In the Flow of Magic | Taking mid-life Goddesses, from Burnout to Bliss.

Vivinne Williams, Yogini, LMT, Mystic | Ex-professor> Intuitive & Spiritual Wellness Coach for Women
In the Flow of Magic | Taking mid-life Goddesses, from Burnout to Bliss. Podcast

Hi I'm Vivinne (formerly Kala,) I coach stressed women- midlife Goddesses in: Spiritual Transformation post Burnout or "Thunderbolt" Experience. A former college professor (my "dream" job) recovered from workplace bullying, diagnosed with anxiety, depression and PTSD. ***I now teach: Meditation, mindfulness, loving-kindness practices and acupressure points for healing! Self-care practices: self-love, affirmations, Law of Attraction and manifestation tapping into the Divine Feminine within. Book a FREE 30 min Clarity Session via my website. Find me at: www.intheflowofmagic.com. Regain your ease, personal power, and clarity! Bio: Yoga teacher, licensed massage therapist & mindfulness practitioner; studied at Kripalu, Spirit Rock Meditation Center, w/over 1,000 hrs training in somatic practices over 20+ years. Featured in: Yoga Journal, Self, Essence & Heart and Soul magazines.

  1. 9 SEPT

    Ifm_116 Can Meditation Help Heal Racial Trauma?

    [0:03] Series Introduction I’ll be doing a series, primarily shorts, but I want to lead off with a full video here for you. I’ll be doing a series on mindfulness meditation and how it can help with stress, anxiety—different things, different topics. Feel free to add your questions below this first video. I’m starting off—it’ll probably be 28 days, not 30—and it’s going to run up until right before my Soulful Mindfulness program begins, which is October 5th. So do check that out. I thought this was a good segue into that. What I did was I asked ChatGPT what are the most common questions asked about meditation, mindfulness, stress, and anxiety, and how they relate together. [1:03] Meditation and Racial Trauma So, for Black folks, the first question that came up, according to ChatGPT, was: Can meditation help heal racial trauma? I thought I would start off there. Obviously, that needs more than a one-minute short; it doesn’t need just YouTube Shorts, it needs a longer video. I’m going to share with you from my experience. When I began meditating, it was when I went to college—that’s really where I started in earnest. As a Black girl coming from the Bronx, South Bronx, I went to a predominantly white college that was very, very wealthy. First day, Jaguars (the car) went by, and I was like, “Oh my God, so beautiful!” Girls from the Middle East were wearing sapphire rings that looked like candy, they were so big. So, I started meditating at that college. The thing is, I wouldn’t have said to you—this was back in the day, people—”Oh, I have racial trauma.” No, all I knew was that I was really, really stressed. [1:57] Personal Journey with Meditation I also want to go there in that, you know, I was a minority in that school—racially, but also economically. As I told you, I didn’t have a sapphire or an emerald the size of a rock. I came from a working-class background and scored very, very well on my SAT tests. So, I was part of an effort by the academy to diversify. This was before all the uproar and backlash—they knew they needed diversity because it wasn’t happening naturally. I did perfectly well there, against women who had private schooling and the best of everything. Obviously, I would be under a lot of stress, and I was stressed before getting to college. I suffered from anxiety, depression, difficulties in the home. Suffice it to say, my parents didn’t, for instance, drive me to college. I was the first one to attend college in my entire family, ever. So, I was there in a difficult situation, but I went in with very much an immigrant mindset: “I’m going to do it, I’m going to go for it.” I wasn’t thinking about racialized trauma, but I had tremendous stress growing up—alcoholism in the home, a lot of trauma and drama, even though I didn’t have a broken home. That’s when I began meditating, and that’s why I think I can speak about this. [3:50] Healing Through Meditation Meditation can absolutely help heal racial trauma. There are so many different ways, but the primary way is that, as you practice mindfulness-style meditation, it gives you the tools to deal with upsetting emotions, upsetting thoughts, even physical sensations that are disturbing. Through practice and proper guidance, you develop strength so that something that previously would have felt really upsetting becomes less so, and you’re able to withstand it with less effect on your persona, on yourself. It’s really a beautiful practice. Meditation can absolutely be part of your toolkit. Now, it wouldn’t be the only thing, but I believe especially for Black and Brown folks,

  2. 27 AUG

    IFM 115 Goddess,Don’t Ignore Your Stress Symptoms

    Auto-generated transcript. Welcome to a New Episode Hello, beautiful ones. Welcome to a new episode of In the Flow of Magic. The magic is always there; it’s just a matter of aligning with it. I’m taking you with me as I make some tea, so you’ll hear some sounds.   Making Summer Chai I’m making a summer version of chai, a little bit lighter. I’ve got my fennel, my coriander, and some true cinnamon—not the one that causes allergens. So, I thought I would actually just share with you while making my tea. Percy (the cat) is happy and fed, though he’s still stalking me, hoping for more food—but there’s not. So, how are you today? I’ve just added the cinnamon, and now I’m going to put a little bit of ginger in. Okay, the ginger is there. So, we’ve got ginger, cinnamon, coriander, fennel, and a little bit of black pepper—just a little pinch—to, as we say, “potentiate it” and bring some activation. Behind the Scenes w/Stress Coach Today, I’m going to share a little bit of behind-the-scenes on what’s going on with me, Coach Viv. And I hope it relates to you, my listener—whether you’re a long-time listener or a new one. If you are new to me, I take the skills I’ve learned over decades as a yoga teacher, meditation practitioner, and adept. I’ve studied with monks for decades. I actually said that to someone on a call, and she responded, “I would love to study with monks!” I replied, “I’ve studied with monks so you don’t have to,” and she said again, “I’d love to study with monks!” Clients Dealing w/Toxic Stress Today, I want to share that I am open for one-on-one clients. This is relatively new for me, as I’ve been focused a lot on my courses and programs—like the Chakra Course and Sexual Energy Alchemy, where I train women to work with their energy using a particular holistic model, self-massage, and acupressure. But now, I’m opening my energy to work one-on-one, especially because of some recent news. It took some time, but I’ve been hearing about the struggles of professors, specifically African-American women, in academia. For those who know my backstory, I left academia years ago—pushed out by bullying, which seemed both racially and gender-motivated. I literally walked away from that career, diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, and depression by a therapist. My Academic Struggles I’d always been a sensitive person, but growing up in New York, I was doing well. Then I entered academia, where a toxic job environment pushed me to my limits. Eventually, I realized that my mental and emotional health was more important, so I walked away. I’ve been getting the sense that some of you, regardless of ethnicity, might be going through something similar. I coach all women because I believe we have much in common. That’s my zone of genius—speaking and listening to women, where we can create a wholesome relationship and help each other. Connecting with Women in Need Lately, I’ve been on the phone with women who reach out to me after seeing my ads on Facebook. They fill out a questionnaire, and we set up a call to talk about the stress they’re experiencing. But I’m finding that some women are engaging with the material, yet there’s a hesitation when it comes to taking the next step. These women are definitely suffering—there’s no doubt about that. But,

    20 min
  3. 8 JUL

    Black Women Academics: Mental Health Solutions

    IMAGE: Ai generated Illustration. [0:00] Introduction: Setting the Scene Hello, hello, hello! Welcome. Welcome, and let’s be in the flow. Now, this might seem like an unusual episode for my podcast. I usually talk about wellness and woo woo, but I want to hone in today on women in academia—female academics—because I was one. I’ve moved pretty far away from that, but I want to address what’s going on. This episode will be of interest to any professional women, but especially to, as I said, female academics. You know my subheading says, “Taking Midlife Goddesses from Burnout to Bliss,” but before I was so into the wellness and the woo, I was a professor. So, I know what that’s like. I want to talk a little bit about that first, before I get into some ideas of how professional women and academics can cope. [1:03] The Challenges in Academia for Women First of all, if you’re in academia, especially if you are an educator, we tend to be super motivated—motivated by improvement, by growth, by learning, obviously driven, right? The challenges that we face are balancing teaching, research, and administrative duties. We’re all juggling that all the time, and in many cases, if we drop one ball, it’s a catastrophe. In my case, I was at a community college, which is a bit easier in some ways. My main focus was on teaching, yet I was told, “You’re not exhibiting enough.” I was teaching art, and they said, “Okay, you’re doing the teaching great, but yeah, where’s the equivalent of the research part? You’re not doing that enough.” I was told that very close to the time that I needed to go for tenure. So, it was a bit last minute to point this out to me. [2:25] The Additional Burdens Faced by Black and Brown Women Academia, especially for women, is statistically shown—scientifically, the numbers are there—that for women, and especially for women of color, Black and Brown women, it is even worse. It is even worse. You all may not know I am Jamaican-American, so I am a brown-skinned woman. So, African-American, since I’m living in America and was dealing with some of the stresses that I want to talk about now in terms of the challenges. That’s just the professional challenges. Let’s look a little bit now at what especially Black and Brown women are facing recently. Now, I’m coming a little bit late to this discussion because I really, I just didn’t honestly want to deal with it because it was so upsetting. But it’s about Black women in academia under fire, right? Suicide, having to step down, being forced to step down, death—dropping dead on the job, dropping dead early because of the incredible high levels of stress that are put on Black and Brown women, again, especially. It’s just next level. [4:03] Personal Experience: Breaking Into a Boy’s Club So, you’ve got the professional challenges that are there, that everyone has to varying degrees. And then, you’ve got this additional burden, this additional layer when you are breaking into, what in my case was clearly, a boy’s club. I’ll talk briefly about my experience. At the community college, I was bullied by three or four men—I can’t remember the exact number now—three or four white males who had known each other for upwards of somewhere between 17 and 20 years. So, you can imagine, they were very tight-knit. That’s understandable, but they together performed the bullying on me as a Black female and the lowest rung on the t...

  4. 20 JUN

    Ep 112: Fast Acupressure Points for Stress

    Is your body stressed? Discover how acupressure can provide natural relief from anxiety and stress, preventing stress from destroying your body. In this video, I share 3 powerful acupressure techniques to help you relax and restore balance: even during anxiety attacks or panic attacks! As a trained licensed massage therapist, now retired, and a former massage school instructor, I bring years of experience and expertise to help you understand and apply these techniques effectively. Acupressure, an ancient healing art, involves applying gentle pressure to specific points on the body. These pressure point techniques can help alleviate tension, promote relaxation, and improve overall well-being. Join me as I guide you through simple yet effective acupressure points to help reduce anxiety and stress. In this video, you will learn: – The best acupressure points for immediate stress/anxiety relief – Techniques to calm your mind and body – Tips to incorporate acupressure into your daily de-stress routine Remember, your body is stressed, but you have the power to heal and rejuvenate. Let’s prevent stress from destroying your body and embrace a more peaceful, balanced life. 🌸 If you found this video helpful, please like, share, and subscribe for more natural health and wellness tips! RELATED VIDEOS: SIGNS Your Body is Stressed, Dr. Tracey Marks-    • Signs Your Body Is Stressed – Telltal…   & 🌸 10 Signs STRESS Is DESTROYING Your Body: Dr. Sven:    • 10 Signs STRESS Is DESTROYING Your Body   🌸 I’ll put a direct link to my page I’m updating it. Or for faster you can book a FREE no pressure Clarity & Calm call: https://Viv.as.me/CoachingInquiry

    19 min

About

Hi I'm Vivinne (formerly Kala,) I coach stressed women- midlife Goddesses in: Spiritual Transformation post Burnout or "Thunderbolt" Experience. A former college professor (my "dream" job) recovered from workplace bullying, diagnosed with anxiety, depression and PTSD. ***I now teach: Meditation, mindfulness, loving-kindness practices and acupressure points for healing! Self-care practices: self-love, affirmations, Law of Attraction and manifestation tapping into the Divine Feminine within. Book a FREE 30 min Clarity Session via my website. Find me at: www.intheflowofmagic.com. Regain your ease, personal power, and clarity! Bio: Yoga teacher, licensed massage therapist & mindfulness practitioner; studied at Kripalu, Spirit Rock Meditation Center, w/over 1,000 hrs training in somatic practices over 20+ years. Featured in: Yoga Journal, Self, Essence & Heart and Soul magazines.

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