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Seeing Other People

Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Join host Ilana and both well-known and anonymous, unfiltered guests as they navigate the complexities and realities of modern dating. From first dates to breakups, they’re not afraid to bare all as they dive deep into what it means to be single, in a relationship, or anything in between. Whether you're looking for love, or just want to laugh and commiserate with others, tune in to explore the rollercoaster that is the ever-evolving world of dating. And in the meantime, follow along @seeingotherpeople to feel a little less alone.

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    "What I Learned From Cheating On My Ex"

    In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the initial stages of his relationship, the lead-up to his infidelity, and the addiction-like behaviors that ensued. Avi candidly discusses the aftermath, the steps he took to understand and change his behavior, and how therapy and vulnerability played crucial roles. He offers insights and advice for both cheaters and those who have been cheated on, emphasizing the importance of empathy, self-awareness, and open communication in relationships. We won’t cheat you on episodes about cheating! Check out this playlist with all the cheating stories you want to hear. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order.   Spark something uncommon this holiday season and get 15% off the right gifts from Uncommon Goods at uncommongoods.com/sop  Treat yourself and your loved ones to spa-quality skincare essentials that deliver a moisture-rich glow. Use code seeingotherpeople for 15% off at oakessentials.com Tackle your toughest days by microdosing with Schedule 35 and get 15% off with code SOP at schedule35.co  So, if you’re looking for a thoughtful and practical gift that he’ll actually use and love, The Chairman™ Pro is the way to go! Get 20% off + free shipping on The Chairman & with the code SOP at Manscaped.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    49 min

  2. 4 DAYS AGO

    Becoming Confident When You're Insecure with Jackie Shames

    Jackie Shames, friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dynamics, and podcasting, and we live-text someone Jackie went on a date with. 00:00 - 09:30 Navigating Confidence and Dating 09:30 - 26:24 Unexpected Encounters 26:24 - 28:54 Reflecting on Closure and Moving On 28:54 - 29:49 The Importance of Detachment 29:49 - 31:25 Running Into an Ex-Fling 31:25 - 33:24 Finding Security in a New Relationship 33:24 - 36:26 Navigating Dating Patterns and Self-Sabotage 36:26 - 43:38 Balancing Personalities in Relationships 43:38 - 55:53 Influencer Culture and Personal Growth Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order.   Spark something uncommon this holiday season and get 15% off the right gifts from Uncommon Goods at uncommongoods.com/sop  Treat yourself and your loved ones to spa-quality skincare essentials that deliver a moisture-rich glow. Use code seeingotherpeople for 15% off at oakessentials.com Tackle your toughest days by microdosing with Schedule 35 and get 15% off with code SOP at schedule35.co  So, if you’re looking for a thoughtful and practical gift that he’ll actually use and love, The Chairman™ Pro is the way to go! Get 20% off + free shipping on The Chairman & with the code SOP at Manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 10m

  3. 7 NOV

    "From Ghosting & Catfishing to Finding Each Other"

    Bethany and Walter share their heartwarming real-life journey of meeting on an app and building a relationship over the past 1.5 years. They delve into their initial dating struggles, including catfishing and ghosting, and their eventual connection that sparked over a phone call and FaceTime. The couple discusses the importance of open communication, handling financial changes, how they support each other in tough times. Walter and Bethany explore their compatibility, different upbringings, and expectations in their relationship, and provide advice to singles ready to give up on dating." Love hearing how people found love? Check out this playlist filled with stories of how real daters met their person! Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order.   Spark something uncommon this holiday season and get 15% off the right gifts from Uncommon Goods at uncommongoods.com/sop  Treat yourself and your loved ones to spa-quality skincare essentials that deliver a moisture-rich glow. Use code seeingotherpeople for 15% off at oakessentials.com Tackle your toughest days by microdosing with Schedule 35 and get 15% off with code SOP at schedule35.co  So, if you’re looking for a thoughtful and practical gift that he’ll actually use and love, The Chairman™ Pro is the way to go! Get 20% off + free shipping on The Chairman & with the code SOP at Manscaped.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    47 min

  4. 5 NOV

    Age Gaps, Playing Games, and Defining The Relationship with Felix Levine

    Felix Levine, entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me, joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan, and his personal growth. Felix and Ilana delve into why he started his podcast during a challenging time in college and the lessons learned from interviewing successful individuals. Felix shares insights on the importance of genuine connections, handling past relationship traumas, and the intricacies of dating someone significantly older. The episode also addresses listener questions on unique dating challenges and offers advice on maintaining relationships amidst personal anxieties. 01:35 - 03:40 Navigating College and Depression 03:40 - 04:32 Podcasting as a Career 04:32 - 06:10 The Realities of Podcasting 06:10 - 08:18 Maturity and Personal Growth 08:18 - 11:06 Friendships and Ambition 11:06 - 14:03 A Special Relationship 14:03 - 15:02 The Meet Cute and Beyond 15:02 - 25:15 Dating Advice and Personal Stories 25:15 - 27:58Confident Beginnings 27:58 - 30:59 Overcoming Past Trauma 30:59 - 34:46 Healing and Moving Forward 34:46 - 41:29 Navigating Age Gaps in Relationships 41:29 - 48:32 Listener Questions: Weird and Serious 48:32 - 51:10Best Dating Advice 51:10 - 53:29 Outro Need more of the guys’ perspective? This playlist has all SOP episodes with male guests! Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order.   Spark something uncommon this holiday season and get 15% off the right gifts from Uncommon Goods at uncommongoods.com/sop  Treat yourself and your loved ones to spa-quality skincare essentials that deliver a moisture-rich glow. Use code seeingotherpeople for 15% off at oakessentials.com Tackle your toughest days by microdosing with Schedule 35 and get 15% off with code SOP at schedule35.co  So, if you’re looking for a thoughtful and practical gift that he’ll actually use and love, The Chairman™ Pro is the way to go! Get 20% off + free shipping on The Chairman & with the code SOP at Manscaped.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 hr

  5. 31 OCT

    "How I Became Okay With Being Single"

    Harry returns to the show after two years to discuss his life journey, highlighting the lessons learned from navigating singlehood, personal growth, and embracing new passions like photography. Throughout the conversation, they explore Harry's experiences with dating, the societal pressures of relationships, and his journey to understand and accept his neurodiversity. The episode emphasizes making one's own rules in life, finding personal fulfillment through community, and the transformative power of genuine human connections. Give your brain a boost with Fungies functional mushroom gummies! Head to eatfungies.com and enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code SOP.  Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!  Grow your business, no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up for a #1 per month trial period at shopify.com/seeingotherpeople! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 10m

  6. 29 OCT

    Nomalize Calling Off An Engagment with Rebekah Lipsky, LMHC

    In this episode, Rebekah Lipsky, a therapist specializing in major life transitions, joins us to share her personal experience of calling off her engagement and wedding after a five-and-a-half-year relationship. She delves into the emotional challenges of such decisions, the importance of aligning one's values, and her journey of self-discovery post-breakup. The discussion includes insights on handling grief, the role of supportive friends, and her upcoming support group for women who have called off engagements. Rebecca also offers valuable advice for anyone facing similar life transitions. Follow Rebekah on Instagram at @reflectwithrebekah and inquire to work with her at www.rebekahlipskycounseling.com/ 04:41 - 06:34 Life Transitions and Personal Struggles 06:34 - 09:45 Calling Off her Engagement 09:45 - 15:21 The Emotional Rollercoaster 15:21 - 27:48 Making the Tough Decision 27:48 - 28:24 Facing the Guilt of Canceling a Wedding 28:24 - 29:56 Support from Friends and Family 29:56 - 33:01 Layers of Grief in Breakups 33:01 - 38:14 Supporting Friends Through Breakups 38:14 - 45:10 Rediscovering Yourself After a Breakup 45:10 - 48:39 Navigating Relationship Decisions Give your brain a boost with Fungies functional mushroom gummies! Head to eatfungies.com and enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code SOP.  Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!  Grow your business, no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up for a #1 per month trial period at shopify.com/seeingotherpeople! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 hr

  7. 24 OCT

    "If It's Not a Hell No, It's a Yes"

    Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He discusses his dating history, including early high school relationships and the impact of a serious breakup at age 18. Adrian explains his cautious approach to dating apps and reflects on the challenges of dating as an introvert. He emphasizes the importance of taking risks in dating, inspired by a quote from the movie 'We Bought a Zoo.' Adrian also addresses the common dating adage 'if he wanted to, he would' and shares his thoughts on modern dating pressures and misconceptions. Give your brain a boost with Fungies functional mushroom gummies! Head to eatfungies.com and enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code SOP.  Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!  Grow your business, no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up for a #1 per month trial period at shopify.com/seeingotherpeople! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    55 min

  8. 22 OCT

    Learn Your Values To Find & Build The Right Relationship with Suzy Welch

    The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker, author, and professor of NYU's infamous "Becoming You" course. Suzy shares her journey of self-discovery through her 'Becoming You' methodology along with her life-changing decision making method 10-10-10 (yes, you can apply it to making decisions in dating!) We discuss the potential impacts of value misalignment in relationships, and how understanding of one's values can inform personal and professional life decisions, leading to greater fulfillment. Follow Suzy on Instagram @suzywelch and check out the Becoming You podcast on Spotify. 03:34 - 03:34 The Concept of Values and Their Importance 03:54 - 07:12 Developing the 'Becoming You' Methodology 07:12 - 08:28 Values in Relationships and Personal Growth 08:28 - 14:15 The Values Bridge Tool and Its Applications 24:19 - 26:03 High Scope vs. Low Scope Values in Relationships 26:03 - 30:06 Work Centrism: Balancing Career and Family 30:06 - 37:28 The 10-10-10 Decision-Making Method 37:28 - 41:47 The Velvet Coffin: Avoiding Complacency 41:47 - 46:19 Whose Life Do You Want Anyway? Give your brain a boost with Fungies functional mushroom gummies! Head to eatfungies.com and enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code SOP.  Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!  Grow your business, no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up for a #1 per month trial period at shopify.com/seeingotherpeople! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    58 min
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Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Join host Ilana and both well-known and anonymous, unfiltered guests as they navigate the complexities and realities of modern dating. From first dates to breakups, they’re not afraid to bare all as they dive deep into what it means to be single, in a relationship, or anything in between. Whether you're looking for love, or just want to laugh and commiserate with others, tune in to explore the rollercoaster that is the ever-evolving world of dating. And in the meantime, follow along @seeingotherpeople to feel a little less alone.

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