The Thais Gibson Podcast

The Thais Gibson Podcast

Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    THIS Is How To Heal Fearful Avoidant Triggers FAST & Improve Relationships

    Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Are you feeling the ups and downs of a relationship that seems like an emotional rollercoaster? In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of the Personal Development School, dives into the root of this instability by exploring the fearful avoidant attachment style and its common triggers. Learn how unresolved core wounds, like fear of betrayal or rejection, resurface in relationships, creating intense, often overwhelming emotions. Thais shares actionable steps for rewiring these subconscious patterns to foster secure, healthy attachments. Tune in to discover transformative exercises that help you break free from the cycle of fear and instability, leading to more fulfilling relationships and inner peace. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    23 min
  2. 3 DAYS AGO

    Why Do Avoidant Attachment Styles Ghost And How to Move On!

    Discover the keys to overcoming pain, apply post-traumatic growth principles, and reprogram your subconscious with the "How to Heal From a Breakup" course. Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-11-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-11-24&el=podcast In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive into the complex dynamics of ghosting, focusing on the behavior patterns of dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant attachment styles. Join Thais and her co-host, Mike, as they unpack why dismissive avoidants often ghost during dating and relationships, shedding light on common misconceptions and the deeper fears that drive this behavior. They discuss the role of online dating culture in normalizing ghosting and how attachment wounds play a part in avoiding confrontation or difficult conversations. The episode explores ghosting across different relationship stages, from early dating to long-term commitments, and the unique reasons why avoidant types may disengage without explanation. Thais shares personal stories and offers compassionate advice on how to handle being ghosted, focusing on self-worth and emotional healing. Listeners will learn actionable steps to heal from the pain of ghosting, including how to reframe the experience, understand the attachment patterns at play, and build resilience. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has faced ghosting or wants to deepen their understanding of attachment theory in modern relationships. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:00:30 - Welcome & Introduction of Guest and Topic 00:01:18 - Overview of Avoidant Attachment Styles and Ghosting 00:02:50 - Online Dating Culture and Ghosting 00:05:18 - The Stages of Relationships and Ghosting at Each Stage 00:10:08 - Communication Challenges: Why People Ghost 00:13:09 - Handling the Emotional Impact of Being Ghosted 00:18:02 - Personal Story: The Experience of Being Ghosted 00:24:45 - Ghosting in Long-Term Relationships and the Consequences 00:28:46 - 14-Day Free Trial Mention for Healing Resources 00:30:18 - Ghosting by Fearful Avoidants: Personal Experiences 00:39:05 - Healing Strategies for the Anxious Attachment Style 00:44:08 - Balancing Reciprocity in Relationships 00:54:44 - Understanding Self-Worth in the Context of Ghosting 00:55:00 - Outro & Final Thoughts Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 12m
  3. 5 DAYS AGO

    Early Dating & Texting Expectations of Each Attachment Style

    Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-09-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-09-24&el=podcast Join us for an in-depth exploration of attachment styles and relationship dynamics! In this episode, we dive into the communication patterns of different attachment styles—especially how dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, and anxious styles approach calling, texting, and the challenges of early dating. Discover actionable insights on finding healthy compromises, spotting green flags when a partner is truly doing the work, and strengthening your own attachment style. Plus, learn powerful ways to foster secure, confident connections with science-backed tools for a more fulfilling relationship journey. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 02:45- DA Texting & Calling Recap 08:23 - Share Your Needs With DAs 14:19 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 15:11 - Share Your Needs With DAs Cont’d 21:58 - Live Exercise: DA 34:41 - Hello Fresh 36:09 - Live Exercise: FA 41:02 - Live Exercise: AP 43:24 - FAs and Rushing Relationship Milestones 48:18 - Integrated Attachment Theory Certification 49:29 - FAs and Phone Calls 53:53 - Ideal Quality Time for DAs in Dating 56:02 - Ideal Quality Time for FAs in Dating 58:35 - Why Don't APs Date Other APs? 1:06:14 - DAs and Drinking 1:08:28 - Conclusion  Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 16m
  4. 7 NOV

    THIS Is How Avoidants Get You Addicted to Them

    Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-07-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-07-24&el=podcast In this insightful episode, we dive into the addictive cycle of attachment to avoidant partners. If you've ever found yourself caught in the emotional highs and lows of a relationship, where one day you’re close and the next they’re distant, this episode is for you. Host Thais Gibson, a coach and counselor with over a decade of experience in attachment theory, unpacks the psychological mechanisms that keep people hooked on avoidant partners. By exploring groundbreaking studies, Thais reveals how intermittent reinforcement affects our brains similarly to gambling or substance addiction, creating an emotional dependency. Listen in to understand why these dynamics feel so hard to break, and learn practical steps to regain control of your emotions and move toward secure, fulfilling relationships. Stick around for tools on reprogramming core wounds and identifying your own unmet needs, empowering you to break free from self-abandonment and avoid the breadcrumb relationships. Tune in, take back your life, and discover how to move towards authentic connection. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    20 min
  5. 4 NOV

    Why Avoidants Avoid Commitments & How to Know If an Avoidant Will Heal!

    Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-04-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-04-24&el=podcast Join Thais Gibson and Mike in this deep-dive discussion into attachment theory, where they unpack why dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant attachment styles may struggle with future planning and commitments. They reveal the significance of co-regulation in relationships, especially for individuals with avoidant tendencies, and how it can foster comfort in deeper connections. The episode also explores how anxious attachment styles intersect with avoidant partners and shares tools for each attachment type to work towards secure, fulfilling relationships. Listen in to understand why attachment dynamics influence relationship behaviors and to gain actionable advice on building trust and intimacy through vulnerability and self-awareness. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 03:16 - Planning for the Future: FA 15:32 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 16:22 - Planning For the Future: DA 24:03- Expectation for Intimacy 26:12 - Signs of Healing 28:30 - Co-regulation 38:17 - Hello Fresh 39:45 - YouTube Question: Mike (DA) & What Led Him to Change 53:07 - Integrated Attachment Theory Certification 54:17 - YouTube Question: Thais (AP) 1:00:47 - YouTube Question: Thais (FA) 1:03:04 - What Led Thais to Change 1:09:07 - Victim Mentality & Accountability 1:16:49 - Conclusion  Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 24m

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Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!

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