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Real compassion breaks down the barriers that divide us. It's not just about doing nice things, it's about creating a safety net of care. True compassion blurs the lines between "me" and "you." It's about understanding that we're all connected and that looking out for each other is what really matters.
Today, I welcome Alok Vaid-Menon, a writer, performer, and advocate known for their activism in the LGBTQ+ community. They're recognized for their insightful discussions on gender, identity, and social justice. Alok's work often challenges societal norms and perceptions, aiming to promote acceptance and equality for all genders. Their powerful storytelling and performances resonate with audiences worldwide, sparking important conversations about inclusivity and self-expression.
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Alok and I talked about how they were able to live authentically and how they found confidence through writing. We also explore finding beauty in the little things and how we connect in this digital world. Alok shares insights on dealing with hate using compassion and where all that hate might actually come from.
Make sure to sit back and relax as you listen to this insightful and inspiring conversation with Alok! 
 
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 00:29 Living authentically 02:15 Finding confidence through writing 06:17 Growing up different in Texas 08:24 Cultural influence on parenting 14:20 Appreciating parent’s sacrfices 16:34 The beauty in the mundane 20:24 Connection and community in a digital age 24:35 Handling hate with compassion 29:44 Where does hate come from? 33:33 What is true compassion? 39:38 Embracing every emotion in our growth 48:27 The intersection of religion, spirituality, and gender 52:19 Balancing masculine and feminine energies 55:52 Living your truth 58:12  Love across religious divides 1:01:14 The last time Alok had a good cry 1:04:12 What kind of crier is Alok? Follow Alok:
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Ever heard of the saying, “Listen to your gut?”
Your gut health plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being, influencing everything from digestion and nutrient absorption to immune function and even mood regulation.
It's like a second brain residing in your abdomen, communicating with your body in ways we're only beginning to understand.
Today, let's dive deep into simple yet effective ways to maintain a healthy gut. We'll cover practical tips for improving digestion and highlight common foods that can naturally enhance your gut health. We'll also touch on recognizable signs that might indicate if you're experiencing any gut-related issues.
By following these tips and incorporating digestion-friendly foods into your diet, you're taking a positive step towards a healthier gut and a happier version of yourself.
 
What We Discuss:
00:00 Everything is linked to our gut 01:07 What is gut health? 02:01 Signs of gut issues 05:56 Your body cleanses your insides at night 07:22 Tip #1: Control your sugar intake 13:54 Tip #2: Eat the rainbow - have a variety of natural foods in different colors 21:38 Tip #3: Stop drinking cold water 25:10 Tip #4: Incorporate spice in your food 29:10 Tip #5: Avoid eating raw foods 32:13 We have a responsibility to look after our health Follow Radhi:
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30, flirty, and single??
Today, Radhi welcomes two of her amazing best friends to A Really Good Cry, Francia Raisa and Deepica Mutyala! 
In this episode they openly discuss the joys and challenges of their friendship, highlighting the importance of genuine connections and the power of sisterhood. Francia and Deepica also share their personal journeys of defying these expectations and finding happiness in their own paths, proving that life doesn't always follow society's timelines.
Tune in to this captivating episode and witness the magic that happens when authentic friendships and personal transformations come together.
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 04:18 Being single-shamed 11:08 Choosing not to have kids 13:08 It’s okay to change your mind 14:14 Growing on your own first 18:09 Changing the social norms  20:38 Trusting yourself first, gain confidence after 22:51 Handling negative comments 24:40 Embracing every season of your life 29:40 “Don’t set yourself up for failure…” 33:12 Having a community and surrounding yourself with good people 40:22 Fear of doing something first 41:17 Masculine and feminine qualities in relationships 45:27 Definition of man and masculinity in dating 49:07 Financial responsibility in relationships 51:33 Be okay with your partner’s vulnerability 54:04 What makes a woman? 1:00:05 Qualities of a good friend 1:12:27 Check up on all your friends 1:14:44 How to handle unrequested opinions 1:20:18 Gossiping in relationships 1:27:12 Things to work on to become a better friend 1:34:03 Communicate with your friends better 1:39:53 Be open to new friendships 1:48:36 What type of crier are you? Follow Francia:
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Have you always been feeling tired recently? 
Feeling tired is something we all deal with—it's like running on empty, trying to keep up with everything on our plates.
But what if there are simple ways to avoid that drained feeling without making things overly complicated? In this episode, we're diving into eight easy tricks to sidestep that overwhelming tiredness.
From small adjustments in your routine to proven strategies, we'll uncover these simple yet effective ways to shake off that tiredness. No need for complex routines—just straightforward steps to get back your spark and enthusiasm.
Here are the 8 ways you could do to avoid feeling tired:
Get a full-body check-up Understand your hormones and cycles Take care of your gut Make sure to get enough sleep and rest Start exercising Connect with other people Avoid relying on sugar and coffee Do meditation and breathing exercises Join us as we explore these eight practical techniques, helping you bid farewell to feeling worn out and greet each day feeling energized!
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 02:26 Your body is asking for a break 04:45 Get a full-body check-up 06:45 What are the vitamins that you need? 13:37 The two main minerals  17:58 Effects of processed foods on our body 18:38 Hormones and cycles 24:40 Take care of your gut 28:45 How to solve your gut issues 31:29 Sleep and rest 35:22 Get moving and start exercising 37:23 Connect with other people 39:07 Sugar and coffee won’t give you energy 41:40 Meditation and breath work 43:01 Why you need to stay hydrated 44:09 Energy vampires and leaks Follow Radhi:
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You've heard the saying, 'You are what you eat.' But how true is that really?
On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry,  I had the pleasure of speaking with Jessie Inchauspé, a biochemist and author widely known as the Glucose Goddess. She's revolutionized how we think about diet, glucose, and overall wellness.
In this episode, Jessie dives into the science of glucose management and its profound impact on our daily lives. She shares her own story of figuring out how to feel better by changing what she eats.
Don't miss this episode with Jessie as she talks about her easy hacks for managing glucose, discusses the misleading world of food labels, and the personal breakthroughs that have made her a champion of change in nutritional science.
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 01:06 Jessie’s backstory 04:11 You are what you eat 05:27 What is glucose? 08:19 When should you get your glucose levels checked? 13:35 Sugar is addicting 15:09 The correct order of eating your foods 20:34 Dress your carbs 22:10 Exercise after your meal 24:36 Why you should add vinegar to your foods 27:26 Have a savory breakfast 31:06 Find the right diet for you 35:50 Do you want to start wearing a glucose monitor? 36:45 Symptoms are messages from your body 38:10 Food labels red flags 41:54 The role of diet in fertility 51:11 Sugar and dementia 53:28 Can sugar make you depressed? 56:36 Fast round with Jessie Follow Jessie:
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Breathe in positivity, exhale negativity. 
Ever caught yourself looking in the mirror and just feeling, well, not great about what you see? We all have those moments, and they can lead to us being super hard on ourselves.
When we see a distorted image of ourselves, especially about our body and how we look, we tend to become self-critical and resort to negative self-talk. 
Today, we are going to focus on breaking out of that kind of mindset and focusing on giving ourselves so much love. Let's talk about how to get out of this distorted mindset and focus more on self-appreciation. We start by discovering three things we truly love about ourselves and how to be in a space where societal expectations and opinions no longer hold sway over your authenticity.
There is a profound impact in changing the way we talk to ourselves. Positive self-talk isn't just about words; it's about nurturing inner dialogue that ignites joy and self-compassion. 
But it doesn't end with self-love. Compliments are more than words; they're a gift of affirmation that uplifts not just the recipient, but also the giver.
Let's celebrate the magic of being unapologetically ourselves and embrace the beauty we hold within us.
 
What We Discuss:
00:00 Surprise energy work with a stranger 02:20 The 3 things you love about yourself 07:50 It’s so freeing to not just care 10:57 Change how you talk to yourself 12:59 Appreciate your body 15:09 Compliment other people 18:04 Negative relationship with the concept of being skinny 18:42 Take social media breaks 20:02 The truth about comparison 24:40 The clothes for when I… 26:16 You are the soul and not the body Follow Radhi:
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