How To Be Happy

BU Happiness College

There's no goal more universally desired than living a happy life. But these days, happiness can seem pretty hard to reach. That's why this podcast exists. To serve as a compass in your pursuit of happiness. Built on over 10 years of studying the science of happiness and 7+ years of coaching people across 5 countries, join your host & Happiness Researcher - Declan Edwards as he brings you: - evidence-based strategies for mastering your mind and emotions. - inspiring interviews with individuals who have transformed their lives - and practical tips and techniques to help you do the same.

  1. 12 AUG

    How To Have Difficult Conversations At Work - HTBHAW #15

    We all know those conversations; the ones you put off, rehearse in your head, and hope magically resolve themselves. Whether it’s giving feedback, setting a boundary, or addressing tension with a teammate or boss, tough conversations are a non-negotiable part of working well with others. But most of us were never taught how to have them. In this episode of How to Be Happy at Work, I unpack the real reasons we avoid difficult conversations (spoiler: fear, discomfort, and people-pleasing play a big role), and share evidence-based tools to help you show up with clarity and compassion. We’ll dive into: ✅ Why Brene Brown says "clear is kind", and how vagueness erodes trust ✅ Kim Scott’s Radical Candor model, and how to challenge directly while still caring personally ✅ The psychology behind our avoidance, including fear of rejection and the nervous system response ✅ The dangers of the dreaded “sh*t sandwich” feedback method (and what to do instead) ✅ Prompts, prep tips, and real-life examples to help you navigate hard conversations with confidence Whether you're a leader, teammate, or just someone who wants less awkwardness and more honesty at work; this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen now and learn how to make your next difficult conversation feel a little less... difficult. — If you haven’t subscribed yet, shared the show, or explored our free tools this is your sign! Find all our happiness resources and links via the link below. https://linktr.ee/that_happiness_guy

    26 min
  2. 5 AUG

    How To Recover From Burnout - HTBH #15

    Burnout isn’t just stress, it’s what happens when stress goes unaddressed for too long. And recovering from it isn’t something you can fast-track with a weekend off or a quick fix. Real recovery takes time, intention, and support. In the final part of our burnout series on How to Be Happy, we dive into what it actually takes to heal from burnout; emotionally, mentally, and physically. Drawing on the 12-stage burnout model, I’ll walk you through what recovery can look like at different stages, why it often takes months (not days), and how to rebuild your energy and sense of self from the inside out. We’ll also explore: ✅ Why burnout is often the result of neglecting yourself, your needs, and your values ✅ The role of guilt, people-pleasing, and over-identification with work in slowing down recovery ✅ How to process burnout in your body, not just your brain ✅ Tools to refill your cup and how to get the courage to leave unsustainable environments ✅ The long game: sustainable strategies to protect your energy going forward Plus, we answer some listener questions, including: “What does burnout feel like — and how do I know if I’m in it?” and “How do I recover when I feel totally depleted?” This one’s for you if you're healing from burnout now, or want to support someone who is. To access our free happiness tools or book in for support, click the link below and don’t forget to subscribe and share the show to help spread the ripple effect. https://linktr.ee/that_happiness_guy

    20 min
  3. 29 JUL

    Create a Workplace Culture You Can Be Proud Of With Karl Treacher - HTBHAW #14

    What really drives culture in the workplace? And how do we evolve it in the face of uncertainty, hybrid work, and shifting employee expectations?In this episode, I’m joined by Karl Treacher — Group CEO of The Culture Institute of Australia and one of the leading voices in culture, leadership, and brand alignment. Together, we explore the real-world challenges that organisations are facing today, and what it actually takes to build a healthy, high-performance culture from the inside out.We talk about:* The difference between values, behaviours, and true culture* Why trust and psychological safety are non-negotiable for the future of work* How to diagnose cultural issues before they become costly* What the most adaptive and successful organisations are doing differently post-pandemic* Karl’s insights from decades of working with government, education, healthcare, and global brandsWhether you're in HR, leadership, or just someone who wants to influence your team in a more meaningful way; this conversation is packed with practical insights and forward-thinking ideas. Ready to become a more conscious culture leader? Tap play and dive in. Don’t forget to subscribe to the show if you haven’t already, we pay to protect 1 square metre of forest for every new subscriber.Connect with Declan on social media, and get all of his happiness resources via this link: https://linktr.ee/that_happiness_guyLoved this conversation with Karl and want to stay connected? Follow his work via the links below:https://www.linkedin.com/in/treacherhttps://cultureinstitute.com.au/about-ver4/

    49 min
  4. 22 JUL

    How To Prevent Burnout - HTBH #14

    If you're tired of constantly flirting with burnout and wondering why the same patterns keep showing up, this episode is for you. In part two of our burnout series, we move beyond early warning signs and dive into the heart of why burnout keeps happening even when we think we’re doing everything “right.” We explore the systemic and psychological traps that fuel burnout, including perfectionism, people-pleasing, lack of boundaries, and the deeper drive for validation. You’ll learn: Why great intentions often still lead to burnout How to create environments (at work and in life) that support energy, not just effort The critical difference between sustainable self-care and reactive self-soothing Why saying "yes" too often is costing you more than you realise This one’s not just about tips and tools, it’s about shifting the whole way you think about work, worth, and wellbeing. 🎧 Tap play to start preventing burnout in a more meaningful way. And if you’re enjoying this series, make sure to follow the show so you don’t miss the final part on recovery. 🌱 Only 20% of regular listeners have hit that subscribe button. If you’re one of the 80% who hasn’t yet, we’d love for you to join us because for every new subscriber, we now protect a square metre of rainforest. 💚 And if you’re ready to take things further, click the link below to access free tools like our Happiness Scorecard, book a complimentary call, or jump on the waitlist for my new book. THIS IS THE LINK YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR: https://linktr.ee/that_happiness_guy Let’s beat burnout and build a life that feels good to live.

    15 min

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There's no goal more universally desired than living a happy life. But these days, happiness can seem pretty hard to reach. That's why this podcast exists. To serve as a compass in your pursuit of happiness. Built on over 10 years of studying the science of happiness and 7+ years of coaching people across 5 countries, join your host & Happiness Researcher - Declan Edwards as he brings you: - evidence-based strategies for mastering your mind and emotions. - inspiring interviews with individuals who have transformed their lives - and practical tips and techniques to help you do the same.

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