Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

Mary Jelkovsky

Welcome to Self Love. We cover topics surrounding self love including body-image, confidence, self-worth, body positivity, mindset, mental health, feminism, relationships, and so much more. Along the way, your host Mary lets you in on her personal life, never shying away from the messy, raw, and real conversations that we all crave. So grab a cup of tea, slide in your headphones, and get ready for some self-lovin!

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    Body Love & Self Worth for Women Who Hate Beauty Standards | Best of Mary’s Cup of Tea

    Body love can feel impossible in a world obsessed with beauty standards, especially for women. In this self love podcast episode, we’re diving into body love, self worth, and how women can navigate a world that often undervalues them. This is part of our “Best Of Mary’s Cup of Tea” series where you’ll hear a compilation of clips from our self love podcast. Today’s topic addresses how to love yourself beyond your appearance and approach body image challenges with self compassion. You will hear about… how to be body positive and navigate health challenges with self compassiondetaching your self worth from beauty standards and external validationthe slew of socio-cultural forces that make body love really fckn hard for womenhow to decide what clothes to wear when you’re having a bad body image daybody shame in the bedroomdealing with weight gainpractical ways to cultivate body love and self worth  Whether you’re starting your journey toward body love or just need a refresher, these conversations will remind you that your self worth is not determined by your appearance. If you want to dive deeper into your body love journey, here are the links to the full episodes: Can Food Freedom Coexist with Chronic Conditions (PCOS, Celiacs, Crohns, IBS, etc)? with Abbie AttwoodHow to Be Body Positive AND Pursue HealthConquering Summer Body Image StrugglesHow Women's Body Image is Plagued by "Beauty Sickness" w/ Dr. Renee EngelnYour Summer Body (a Pep Talk for Body Love)Where Beauty Standards Come From and How to Stop Self-Objectification with Dr. Lindsay KiteHow to Love Yourself Through Bad Body Image DaysFeeling Like Your Body Betrayed You with Grief Expert Ashley LemieuxConquering Body Shame in the BedroomDealing with Weight GainDeepen your self-love journey with Mary’s books: *The Gift of Self-Love,* an interactive workbook to help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.*100 Days of Self-Love,* a guided journal with 100 prompts for calming self-criticism and learning to love yourself.Follow Mary Jelkovsky on Instagram: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcast If you’re enjoying this self love podcast, share it with the women in your life to challenge beauty standards, inspire body love, and spread the gift of self love.

    1 h 21 min
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    Eating Disorder Recovery Tools for Women Who Are DONE with Diet Culture | Best of Mary’s Cup of Tea

    Eating disorder recovery is possible, even if it feels difficult at times. So many women struggle in silence with disordered eating and the constant pressure of diet culture, even if they’re not formally diagnosed with an eating disorder. In this special “Best Of” episode, I’m sharing some of the most powerful moments from our self-love podcast. And today’s topic is eating disorder recovery, breaking free from diet culture and leaning into intuitive eating. You’ll hear bits and pieces of my personal eating disorder story, what helped me recover from bulimia, as well as advice from therapists and dietitians. You will hear about... how diet culture works in insidious waysmy experience with an eating disorder (bulimia + binge eating)the root cause of binge eating and how to break the cyclewhat finally helped me overcome binge eatingwhy intuitive eating works is so much more liberating than any diet or weight loss program  Whether you are just beginning your eating disorder recovery journey or you’ve been working at it for years, these conversations will remind you that recovery is not only possible—it’s worth it. Here are the links to the full episodes: Sneaky Eating Disorder Habits You Might Still Struggle WithThe Spiritual Side of Eating Disorder Recovery with Dr. Anita JohnstonHow Diet Culture Hijacks Women’s Wellness with Christy Harrison, MPHGiving Up Fitness Influencing (Christy Harrison Interviews Mary Jelkovsky)My Entire Eating Disorder Story: the Dark Side of Bikini CompetitionsWhy Binge Eating Isn’t Really About Food with Nutritionist and Therapist Ryann PrenticeHow Intuitive Eating Helped Heal with Elyse Resch, MS, RDNAn Intuitive Eating Mindset Hack: Balance vs. Harmony  If you’re enjoying our self love podcast, share it with the women in your life to combat diet culture, promote positive body image, and spread the gift of self love. Deepen your self-love journey with Mary’s books: *The Gift of Self-Love,* an interactive workbook to help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.*100 Days of Self-Love,* a guided journal with 100 prompts for calming self-criticism and learning to love yourself.  Follow Mary Jelkovsky on Instagram: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcast

    48 min
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    How Diet Culture Hijacks Women’s Wellness w/ Christy Harrison, MPH (Encore)

    Diet culture has a sneaky way of showing up everywhere. From weightloss plans disguised as “lifestyle changes” to wellness trends promising to heal everything from your skin to your soul. In this encore episode, I’m joined by Christy Harrison, MPH, RD—author of The Wellness Trap and Anti-Diet—to unpack how diet culture infiltrates the wellness world and impacts women’s health in ways that are anything but healthy. Christy explains how the multi-billion-dollar wellness industry often sells us pseudoscience, dubious diagnoses, and rigid food rules that can lead to disordered eating, body image issues, and mental health struggles. We talk about why so many people—especially women—get caught in this cycle, how eating disorders aren’t always obvious, and why scientific literacy is one of the most powerful tools for protecting your health. You will learn...  Why diet culture’s obsession with weight loss harms physical and mental healthHow wellness trends exploit fear to sell ineffective or harmful solutionsThe connection between restrictive eating, binge eating, bulimia, and long-term health issuesWhy women are extra susceptible to falling into diet culture and wellness trendsHow social media and our political climate contributes to wellness mis- and dis-informationRemember: Your worth isn’t measured by your weight, your diet, or how “well” you follow health trends. Real wellness is about freedom and self compassion. Christy Harrison, MPH, RD, is a registered dietitian nutritionist, certified intuitive eating counselor, and journalist who has been covering food, nutrition, and health for more than 20 years. She is the author of two books, The Wellness Trapand Anti-Diet, and host of the podcasts Rethinking Wellness and Food Psych. Christy’s decades of work in journalism, nutrition, and intuitive eating have helped thousands break free from the false promises of diet culture and find a more compassionate, evidence-based approach to food and health. Whether you’ve struggled with dieting, fallen into the wellness trap, or simply want to support women’s health in a more sustainable way, this conversation will help you see wellness culture in a whole new light. Get Christy’s latest book: The Wellness Trap: Break Free from Diet Culture, Disinformation, and Dubious Diagnoses and Find Your True Well-Being Learn more about Christy at christyharrison.com and follow her on Instagram @chr1styharrison Mentioned in This Episode: Fears About Food Additives, article by Christy Harrison Is Red Food Dye Dangerous? If you’re enjoying this self love podcast, share it with the women in your life to combat diet culture, promote body positivity, and spread self love.

    1 h 25 min
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    To Love Yourself, You Have to Tell the TRUTH

    You can’t truly love yourself if you’re lying to yourself. And you certainly can’t find peace in a version of you that’s not real. Because when you try to love a version of yourself that isn’t true, it feels empty. It’s like people-pleasing: if you sacrifice authenticity for approval, then who are they really approving of? Not the real you. And the same goes for self-approval. If we dress up a lie and call it self love, we’re building a facade that will inevitably crumble. Self love requires radical self honesty. In this episode, you will learn… Why women, in particular, tend to lie to themselves (even more than they lie to others)What all major religions and spiritual teachings say about truth-telling3 simple but profound ways to use honesty as a daily practice of loving yourselfWe’ll also explore ideas from authors like bell hooks, George Saunders, Don Miguel Ruiz, and Tara Brach, whose teachings remind us that honesty is the foundation of love. If you’ve ever felt like self-love doesn’t “work” for you, or that you’re doing everything but still feel disconnected, this episode might reveal why and inspire you to honestly love yourself. Remember: telling the truth isn’t about sharing every secret, it’s about staying rooted in what’s real. And what’s real—no matter how messy—is worthy of self love. Deepen your self-love journey with Mary’s books: The Gift of Self-Love, an interactive workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.100 Days of Self-Love, a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.Follow Mary on IG: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcast If you’re enjoying this self-love podcast, share it with the women in your life. Your support helps keep this show—and the message of self-love, confidence, and mental health—alive and thriving. 🫖 P.S. This self-love podcast episode pairs beautifully with: Ep. 212: How To Be Honest With YourselfEp. 213: Sick of People-Pleasing? Listen to this.Ep. 242: How To Stop Comparing Your Current Self to Your Past Self

    23 min
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    5 Signs of Low Self Esteem & How To Build Confidence (Encore)

    A lack of self-confidence doesn’t always scream at you—sometimes it whispers in the background of your day. Today,  Mary shares 5 not-so-obvious signs that your self-confidence might be quietly taking a hit… signs she’s personally working through, too. These confidence red flags are common, especially amongst women. From seeking validation in the wrong places to constantly doubting your decisions, exploring self-confidence struggles can also help you shift them. If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting your own inner wisdom, this episode is for you. You will learn how to...  stop trying to fill inner voids with external things (AKA build self-worth from within)start trusting yourself more, even when life feels uncertainbreak out of a victim mindset and reassure yourself that you are enough  Because here’s the truth about confidence: no amount of success, praise, or “shiny new thing” will give you lasting confidence or a truly positive mindset. You’re the only one who can create those feelings within yourself. And while that might sound daunting, it’s also incredibly empowering. And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:  The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.  If you’re enjoying this self-love podcast, share it with the women in your life! Just don't say Mary's Cup of Tea is the best self-love podcast for women ;)

    27 min
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    Building Confidence Through Mindfulness with Harvard Psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer

    Ever wonder how some people move through life with ease, even when everything feels uncertain? According to Harvard psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer, it’s not about control—it’s about mindfulness. Mindfulness can be a vehicle to confidence, happiness and inner peace. Dr. Ellen shares with us her refreshingly practical take on mindfulness—not as meditation, but as a way of engaging with the world that leads to more confidence and self-trust. You’ll hear her thoughts on why stress is optional, how to stop overthinking, and how letting go of “right vs. wrong” thinking can open up space for happiness. You will learn how to...  move through life more mindfully confidently make decisionsbe more comfortable with uncertainty break out of black-and-white thinking embrace your individualityRemember: Self-confidence doesn’t come from knowing. Rather, confidence comes from noticing. Ellen Langer earned her Ph.D. at Yale University in Social and Clinical Psychology and joined the faculty at Harvard in 1977. She is considered the mother of mindfulness and has written five books on the topic starting with her best-seller, Mindfulness, and her newest book, The Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health. The Langer Lab conducts research on health, happiness, decision- making, education, business and culture all through the lens of mindfulness. Because of this research, among other honors, Professor Langer has earned three Distinguished Scientist Awards, The Staats Award for Unifying Psychology, a Guggenheim Fellowship, and The Liberty Science Genius Award.  If you’re enjoying this self-love podcast, send it to a friend or share a screenshot on social media! Your support helps keep this podcast—and the message of self-love, confidence, and mental health—alive and thriving.

    29 min
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    The #1 Relationship Tip from Couples Therapy (That Transformed My Marriage, Family, and Friendships)

    If you are someone who loves building healthy relationships, communication skills, and personal growth, then this episode is for you. A few years ago in couples therapy, I learned one simple relationship tip that completely changed the way I communicate, especially during conflict. It’s something I come back to again and again, whether I’m arguing with my husband or navigating tension with a family member. This advice is so powerful because it works outside of romantic partnerships too—whether you're navigating tension with a friend, a family member, or anyone you love and respect. In this episode, I’m walking you through the exact phrase my therapist said that stopped me in my tracks, helped my husband and I reconnect, and later, helped my sister and I move from feeling misunderstood to finally hearing each other. But first, a big disclaimer: this tip only works with emotionally intelligent, securely attached people. It’s not for those in abusive dynamics or with people who are committed to misunderstanding you. If that’s something you’ve struggled with, I hope this episode gives you clarity on when to apply healthy communication tools—and when to have the self-worth to step away. You’ll learn: Why being “right” is overrated in relationshipsHow to shift from objective truth to subjective experiencesWhat emotionally-intelligent conflict resolution actually sounds likeHow to move from defensiveness to connection in under 10 minutesWhether you're in a long-term relationship or just want to improve how you show up for the people you love, this episode will give you the mindset shift you didn’t know you needed. Deepen your self-love journey with Mary’s books: *The Gift of Self-Love,* an interactive workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.*100 Days of Self-Love,* a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.Follow Mary on IG: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcast If you’re enjoying this self-love podcast, share it with the women in your life to spread the gift of self-love! Mentioned In This Episode... Ep. 170: Intentional Wedding Planning and Artful Gathering with Priya Parker Ep. 257: Me and My Sister Recap Our Trip to France Ep. 258: Confidence Advice for Teen Girls (feat. My Amazing Sister) Ep. 258: Confidence Advice for Teen Girls (feat. My Amazing Sister) Podcast Episode with relationship therapist, Terry Real Ep. 183: The Best Communication Book

    24 min

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Welcome to Self Love. We cover topics surrounding self love including body-image, confidence, self-worth, body positivity, mindset, mental health, feminism, relationships, and so much more. Along the way, your host Mary lets you in on her personal life, never shying away from the messy, raw, and real conversations that we all crave. So grab a cup of tea, slide in your headphones, and get ready for some self-lovin!

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