Nice & Neat The Podcast

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Tasteful conversations w/substance. For men looking for a voice. For women looking for understanding. Hosted by Jalon Webster, Duke Ihenacho & Omar Bolden. Episodes drop Thursday, noon pacific time.

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    Pastor Ray Murray (EP. 143)

    NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️    (EP. 143) “Pastor Ray Murray 143)   What up NaN Gang!    HE SPEAKS THE TRUTH MOST PEOPLE AVOID. HE'S LIVED IT, LED THROUGH IT, AND KNOWS HOW TO WALK OTHERS THROUGH IT. RAY MURRAY IS THE AUTHOR OF THE NEW BOOK BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED: 5 POWER QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE TAKING THE NEXT STEP AND THE CREATOR OF THE BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED 5-DAY CHALLENGE, A NATIONAL MOVEMENT HELPING COUPLES BUILD RELATIONSHIPS WITH CLARITY BEFORE THEY COMMIT. WITH DUAL MASTER'S DEGREES IN THEOLOGY AND LEADERSHIP, AND CERTIFICATIONS IN BOTH COACHING AND PREMARITAL COUNSELING, RAY MURRAY BRINGS ACADEMIC DEPTH AND REAL-WORLD WISDOM TO EVERY CONVERSATION ABOUT LOVE, PURPOSE, AND PARTNERSHIP. RAY HAS SPENT THE LAST DECADE HELPING PROFESSIONALS, INFLUENCERS, AND EVERYDAY COUPLES GO FROM CHEMISTRY TO CLARITY. WHETHER IT'S A PODCAST, PULPIT, OR PANEL, PASTOR RAY DOESN'T JUST SPEAK. HE SHIFTS THE ROOM.   Purchase your copy here! https://a.co/d/fcnpJW4   Drop your thoughts in the comments & don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share!   Let us know your thoughts on this episode!   JOIN US PATREON‼️   https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator)   LISTEN 🎧   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027   Thank you for joining us!   Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe   Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾   https://theculturesherb.com/   PROMOTE WITH US!     https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051)     CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com     @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon       Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

    1h 12m
  2. 7 AUG

    “Healing, Singleness & Dating in Her Power” | Featuring Gia Peppers (EP. 140)

    NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️    (EP. 140) “Healing, Singleness & Dating in Her Power”  | Featuring Gia Peppers  EP. 140)   What up NaN Gang!    Nice & Neat the Podcast | Featuring Gia Peppers   On this episode, we’re joined by Gia Peppers—host of Healed Girl Era, on-air talent, and a woman deeply rooted in faith and purpose—to unpack one powerful question:   Are women single by choice or by circumstance? We explore why more women are choosing themselves, how the dating pool affects emotional availability, and what it truly means to be a “healed girl” navigating love, purpose, and identity.   We also dive into:      •    Singleness as empowerment vs. loneliness    •    The stigma around unmarried women    •    Why “nice guys” often feel overlooked    •    Healing generational patterns in love    •    Confidence, kindness, and what women really want in a man     This conversation is raw, real, and reflective—don’t miss it.   #HealedGirlEra #GiaPeppers #NiceAndNeatPodcast #Dating #Healing #Singleness #Faith #NiceGuys #BlackLove #ModernRelationships   Drop your thoughts in the comments & don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share!   Let us know your thoughts on this episode!   JOIN US PATREON‼️   https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator)   LISTEN 🎧   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027   Thank you for joining us!   Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe   Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾   https://theculturesherb.com/   PROMOTE WITH US!     https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051)     CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com     @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon       Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

    1h 1m
  3. 26 JUL

    LOVE AND LESSONS | Featuring John Gaines (EP. 139)

    NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️  (EP. 139) “LOVE AND LESSONS | Featuring John Gaines ” EP. 139)  What up NaN Gang!  Nice & Neat the Podcast | Featuring John Gaines In this powerful and transparent episode, we sit down with motivational speaker, fitness influencer, and father John Gaines for a raw conversation about life, love, and legacy. John opens up about what it’s been like navigating fatherhood after a public relationship and breakup. He shares the highs and lows of co-parenting in the public eye, and the lessons he’s learned about protecting your peace, showing up for your child, and healing with purpose. John also reflects on the unshakable brotherhood between the hosts of Nice & Neat and what it means to surround yourself with men who hold you accountable and uplift you in the process. Whether you’re a father, aspiring partner, or someone simply navigating personal growth—this episode has something for you. Tap in, take notes, and enjoy another honest, growth-centered conversation. #JohnGaines #NiceAndNeatThePodcast #CoParenting #Brotherhood #MensMentalHealth #Healing #Fatherhood Drop your thoughts in the comments & don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share! Let us know your thoughts on this episode! JOIN US PATREON‼️ https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator) LISTEN 🎧 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027 Thank you for joining us! Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾 https://theculturesherb.com/ PROMOTE WITH US! https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051) CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

    49 min
  4. 17 JUL

    “THE BOYZ ARE BACK IN TOWN” - Catching Up, Bro Moments, & the State of the World (EP 138)

    NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️  (EP. 138) “THE BOYZ ARE BACK IN TOWN” EP. 138) Catching Up, Bro Moments, & the State of the World.  What up NaN Gang!  It’s Been a Minute! We’re back with the same energy this week! After some time apart, we kicked things off with some warm-up vibes — catching up on life, sharing quick updates (yes, Duke’s deep in wedding planning 👀), and of course, some classic “bro moments” that’ll have you cracking up. We got spontaneous and ask: “If your relationship had to be summed up in 3 words, what would it be?” — Jalon says “Up and Up”, Omar’s all in with “Down to ride”, and Duke? “Let’s f***ing go!” From there, we dive into some timely conversation: ✅ How the world feels lately — from rising global tension to daily deportations ✅ How current events weigh on men’s mental health ✅ What protection, responsibility, and modern masculinity really look like today Tap in for some laughs, some real talk, and that brotherhood energy you know and love. 👇 Drop your “3-word relationship” in the comments — we want to hear yours! #NiceAndNeatPodcast #MensMentalHealth #ModernMasculinity #CatchUpEpisode #BroMoments Drop your thoughts in the comments & don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share! Let us know your thoughts on this episode! JOIN US PATREON‼️ https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator) LISTEN 🎧 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027 Thank you for joining us! Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾 https://theculturesherb.com/ PROMOTE WITH US! https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051) CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

    1h 3m
  5. 17 JUL

    WHY GREAT LEADERS MAKE PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE (EP. 137)

    WHY GREAT LEADERS MAKE PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE (EP. 137) NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️     What up NaN Gang!  Being the leader of your home isn’t just about providing—it’s about setting the emotional tone, initiating tough conversations, and staying grounded even when things get difficult. In this episode of Nice & Neat The Podcast, we dive deep into what it truly means to lead as a man. We discuss: ✅ The power of initiating uncomfortable conversations ✅ Why you can’t afford to “match energy” in a negative way ✅ Leading your home emotionally, even when it’s inconvenient ✅ The importance of a shared foundation in relationships Leadership isn’t always easy, but it’s necessary. Are you ready to step up? Let’s talk about it. Drop your thoughts in the comments & don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share! #NiceAndNeatPodcast #MenAndLeadership #Relationships #EmotionalIntelligence #Manhood FINDING MR. RIGHT IN 2025 https://niceandneatthepodcast.com/collections/all Let us know your thoughts on this episode! JOIN US PATREON‼️ https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator) LISTEN 🎧 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027 Thank you for joining us! Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾 PROMOTE WITH US! https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051) CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

    55 min
  6. 29 MAR

    Why Age Matters More Than You Think (EP. 136

    NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️  (EP. 136) Why Age Matters More Than You Think (EP. 136)   What up NaN Gang!  They say age is just a number, but is it really? Everyone’s age tells a story. In this episode of Nice & Neat The Podcast, we dive into the impact of age gaps in relationships. From differences in mentality and interests to the challenges (and benefits) of growing together, we explore why age can play a major role in long-term compatibility. Are you dating someone older or younger? How has the age gap affected your relationship? Drop your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations on love, growth, and everything in between. #NiceAndNeat #Relationships #AgeGap #Dating #LoveAndGrowth FINDING MR. RIGHT IN 2025 https://niceandneatthepodcast.com/collections/all Let us know your thoughts on this episode! JOIN US PATREON‼️ https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator) LISTEN 🎧 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027 Thank you for joining us! Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾 PROMOTE WITH US! https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051) CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

    55 min
  7. 24 FEB

    (EP. 135) MOST WOMEN ARE NOT SINGLE BY CHOICE

    NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️  (EP. 135) MOST WOMEN ARE NOT SINGLE BY CHOICE Full Episode (EP. 135)  What up NaN Gang!  Are you always in a relationship, or have you never been in one? In this episode of Nice & Neat the Podcast, we dive into the psychology behind both extremes. Are you dependent on relationships for stability, or do you genuinely love security? If you’ve never been in a relationship, is it a fear of intimacy, rejection, or are you truly happy alone? We break down the importance of being the one rather than constantly searching for the one. Whether you’re a serial dater or someone who’s never committed, this episode will challenge your perspective on love, connection, and self-growth. Key Topics: ✅ Relationship dependency vs. stability ✅ Fear of being alone vs. love for security ✅ Is never being in a relationship a fear of intimacy or rejection? ✅ Can people truly be happy alone? ✅ The importance of becoming the one before finding the one Hit that LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE button and let us know - are you always in a relationship, never in one, or somewhere in between? #NiceAndNeat #Relationships #Dating #SelfGrowth #LoveAndIntimacy FINDING MR. RIGHT IN 2025 https://niceandneatthepodcast.com/collections/all Let us know your thoughts on this episode! JOIN US PATREON‼️ https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator) LISTEN 🎧 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-neat-the-podcast/id1554782027 Thank you for joining us! Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾 PROMOTE WITH US! https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051) CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    58 min

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Tasteful conversations w/substance. For men looking for a voice. For women looking for understanding. Hosted by Jalon Webster, Duke Ihenacho & Omar Bolden. Episodes drop Thursday, noon pacific time.

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