only 2 spots left for 1:1 Conscious Love Mentorship in 2024! Ready to deepen your journey? Email SashaQuinceMentoring@gmail.com to reserve your place today. Join Our Free Training: Master the 3-Step Relationship Roadmap to Create a Healthy, Lasting Love! Learn powerful strategies to strengthen your connection and build the foundation for a fulfilling, lifelong partnership. 👇🏽 https://welcoming-snow-52053.myflodesk.com/e77hmtfia6 LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    18 min

  8. 11/14/2024

    How my client healed herself to heal her relationship, welcoming our 3rd guest.

    How my client healed herself to save her relationship, welcoming my 3rd guest to the show. In this heartfelt episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha sits down with Erika, a former mentee who recently completed a 24-week Conscious Love Mentorship. Together, they talked about Erika’s transformative journey from feeling overwhelmed as a young mother to rekindling intimacy in her marriage. Tune in as Erika reveals how she confronted deep-seated feelings of abandonment, learned to manage emotional triggers, and reconnected with her inner child. Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week from Erika:  What would you like to change right now? Be it something about yourself or maybe a goal in life. And it can literally be anything: relationships, career, health and fitness. Where do you feel it in your body? Does it have a texture? Does it have a color? Is it heavy? Is it light? Does it have a shape? What aspects of Erika's journey resonated with you the most in today’s episode, or what insights stood out to you? In this episode, you will learn the following : Addressing past traumas and self-sabotaging behaviors to foster healthier, lasting relationships. How Erika managed the pressures of parenting young children and a high-stress job to find calm and stability again. Sasha’s unique coaching includes the feelings wheel, parts work, and a model for understanding emotional triggers.How inner child healing helped Erika rekindle “butterflies” and deepened her connection with her partner. Why feeling emotions in the body, not just the mind, is key to healing and managing triggers. 💞 Only 2 spots left for 1:1 Conscious Love Mentorship in 2024! Ready to deepen your journey? Email SashaQuinceMentoring@gmail.com to reserve your place today. Join Our Free Training: Master the 3-Step Relationship Roadmap to Create a Healthy, Lasting Love! Learn powerful strategies to strengthen your connection and build the foundation for a fulfilling, lifelong partnership. 👇🏽 https://welcoming-snow-52053.myflodesk.com/e77hmtfia6 LINKS: Learn more about Sasha Quince: Linktree Instagram   For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    43 min
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"Heal You, Heal Your Relationship" is exactly what I did to save my own marriage. Overcoming anxious attachment, fear of abandonment and self sabotage have been my greatest transformation. The process of learning and unlearning is a path we walk when we are intrigued to heal and grow. This is not your average podcast of someone telling you what to do, these are the experiences, lessons of a woman who practices what she preaches and spent two decades overcoming trauma, fears and anxiety. Tune in to break free of relationship cycles, intrusive anxious thoughts, love fears and behaviors that leave you feeling guilty, worried and ashamed. As you build your self awareness, you grow, as you grow your relationship transforms. The ripple affect is powerful and your host Sasha Quince is proof of that. Sasha, now 17 years into her own marriage after overcoming self sabotage, a mom of two boys but also a trauma survivor, love coach, and dedicated advocate of personal development. Let's do this together! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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