it's not you.

SuzieQ
it's not you.

We’re in a world where you’re frozen in fear. Afraid to say or do anything for fear of judgment and ridicule, you have become who everyone wants you to be. You have big dreams that gnaw away at you while you watch others write the book you wanted to write, deliver the speech you wanted to give, and get the clients that were perfect for you. You’re playing it safe - so no one can hurt you. And instead, you’re hurting yourself. it's not you. will show you that what other people do is never about you so you can get on making your magic, music or mischief - no matter who's in the room.

  1. From laughed at to legendary - How courage turns ridicule into your greatest triumph

    DEC 14

    From laughed at to legendary - How courage turns ridicule into your greatest triumph

    The psychological toll of running from your fears is devastating—a silent rot from the inside out. The only path to true wholeness, no matter the perceived threat, is courage. In this episode, we show how having courage delivers rewards far greater than fear ever promised. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time. *For the written version of this podcast, click here.

    27 min
  2. Mind your words - How everyday language can rob you of your free will

    DEC 5

    Mind your words - How everyday language can rob you of your free will

    You’ve been speaking a hidden language—a language so normalized you can’t hear it anymore. Yet, it’s quietly influencing your thoughts, emotions, and decisions. This episode uncovers the language and its direct impact on your life. You will learn a few new tools so you can break free and take back control. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time. For the written version of this podcast, click here.

    21 min
  3. What Trumps 2024 win means for personal empowerment

    NOV 20

    What Trumps 2024 win means for personal empowerment

    Using Trump’s 2024 win as a case study, I discuss how being polarizing is a winning strategy for staying true to yourself, why 'inclusivity' hides deeper truths, and how I knew he would win. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time. *For the written version of this podcast, click here.

    23 min
  4. How I'd live your life better than you

    NOV 1

    How I'd live your life better than you

    In this episode, you'll discover the not-so-obvious ways you keep screwing yourself over. We'll uncover how to find hidden habits, unnoticed behaviors, and subtle emotions that keep you stuck—plus, what you can do to break free and get back in charge. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time.

    24 min
  5. Stop feeling like you're the problem - And discover what's truly going on

    OCT 17

    Stop feeling like you're the problem - And discover what's truly going on

    In this episode, we explore why you’re not to blame for others’ actions. People act for their own reasons, not against you. I’ll show you how to uncover the real motivations behind their behavior, helping you stop taking things personally and reclaim your confidence and peace of mind. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time. For the written version of this podcast, click here.

    25 min
  6. What if everything you knew about your past was wrong?

    OCT 9

    What if everything you knew about your past was wrong?

    What if everything you believed about your past was wrong? In this episode, we uncover how the way you’ve internalized events may be based on lies. When you realize the past you’ve held onto wasn’t what you thought, you can actually change it. By shifting your perception, you can free yourself from the weight of those old memories and redefine your present and future. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time. For the written version of this podcast, click here

    29 min
  7. Season 5 Trailer

    SEASON 5, EPISODE 54 TRAILER

    Season 5 Trailer

    In this season 5 trailer of the *It's Not You* podcast, I’m inviting you on a journey to take back control of your mind and your life. I’m Suzie Q, a Clinical Hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner, and Dream Coach, and I’ll be sharing real-world examples that show why people do what they do—and why it’s never about you. Together, we’ll explore how to stop taking on other people’s problems, reclaim your personal power, and live authentically with confidence and courage. This season is all about rediscovering your true self and never letting anyone else decide what’s best for you again. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity?  Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time.

    3 min
  8. How to outsmart the voice in your head. The science of self-talk made simple

    OCT 9

    How to outsmart the voice in your head. The science of self-talk made simple

    In this episode, we’re tackling the nagging voice in your head that feels like it’s running the show. Discover a powerful (and surprisingly fun) tool to take back control, quiet self-doubt, and replace it with confidence and inner peace. Do you want some help to Slay Your Inner Demons? Or Do you want help to Slay Your Inner Demon? Feeling trapped by fears, self-doubt, and negativity? Break free and become your true self with the "Slay Your Inner Demon" course! Transform your mind, reclaim your confidence, joy, and authenticity. Exclusive Benefits: Direct Access to Me: Personalized support throughout your journey. Tailored Hypnosis Audios: Deepen learning and accelerate progress. Why This Course? My mission is to help you go from feeling unfulfilled to living confidently and joyfully. Experience closure from your past, conquer anger, fear, and loneliness, and embrace your true self. Clients rave about: Inner Peace: Profound relaxation and emotional relief.Empowerment: Tools to manage future stress and live authentically.Positive Transformation: A happier, more energetic, and determined mindset. Take the First Step Today Don’t let inner demons control your life. Enroll in "Slay Your Inner Demon" and start your journey to a confident, joyful, and authentic future. Click Here to Learn More and Enroll Today! Prefer a More Personalized Approach? Need tailored guidance? My 1-1 sessions offer personalized support for your unique challenges. Click Here to Learn More and Book Your 1-1 Session Today! Not Quite Ready Yet? Explore my hypnosis audios to start your journey at your own pace. Click Here to Explore and Purchase Hypnosis Audios Now! Transform your inner world, one session at a time. For the written version of this podcast, click here.

    20 min

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We’re in a world where you’re frozen in fear. Afraid to say or do anything for fear of judgment and ridicule, you have become who everyone wants you to be. You have big dreams that gnaw away at you while you watch others write the book you wanted to write, deliver the speech you wanted to give, and get the clients that were perfect for you. You’re playing it safe - so no one can hurt you. And instead, you’re hurting yourself. it's not you. will show you that what other people do is never about you so you can get on making your magic, music or mischief - no matter who's in the room.

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