Own The Room: How to Control Perception, Read the Room, and Win High Stakes Conversations

Jake Stahl | Executive Presence & High-Stakes Communication

You don’t lose deals because you’re unprepared. You lose them because something shifts in the room — and you don’t catch it in time. Own The Room is a podcast about high-stakes communication, executive presence, and persuasion for founders, CEOs, executives, consultants, and sales leaders who operate in moments where perception matters more than logic. Hosted by Jake Stahl, a high-stakes communication strategist and expert in sales psychology, negotiation skills, and leadership communication, this show breaks down what’s really happening inside pitches, negotiations, presentations, and difficult business conversations. This podcast is for people who are already smart, prepared, and experienced — but keep losing moments they should be winning. Each episode helps you: Read body language and nonverbal signals in real timeControl perception and executive presence before you speakRecognize the exact moment a conversation turnsNavigate difficult conversations at work, pricing discussions, and objectionsReframe and recover inside negotiations and sales conversationsEliminate buyer’s remorse by answering the unspoken questionsCommunicate with authority in meetings, presentations, and high-value deals This is not a show about scripts, hacks, or motivation. It’s about influence, decision-making psychology, and precision under pressure. If you’re tired of being ignored, ghosted, or underestimated — despite being intelligent, prepared, and capable — Own The Room teaches you how to read the room, steer perception, and win high-stakes conversations with certainty.

  1. Sep 24

    Scalability vs. Growth: Most Owners Never Learn the Difference.

    Your sales are flat. That feels safe. It isn't. If costs went up and revenue didn't, you didn't hold steady — you lost ground. Most business owners never see it that way, because "flat" doesn't feel like an emergency. It feels like a plateau, and a plateau feels survivable. So they push harder. Longer hours, more salespeople, more spam-the-market hustle. And the ceiling doesn't move, because the problem was never effort. It was strategy — and nobody revisited it. Jake sits down with David Solomon, founder of SERO Growth and an MBA lecturer at McGill University, who's spent more than 30 years helping companies break through stalled growth and expand into new markets. David breaks down the real difference between a business that's growing and one that's actually scalable, why "we compete on price" is almost always a cover story for not knowing your real differentiator, and why the business owner is so often the bottleneck standing between the company and its next stage. They get into how to know if you've truly plateaued or just had a bad quarter, what to research before entering a new market, and why every growth conversation should start with one question: what do you want this business to look like when it's done? A business doesn't scale because you work more hours. It scales when you stop being the bottleneck and start building something that can grow without you in every room. Connect with David Solomon Website: serogrowth.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/davidsolomon13 Email: info@serogrowth.com Follow Jake LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakestahl/ Instagram & TikTok: @OwnTheRoomWithJakeStahl Podcast: https://thejakestahl.com/podcast/ Work With Jake: jake@jakestahlconsulting.com Book: Own the Room: https://thejakestahl.com/books/ This episode is brought to you by Orchestraight. Try Orchestraight free for 7 days at orchestraight.com. Orchestraight. The straightest path to success.

    Scalability vs. Growth: Most Owners Never Learn the Difference.
  2. Sep 7

    The Laws of Negotiation Nobody Taught You - Ron Hubsher

    You've been on the call for two minutes and you still don't know what the other person actually wants. Not what they're asking for... what they want. Those are almost never the same thing. They'll ask for a lower price when what they actually want is to know they won't get blamed if this fails. They'll say "just send me a proposal" when what they actually want is proof you understand their world well enough to be trusted with it. Most people never close that gap. They answer the question that was asked instead of the one underneath it, and they wonder why the deal, the raise, the buy-in never quite lands. Jake sits down with Ron Hubsher, founder of the Sales Optimization Group, author of Closing Time, and a guest lecturer on negotiation at Harvard, to break down what negotiation actually is once you strip away the cigar smoke and table-pounding. Ron explains why nobody ever really loses on price, how to separate a business risk from a personal one, and why the best negotiators talk the least and ask the most. They get into preparation, discovery, reading the emotional language underneath a request, and why the goal is never to win against the other side — it's to make the deal better than either of you imagined going in. Negotiation isn't a tactic you pull out for contracts and salaries. It's every conversation where you're trying to move someone from where they are to where you'd like them to be — and the person who's done the work always sounds like it. Connect with Ron Hubsher Website: salesog.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ronhubsher Book: Closing Time: The 7 Immutable Laws of Sales Negotiation : https://www.amazon.com/dp/0981789005?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback Phone: 650-520-9849 Email: RHubsher@SalesOG.com Follow Jake LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakestahl/ Instagram & TikTok: @OwnTheRoomWithJakeStahl Podcast: https://thejakestahl.com/podcast/ Book: Own the Room: https://thejakestahl.com/books/ Work With Jake: jake@jakestahlconsulting.com This episode is brought to you by Orchestraight. Try Orchestraight free for 7 days at orchestraight.com. Orchestraight. The straightest path to success.

    The Laws of Negotiation Nobody Taught You - Ron Hubsher
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You don’t lose deals because you’re unprepared. You lose them because something shifts in the room — and you don’t catch it in time. Own The Room is a podcast about high-stakes communication, executive presence, and persuasion for founders, CEOs, executives, consultants, and sales leaders who operate in moments where perception matters more than logic. Hosted by Jake Stahl, a high-stakes communication strategist and expert in sales psychology, negotiation skills, and leadership communication, this show breaks down what’s really happening inside pitches, negotiations, presentations, and difficult business conversations. This podcast is for people who are already smart, prepared, and experienced — but keep losing moments they should be winning. Each episode helps you: Read body language and nonverbal signals in real timeControl perception and executive presence before you speakRecognize the exact moment a conversation turnsNavigate difficult conversations at work, pricing discussions, and objectionsReframe and recover inside negotiations and sales conversationsEliminate buyer’s remorse by answering the unspoken questionsCommunicate with authority in meetings, presentations, and high-value deals This is not a show about scripts, hacks, or motivation. It’s about influence, decision-making psychology, and precision under pressure. If you’re tired of being ignored, ghosted, or underestimated — despite being intelligent, prepared, and capable — Own The Room teaches you how to read the room, steer perception, and win high-stakes conversations with certainty.

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