Unlock Your Blocks with Elyssa

Elyssa Smith
Unlock Your Blocks with Elyssa

You know you are meant for more, but you keep getting stuck in the same frustrating cycle! I see you. I’ve been there. And I’ve got you! I’m Elyssa Smith, a trauma-informed life strategist and the host of Unlock Your Blocks Podcast. I know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed by triggers, stuck in survival-mode, and cycles of self-sabotage. The great news is that you can overcome all of this! I know firsthand how to follow the roadmap to freedom. You can rewire your survival brain, heal the trauma holding you back, and unlock the next level of success and confidence! On Unlock Your Blocks, I’ll teach you the exact tools and strategies to break free from self-doubt, regulate emotions, and finally be able to follow through with your biggest goals! Subscribe now! Let’s get you the right keys to unlock your blocks and create the life you were made for!

Episodes

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    The Good Girl Trap & Your Inner Rebel

    In this episode of Unlock Your Blocks, Elyssa Smith takes a deep dive into the hidden patterns driving self-sabotage for women who grew up as the "good girl," the "helper," or the "responsible one." If you’ve ever felt burned out from constantly putting others first, struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, or negative self-talk, this episode is for you. Elyssa explains how childhood roles shape adult behaviors, introduces the concept of the "family mobile," and unveils the hidden force working against your best efforts: the inner rebel. Key Takeaways: The "Good Girl" Identity: If you were the responsible child, always helping and keeping the peace, you likely developed habits that now contribute to burnout, procrastination, and self-doubt. The Family Mobile Effect: Families function like a mobile hanging over a crib—when one person shifts, the whole unit adjusts. As a child, you learned to stay in your role to keep the family balanced, often at the cost of your own needs. How Thought Patterns Form: Your survival brain adapted by instilling beliefs like "I must keep others happy to be safe" and "My needs don’t matter." These subconscious scripts now fuel self-sabotaging behaviors. The Inner Rebel: A hidden part of you that pushes back when you’ve over-given and ignored your own needs for too long. It manifests as revenge bedtime procrastination, doom scrolling, perfectionism, and resistance to structure. Breaking Free: Recognizing these patterns is the first step to reclaiming your time, energy, and identity. Elyssa shares practical ways to start shifting your mindset and stepping into a healthier, more balanced version of yourself. Listen & Subscribe:Tune in to Unlock Your Blocks for more insights on nervous system regulation, mindset shifts, and personal growth. Don’t forget to subscribe and share this episode with anyone who needs to hear it! 📌 Follow Elyssa for More:www.elyssasmith.com/focusInstagramFacebook Group – The Stress Less Lounge

    15 min
  2. 3 DAYS AGO

    Unlocking Your Potential with Ina Coveney

    In this episode of Unlock Your Blocks, Elyssa sits down with marketing strategist and coach Ina Coveney to explore the emotional and strategic challenges of entrepreneurship. From overcoming imposter syndrome to setting boundaries and navigating people-pleasing tendencies, this conversation dives deep into the mindset shifts required for personal and professional growth. Elyssa and Ina discuss how self-awareness plays a crucial role in success, the impact of comparison on self-worth, and how business owners can build confidence—even with a small audience. They also unpack emotional triggers, toxic relationship patterns, and the physical effects of stress, offering actionable insights on self-validation and boundary-setting. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, feeling stuck in people-pleasing tendencies, or looking to create a thriving business while staying true to yourself, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways. Key Takeaways ✅ Self-awareness is crucial for success in business.✅ Imposter syndrome can block progress and self-acceptance.✅ Vulnerability in business fosters connection and growth.✅ Mindset shifts accelerate personal and professional growth.✅ Emotional triggers reveal deeper personal patterns.✅ Self-validation is a practice that requires multiple strategies.✅ Seeking support from trusted individuals is a strength, not a weakness. Episode Chapters 00:00 – Introduction to Unlocking Potential02:14 – The Journey of a Business Coach04:40 – Overcoming Imposter Syndrome09:59 – Navigating Vulnerability in Business11:55 – The Challenge of People-Pleasing18:54 – Setting Boundaries and Self-Awareness29:25 – Navigating Emotional Arrows32:46 – Recognizing Toxic Patterns34:02 – Understanding Panic and Physical Reactions38:21 – The Journey of Self-Validation41:38 – Empowering Through Expert Support48:05 – Building a Business with Confidence 📌 Follow Elyssa for More:👉 www.elyssasmith.com/focus👉 Instagram👉 Facebook Group: The Stress Less Lounge 📌 Connect with Ina Coveney: 👉 https://www.realsuperhumans.com/ 👉 https://www.instagram.com/inacoveney/

    53 min
  3. 3 DAYS AGO

    Understanding Self-Sabotage and How to Overcome It

    Welcome back to another episode of Unlock Your Blocks with Elyssa Smith! Today, we're diving deep into the world of self-sabotage—what it is, how it manifests in our lives, and most importantly, how to break free from its grip. In This Episode: What is self-sabotage? A breakdown of how procrastination, perfectionism, people-pleasing, imposter syndrome, and negative self-talk are all forms of self-sabotage. How self-sabotage is rooted in survival mode—your nervous system reacts to stress as if you're being chased by a wild animal, making rational thinking and higher-level decision-making difficult. The biological response to stress: why your brain shuts down digestion, immunity, and logical thinking in favor of survival instincts. The impact of chronic stress and how modern-day triggers keep us in a perpetual state of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. How self-sabotaging behaviors act as protective mechanisms developed in childhood to keep us "safe." The key to overcoming self-sabotage: recognizing these behaviors as signals that your brain feels unsafe and responding with self-compassion instead of self-criticism. Real-life client examples of how self-sabotage shows up and practical steps to shift out of survival mode. The importance of working within your window of tolerance to make lasting change without triggering more stress. Key Takeaways: Self-sabotage is a survival response. Your brain is trying to protect you from perceived threats, even if those threats are just work deadlines or social media expectations. Noticing your coping mechanisms is the first step to change. Whether it's doom-scrolling, staying up too late, or avoiding important tasks, awareness is key. Self-compassion is the antidote. When you catch yourself engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors, pause and acknowledge that your brain is feeling unsafe. Change happens within your window of tolerance. Trying to force big changes can trigger more resistance—gentle, incremental shifts are more sustainable. Resources & Next Steps: Take Elyssa’s Self-Sabotage Quiz to identify your biggest blocks: elyssasmith.com/quiz Join the Next Level Membership for expert guidance and community support: elyssasmith.com/membership 📌 Follow Elyssa for More: www.elyssasmith.com/focus https://www.instagram.com/elyssacsmith/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/thestresslesslounge Thank you for tuning in! If you loved this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it helps more women unlock their blocks and step into their power. See you next time!

    15 min
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You know you are meant for more, but you keep getting stuck in the same frustrating cycle! I see you. I’ve been there. And I’ve got you! I’m Elyssa Smith, a trauma-informed life strategist and the host of Unlock Your Blocks Podcast. I know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed by triggers, stuck in survival-mode, and cycles of self-sabotage. The great news is that you can overcome all of this! I know firsthand how to follow the roadmap to freedom. You can rewire your survival brain, heal the trauma holding you back, and unlock the next level of success and confidence! On Unlock Your Blocks, I’ll teach you the exact tools and strategies to break free from self-doubt, regulate emotions, and finally be able to follow through with your biggest goals! Subscribe now! Let’s get you the right keys to unlock your blocks and create the life you were made for!

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