Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon Heather Shannon

Enjoy this episode of wild audience questions (and I have more we didn't even get to!)
A husband dealing with disability turns to porn and his wife wants to know how to handle it.A husband who isn't getting any at home tries to join a gangbang . . . but it doesn't go according to plan.She loves her boyfriend, but he's got some odd behavior when it comes to sex and she wants some help navigating his surprising behavior.
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P.S. Sorry for the late release time of this episode--we had a problem with the editors and had to switch last minute! If you are an experienced audio/video editor and want to take over production of this show, email Heather at HeatherShannonLCPC@gmail.com ASAP!


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🔥 Ever wondered what’s behind your deepest sexual fantasies? This week on Ask A Sex Therapist, Artemisia De Vine joins Heather to chat about erotic fantasies. Artemisia, with her extensive background as a professional dominatrix and sex worker, helps us understand when it feels safe to explore fantasies by getting past our own internal protectors. It’s about finding that balance between the taboo and what feels acceptable to us. Tune in and learn how you can make your fantasies a reality!
👂 What you'll learn:
- The psychological underpinnings of common sexual fantasies
- How exploring these desires can lead to profound states of consciousness
- The importance of the ego and desire in shaping our erotic experiences
- Strategies to embrace and integrate your fantasies for healthier intimacy
- Artemisia's unique perspective on overcoming societal guilt and shame linked to sexual preferences
Timestamps for some of the key moments in our conversation:
01:45 - Artemisia Divine's unique introduction to the world of sexual fantasy08:34 - Overcoming societal and religious impact on sexuality15:22 - The vital role of presence and psychological understanding in sexual experiences23:50 - Decoding the complex symbolism of personal sexual fantasies29:18 - Combining fear and desire within fantasies to achieve balance37:55 - The transformative potential of sexual fantasies in relationships42:44 - The intricate workings of Artemisia's "Divinery Method"51:22 - Emotional aftershocks: Navigating arousal and shame58:17 - Dissecting cuckolding fantasies: Importance of the "antidote"67:00 - The connection between sexual fantasy and spiritual journey

🎧 Don't miss this enlightening exploration into the complexity of human desire - press play now!.

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🎉 Learn about Expanded Orgasm with this free guide! 👉 Expand Her Orgasm Tonight (2.0)
Ready to unlock the secrets to more and better orgasms? 🎉 This week on "Ask a Sex Therapist," we're tackling one of your favorite topics—orgasms! Whether you're chasing your very first climax or looking to make those peaks a more common part of your bedroom repertoire, this episode has something for you. Join Heather Shannon as she explores everything from breaking mental barriers to practical tips for heightened pleasure, all with her signature blend of humor and expertise. Don't miss out on these game-changing insights!
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- 🧠 The mental blocks that might be killing your vibe and how to overcome them.
- ✨ How different sensations could dramatically change your sexual experiences.
- 🔄 The importance of security and attachment in improving your orgasm frequency.
- 🔍 Masturbation tips and why knowing your body is crucial.
- 🚀 Techniques to boost orgasm probability if you already enjoy them but want more.

Tap in to discover the secrets to a sensational sex life. Grab your headphones and listen today! 🎧👉

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EPISODE LINKS
Ep 5 The Clitoris - Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon: 005 The Clitoris on Apple PodcastsEp 22 The Orgasm Gap - ‎Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon: 022 The Orgasm Gap with Dr. Laurie Mintz on Apple PodcastsEp 48 The Magic of Masturbation - ‎Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon: 048: The Magic of Masturbation: More Presence, More Pleasure on Apple PodcastsEp 56 Female Arousal with Susan Bratton - Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon: 056: Female Arousal with Susan Bratton on Apple Podcasts


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🌟 Feeling stuck in your love life or overwhelmed by stress? Tune in to this game-changing episode of "Ask A Sex Therapist," where we sit down with emotional healing coach Allison Jayne to uncover transformative techniques for personal growth and better relationships! Allison shares her expertise on EFT tapping, a simple yet potent method to rewire your brain for more positive outcomes. Whether you're battling feelings of unworthiness in dating or just trying to navigate the waves of modern love, this is the episode that might just turn your world around! 🌈👫
🎧 In this episode, you'll discover:
- How EFT tapping can help you overcome trauma and reduce stress.
- The role of your subconscious self-concept in your romantic relationships.
- Strategies to combat the scarcity mindset in online dating.
- Practical tips for using EFT tapping to enhance your dating experience.
- Allison's inspirational journey from tapping novice to emotional healing maestro.

Don't miss out on these remarkable insights! Tune in now to transform your approach to love and personal wellness! 🎶💖

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🤗 Are you ready to expand your understanding of intimacy beyond the bedroom? In this cozy episode of Ask A Sex Therapist, Heather shares her personal journey of attending her very first cuddle party! Wrap yourself up in the knowledge that not all closeness needs to be about sex, discover how platonic touch can open doors to greater intimacy, and learn about the fascinating dynamics of cuddle parties. Whether you're flying solo or navigating relationships, there's something in this episode to warm everyone's heart. Tune in and embrace a world where consent is king and connection is queen. 🛋️
Listen now to embrace the warmth of non-sexual intimacy and learn how cuddle parties are creating a new space for consent and connection!
What you'll learn in this episode:
- The underestimated power of platonic intimacy
- Defining cuddle parties and how they differ from play parties
- Tips on negotiating personal boundaries and practicing consent
- The draw of cuddle parties for a diverse crowd, including those interested in non-monogamy
- How cuddle parties can serve as a space for personal growth and self-discovery
Timestamps:
- [00:03:24] Explaining what a cuddle party is and how it functions
- [00:04:47] Distinction between cuddle parties and play parties
- [00:06:10] The attractiveness of cuddle parties to those seeking connection
- [00:07:18] The personal growth element of attending such events
- [00:09:13] Building the safe container of a cuddle party
- [00:21:08] How asking for consent can transform interactions
Listen to this heartwarming exploration of non-sexual intimacy and learn how to add a touch of consensual coziness to your life! 🎧


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🎙️ Hot flashes, mood swings, and... sexy times? Menopause isn't just your mother's concern, folks – it's a rollercoaster that can start as early as *38* and it affects everything from your emotions to your intimacy. 😳💥 Fear not, because this episode of *Ask A Sex Therapist* is here to light up the path through the mist of menopause. We've got the radiant Dr. Kelly Casperson from "You Are Not Broken" dropping truth bombs on everything hormone-related. Plus, we spill the tea on the good, the bad, and the not-so-slick truths behind the lubes and creams that promise to keep things smooth sailing south of the border. 🚀💦 Tune in and turn your perimenopause frowns upside down!
Here's what you'll learn from this episode:
- The real deal on "bioidentical" hormones and what's just slick marketing 🎩📈
- Why your birth control pills aren't on the same level as menopause treatments 🚫💊
- Tips for talking to your doc about hormones like you've got an MD of your own 🗣️💪
- The lifesaving importance of lube, and why silicone is your new BFF 🙌✨
- How vaginal estrogen could be the $20 game-changer for your love life ❤️💡
Timestamps:
- [02:15] Understanding menopause and its surprising age range
- [05:30] Demystifying perimenopause symptoms
- [11:45] Why "bioidentical" hormones are causing a buzz
- [17:20] The significant risks of misinformation on vaginal estrogen
- [23:45] How healthy habits can support hormonal balance
- [31:00] Navigating the options for hormone replacement therapy
- [38:30] The big misconceptions of hormones and sexual health
- [43:10] The affordable secret weapon against dryness
- [49:50] Why GSM should be on your radar sooner rather than later
- [55:25] Vaginal estrogen myths busted for breast cancer survivors

Ready to rise above the confusion and start living your best life? Listen now and transform your approach to perimenopause and beyond! 🎧🌟

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RESOURCES
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HEATHER’S WEBSITE
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HEATHER’S INSTAGRAM (new!) 
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KELLY CASPERSON WEBSITE:
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