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There are both physical and psychological benefits to having a healthy sexual relationship. Better immune system, lower blood pressure, better sleep, less stress, and increased intimacy and connection with your partner are just a few of the benefits a healthy sex life offers. Making sure that both you and your partner are satisfied takes a bit of skill with communication, but Tom and Lisa are sharing their best tips for how you can make that happen. Having a high functioning sex life is a must for any long term relationship. It takes intention and much effort, and has many rewards. [Original air date: 3-18-22].

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:
Sex First | Why settling with your first sexual partner may not be the best move long term [0:31]
Compatibility | Not being compatible sexually can destroy your romantic relationship [4:55]
Communication | Tom and Lisa demonstrate why words matter for connection & intimacy [7:45]
Quality Sex Life | Feeling loved, sexy, and safe are parts of a quality sex life to aim for [12:00]
Make Time for Sex | How Lisa handles a busy schedule and prioritizes a healthy sex life [17:50]
Talk About Sex | How to tell your partner you’re not satisfied and talk without judgment [22:00]
What You Want | Set your partner up for success by telling them to what you want [32:32]

QUOTES:
“One of the best pieces of advice I ever got about sex was until you're able to talk about it openly don't have it.” Tom Bilyeu [2:47]
“If you're not feeling connected, yep. Sex isn't just it's not always just the answer, it can be intimacy” Lisa Bilyeu [21:13]
“There's no way to get the life that you want unless you're willing to articulate it” Tom Bilyeu [22:28]
“For me to test you and then wait to see if you succeed or not, to me isn't a partnership” Lisa Bilyeu [33:59]

Today I've got something really special for you. I recently had an incredible live Instagram session with the amazing Thais Gibson, a true expert on relationships and attachment styles. I'm so excited to share this conversation with you because we dive deep into understanding these vital aspects of how we connect and communicate in our relationships.
Thais breaks down the four major attachment styles—securely attached, anxious/preoccupied, dismissive/avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and how each of these shapes our subconscious beliefs about love. We chat about how our childhood experiences mold these styles and the profound impact this has on our adult relationships.
I also get a bit personal in this episode, opening up about my own journey and struggles with health and hormones, as well as my path from being dismissive avoidant to becoming securely attached. Thais shares practical strategies for identifying and transforming our attachment patterns, which I found incredibly empowering.
And guess what? We even touch on the exciting idea of a dating app based on attachment styles! Plus, we delve into the crucial topics of self-validation and emotional regulation. If you're looking to understand your own attachment style better or hoping to improve your relationships, this episode is jam-packed with actionable insights.

SHOW NOTES:
00:00 Exciting guest, curiosity for growth, and health journey.
03:09 Attachment styles impact relationships; understanding leads growth.
09:22 Securely attached parents facilitate secure relationships.
12:46 Adults seek consistency, love due to childhood lack.
15:12 Anxious attachment style can hinder self-care.
19:51 Conscious mind reprograms subconscious for emotional growth.
21:00 Learning to rely on internal cues, distractions.
24:28 Childhood emotional neglect can lead to shame.
28:23 Greek upbringing stifled emotional expression, causing avoidance.
30:17 Childhood observation shaped emotional strength and suppression.
36:23 Trust is built on being seen, known.
37:13 Considerate communication and trust build stronger relationships.
40:56 Girl, you were fire! Keep up the work.
43:46 Prioritize what matters; podcast release soon.


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Introducing How Can We Be More Effective With Language? from Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness.
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Have you ever wondered what’s up with double negation, the history of gender neutral pronouns, or why swearing is taboo? Then get ready for this week’s guest, linguist Anne Curzan! Anne and Jonathan talk about how the English language has evolved since the 1300s and how our words are SO powerful because of their central role in our identities and communities. Plus, we talk about how to be a more generous speaker, listener, and caretaker of language.



Anne Curzan is the Dean of Literature, Science, and the Arts at the University of Michigan, where she also teaches courses on the history of English, English grammar, language and gender, and the dynamics of conversations. She is a trained linguist and historian of the English language. Her TEDx talk at UM called “What makes a word ‘real’?” has over 2 million views on the national TED site. She earned her B.A. in linguistics from Yale University and her Ph.D. in English language and literature from the University of Michigan. Her book “Says Who?: A Kinder, Funner Usage Guide for Everyone Who Cares About Words” came out on March 26th.



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Welcome back to part 2 of this DEEP & moving conversation with country singer and toxic relationship survivor Stephanie Quayle and narcissism expert Dr. Keith Campbell.  
Get ready for even more heartfelt insights and truthbombs as we dive into: 

- 3 strategies for coping with the wounds left from a narcissist so you can take ownership of your story, make a change, and actually HEAL 

- Why you need to seek professional help as soon as possible in these toxic situations to break the cycle

- And what you can do to take your power back and actually UNLEARN all the shame, guilt, and wounds that have been ingrained in you


You won’t want to miss the final part of this episode!! 
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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Get ready for this episode of Women of Impact all about how to spot the charming, seemingly “nice guy” narcissists who are out on the hunt for smart and successful women like you to use and suck the confidence right out of!! 
This interview will teach you how to take your power back so you don’t feel small, stupid, and powerless for years in an unhealthy and toxic relationship, and actually HEAL from the wounds so you don’t end up broken, full of shame, insignificant, and in the same toxic situation…again! 
And today’s guests here to help with that are Stephanie Quayle and Dr. Keith. 
Stephanie is a successful country singer, and her story is insaaaaaane! For 4 years, she was with a seemingly “nice” guy who actually had multiple secret lives while attending his funeral after his unexpected death! He was prolifically cheating on her and lying to her and she had no idea until she was at his funeral! 
It wasn’t until she finally got professional help from experts in narcissism, like psychologist Dr. Keith, that she was able to begin to let go of the shame and break the cycle of toxic relationships!!
When anyone is able to recognize their relationship for the toxic and unhealthy situation that it is, then they can actually DO something about it, and that’s what I want for you from this episode, homie!!

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Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: 
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If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Go to https://Butcherbox.com/WOI and use code W-O-I at checkout and enjoy your choice of bone-in chicken thighs, top sirloins, or salmon in every box for an entire year, plus get $20 off!
Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/
Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order
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On this episode of Women of Impact, motivational speaker and dating advice expert Matthew Hussey joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they break down the complicated parts of finding love and reveal how dating and relationships can be much simpler than you might think.
They discuss the importance of feeling someone just try in a relationship, how to identify good intentions, why you have to invest in someone, the pitfalls of building up a story in our heads even before the first date, and why you should be willing to ask the difficult questions necessary in developing a strong relationship long-term.
[Original air date: 10/28/20].

SHOW NOTES:
It’s Not That Complicated | Matthew shares the importance of feeling someone just try. [1:53]
Intentions | Matthew discusses the difference between attention and intention. [5:46]
Invest, Then Test | Matthew shares why trying and staying confident is key to finding love. [7:20]
Complicated | Matthew shares why we try to force a fix when it gets complicated. [12:45]
Fantasy | Matthew reveals the pitfalls of writing a story in your head before it’s unfolded. [15:15]
Process | Matthew shares the four stages of importance in developing any relationship. [18:13]
Maintenance | Matthew discusses why the work in a relationship never ends. [23:52]
What They Actually Mean | Matthew reveals the true meaning behind what he says. [27:09]
What You Can Trust | Matthew reveals what you can trust that signals he likes you. [31:45]
Ask | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t shy away from asking the tough questions. [33:56]
Be Ruthless | Matthew reveals why you have to stand firm in your conviction. [39:21]
Love Switches | Matthew discusses the importance of knowing what your partner needs. [40:05]
Difficult Talks | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t steer clear of difficult conversations. [43:12]

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Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/
Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order
Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase
your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa.
Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" 
(NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon

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