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My name is Lyss and I'm on a mission to heal all the broken hearts. New episodes every Monday.

  1. 8 HR AGO

    you are your values. you attract exactly who you are.

    This episode is me unpacking my summer all through the lens of values. I realized that authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence aren’t just “nice to have,” they’re literally the blueprint for my entire reality. Every decision I made this summer.. who I dated, how I worked, what I tolerated, what I walked away from, all came back to these values. I want you to not just hear my stories, but to start writing down your own non-negotiables and embodying them like your life depends on it, bc it does.

    37 min

  2. 5 DAYS AGO

    How to RESET AND GLOW UP this September. Fall 2025 is a new year. 🍁✨☕

    September Reset!!! Embrace Your New Self for Fall 2025 In this episode, I kick off a fresh season with a comprehensive guide to the ultimate September reset for Fall 2025. I share my personal experiences of feeling stagnant throughout the year and the transformative energy shift I felt as September began. I delve into crafting new daily routines, embodying higher-self affirmations, and reprogramming the mind to focus on future goals. I emphasize the importance of physical health, detailing my gut health detox and newfound running routine while advocating for lifestyle changes such as quitting alcohol. I also discuss the significance of revamping our external appearances to reflect internal growth and fostering relationships that uplift and align with this new identity. I encourage listeners to realign their thoughts, prioritize wellness, and let go of past negativity to step confidently into a transformed self for the remainder of the year. TIME GUIDE: 00:00 Welcome to the September Reset 01:02 Reflecting on 2025: A Year of Stagnation and Change 02:07 The Ultimate September Fall Reset 04:32 Visualization and Affirmations for a New You 08:36 Rewriting Your Self-Concept 13:01 Embodying a New Identity 21:42 Health and Wellness: Gut Health and Detox 33:26 Transforming Relationships and Letting Go 36:38 Community Insights and Future Plans 40:38 Conclusion: Embracing Freedom Fall

    41 min

  3. 31 AUG

    Babe, you are not a "MAYBE". Choose yourself and get out of waiting energy.

    Never Be Someone's Maybe: Choose Yourself First In this episode, I dive into the transformative power of fully choosing and loving yourself. I emphasize that once you make a conscious decision to prioritize yourself, everything misaligned will naturally fall away. I share personal anecdotes about my past relationships and how being someone's 'maybe' drained my self-worth and confidence. I explain that the uncertain 'maybe' energy in relationships kept me stuck and blocked me from receiving life’s blessings. By choosing myself first and stepping into my power, I was able to manifest a more abundant and fulfilling life. This episode underscores the importance of self-worth, certainty, and alignment in attracting the right people and opportunities into your life. 00:00 Choosing Yourself: The Power of Self-Love 00:40 The Pain of 'Maybe' Relationships 02:04 Realizing Self-Worth in Relationships 05:08 Breaking Free from Toxic Cycles 09:27 The Journey to Self-Healing 20:08 Living in the Fourth Dimension 22:35 Navigating New Relationships with Self-Worth 27:38 Choosing Yourself and Eliminating 'Maybe' Energy 28:29 Personal Anecdote: The Equality Debate 29:25 The Impact of 'Maybe' Frequency on Relationships 35:41 Manifesting Through Alignment and Certainty 44:00 The Power of Making Clear Decisions 50:05 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement

    51 min

  4. 24 AUG

    You can't miss what's DESTINED FOR YOU. Relax.

    TRUST THE DIVINE PLAN. There are no rules. Just be YOU. In this episode, I yap about the importance of self-love and letting go of societal dating rules. From a coffee spill incident to deeper reflections on destiny and soul bonds, I emphasize that what is meant for you will never pass you by. Through personal anecdotes and the concept of the 'removal prayer,' I encourage you to trust divine timing and live authentically without fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that rejection is merely redirection towards what is truly meant for your soul. 00:00 Introduction: Embrace Self-Love and Authenticity 00:43 Funny Story Time: Coffee Mishap 04:00 Main Topic: You Cannot Mess Up What Is Destined for You 07:08 Breaking Dating Rules: Trust Your Intuition 07:31 Personal Story: Unconventional Relationship 11:32 The Power of Self-Love and Confidence 12:26 Story Time: Pub Encounter and Crushing 28:51 Rejection and Divine Timing 35:23 Conclusion: Trust the Divine Plan

    36 min

  5. 19 AUG

    The Power of Authenticity and Manifesting INSTANTLY with Isabelle Keating

    Did you know authenticity helps you manifest instantly? In this episode, me and one of my best friends Isabelle chat about the importance of being authentic and true to oneself in the podcasting world and beyond. We cover topics such as the 4th dimension, Kundalini energy, and quantum manifestation. We also emphasize the significance of speaking positive words, being patient, and living in the present to achieve one's highest potential. Everything in DIVINE TIMING BABY. ... 00:00 Introduction 00:21 The Power of Words and Positive Speaking 00:47 Navigating Waiting Periods and Manifestation 01:09 Welcome to the Podcast with Isabelle 01:30 Authentic Conversations and Podcasting Style 02:11 Introduction to the Fourth Dimension 02:58 Isabelle Keating's Background and Kundalini Energy 04:06 The Shift in Social Norms and Consciousness 07:46 The Role of Authenticity in Social Media 12:01 The Importance of Living in the Present 18:25 The Wellness Trend and Kundalini Energy 19:56 Overcoming Hardships and Achieving Alignment 27:30 Building and Creating Together 27:45 Lessons from My Dad's Business Journey 28:47 Quantum Jumping and Focusing on the Future 31:24 Manifesting Through Words and Thoughts 42:30 The Power of Patience and Divine Timing 47:46 Embracing the Present and Self-Love 48:58 Mastering Time and Energy in the 4D 52:10 Decide and Command Your Reality 53:50 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

    55 min

  6. 7 AUG

    You are SO WORTHY of your wildest dreams ✨ with Andraya Kenton

    In this episode, I sit down with one of my good friends and ultimate boss muses, Andraya Kenton - the visionary founder behind Celeste Starre, Meme London, and the newest self-love ritual essential, Luna Roca (yes, volcanic face rollers that literally shift your frequency). We talk about: The power of words and intention in building your dream life Why your word is your wand (and how to cast with clarity) Manifesting success in business, love, and self-worth Navigating the sacred balance between work, motherhood, and home life Trusting you're worthy of big love and big dreams This episode is for the woman who knows she’s meant for more and is ready to claim it. ✨ Use code LYSS for $$ off all Celeste Starre, Meme London, and Luna Roca orders — because you deserve to wear your magic. SHOP LUNA ROCA HERE. Use code LYSS. Shop Celeste Starre here. Use code LYSS. Follow Andraya on instagram: @andrayakenton

    1h 13m

  7. 24 JUL

    London vs. New York dating culture + dating intentionally and KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT.

    On today’s episode, I unpack my personal experience between dating in New York vs. London and how British men have been a whole new vibe for my healed, golden-era self. We talk intentional love, love bombing, faith, and what it really means to be seen for who you are versus what you do. I also reflect on the signs that someone isn’t right for you and how to trust your intuition the first time.

    47 min
  8. How to ignite your DIVINE FEMININE ENERGY now. Instant energy upgrade. 🐆✨

    17 JUL

    How to ignite your DIVINE FEMININE ENERGY now. Instant energy upgrade. 🐆✨

    Divine feminine energy is the key to getting everything you want out of life. Living in flow, not force. Living in relaxation, not stress. Living in trust, not fear. Surrendering and letting the world come to YOU. If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend and leave a comment on Spotify. Xx, Lyss. 🐆✨✨

    41 min
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My name is Lyss and I'm on a mission to heal all the broken hearts. New episodes every Monday.

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  • Creator
    Lyss Boss
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    162
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Lyss Boss
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    Date Yourself Instead

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