Confidence

Confidence Chris
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Confidence

This show is your go-to for smashing dating and mindset barriers, featuring real questions and scenarios from listeners like you. Dive deep into my world as I share personal stories with explicit details and heartfelt truths. This podcast is created for high-value individuals aiming to boost their self-confidence and forge genuine relationships. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

  1. 23 HR AGO

    Ego Love

    It's been a long relationship road for me in 2024. I have dealt with heartbreak, inconsistent energy, and the breaking of old relationship patterns. In this episode, I share the final chapter of how that uncomfortable growth led me to my breaking point. I tackle the concept of ego love versus authentic love. How do you handle dealing with a partner who hasn't shown up for you? When is enough enough? I also answer the question: Do I believe in right person wrong time? Can two toxic, unhealed people take their space and come back together to form a loving relationship? I also discuss the most important shared value in relationships and why nothing else matters without it. No Chapters Work with me, sign up for the newsletter, or take the dating quiz go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    55 min

  2. 18 NOV

    Detachment in the Talking Stage

    The talking stage: where red flags look green, and commitment is always just another day away. In this episode, I explore the science behind why we often lose our good judgment during this phase and why attachment tends to deepen after sex. Managing feelings during this phase can be challenging, so here are some steps to help you navigate the anxiety of dealing with uncertainty and hot-and-cold partners. Then, we have a most unexpected update on a long-standing story for the OG podcast listeners: the tea is hot. Chapters: 4:18 The Science Behind the Talking Stage 17:11 Steps to Detach in the Talking Stage 41:25 An Update for The OG Podcast Listeners Work with me, sign up for the newsletter, or take the dating quiz go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    57 min

  3. 11 NOV

    No More Games

    What happens when you catch feelings for someone who might not see you the same? Do you share your true feelings or play it cool? In this episode, I share a story of catching quick feelings, noticing inconsistent behavior, and the hardship of sharing your vulnerability while trying to balance holding great boundaries. I then tackle your question on how to heal self-abandonment after experiencing losing yourself in an unhealthy relationship. Someone also submitted the statement, "I've worked on myself so much now I'm unrelatable and addicted to being alone." This week's audience question is about deciding if she should confront her ex on a major lie, which she found out after the breakup. Once you think you have it figured out, you probably don't, but that's okay because dating is fucking hard. Chapters: 00:00 Dating Stories 26:11 How to Heal Self-Abandonment 36:11 Addicted to Being Single 44:26 Audience Question For more information on how to work with me, sign up for the newsletter or take the dating quiz, go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    51 min

  4. 4 NOV

    Take The Power Back

    Are you stuck in a hot-and-cold relationship? Did they say they weren’t ready, but you still can’t seem to let go? Today, I’m going to help you get the power back! I will give the exact steps necessary to knock them off that pedestal and get the respect you deserve. I also got a question from a listener about what to feel if they do come back. We'll talk about the uncomfortable truth about power dynamics in relationships and how your worthiness dictates the energy you receive back from your partner. Plus, I’ll share some straight-up feedback on a situation from one of you where your end goal with your current partner isn’t lining up. If you’re feeling stuck, we’ll cover exactly how to move forward when you’re at a standstill. Chapters: 00:00 How to Take the Power Back 26:36 Should You Take Them Back? 35:15 Audience Question For more information on how to work with me, sign up for the newsletter or take the dating quiz, go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    47 min

  5. 28 OCT

    Ending Anxious Attachment

    This week, I will take you through everything you need to know about anxious attachment. I start by describing how people might develop anxious attachments from childhood. From there, I’ll walk you through practical steps to overcome limiting beliefs, manage that hypervigilant inner voice, and learn to spot—and choose—more secure partners. I also get into why anxious people typically get caught in the negative dating cycle of meeting new people and never being chosen. Welcome to your wake-up call to lean into yourself, set better boundaries, and show up as a partner worthy of love. No Chapters This Week! For more information on how to work with me, sign up for the newsletter or take the dating quiz, go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    1h 5m

  6. 21 OCT

    Taming the Avoidant

    You asked me, "If an avoidant is hot and cold... saying he loves me, then ghosting me... is there any way to get his initial version back and rekindle the relationship? He reminds me of you, Chris." Yikes!! (Spoiler alert: You're not wrong!!) This week’s episode is a full deep dive into avoidant attachments and the nuances of dealing with an avoidant partner. I start by breaking down the two types of avoidants: disorganized/fearful avoidant versus dismissive avoidant. I'll explain their differences and how you might develop these attachment styles. I also open up with a very personal story about my own experience leading to my own avoidant tendencies. From there, I'll give you the full playbook on communicating and setting boundaries effectively with an avoidant partner. Together, I will help you determine if getting your relationship back on track with an avoidant is possible. If you're currently dealing with an avoidant—or see yourself in the avoidant attachment style—you’re going to love this episode. No Chapters This Week! For more information on how to work with me, sign up for the newsletter or take the dating quiz, go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    57 min

  7. 14 OCT

    Mastering Self-Love

    Being single ain't easy, but you know what’s even harder? Thinking that being single means you can’t be happy. In this episode, I dive into the toughest parts of being single and how to handle them. We’ll talk about the discomfort of sleeping alone, the lack of intimacy, the fear of never finding your person, comparing yourself to others, and—most importantly—how to fall in love with your life as deeply as possible.I also follow up on a question from the last episode about motivated men.Yeah, it can feel lonely sometimes, but I’d rather be alone than settle for someone who doesn't feel like home. Chapters 1:00 Motivated Men Follow Up 13:30 Overcoming the Hardships of Being Single 25:16 Sleeping Alone 39:02 Lack of S*x 43:36 Fear of settling vs. not finding a relationship 50:15 Biological Clock and Comparison 58:07 How to Love Yourself --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    1h 10m

  8. 7 OCT

    Mask Off

    As much as I have always been genuine and authentic on this podcast, there have been some things I have been resisting discussing. This week, I share my true, vulnerable feelings and experiences that I have neglected to open up about. I then get into your questions; we are going to be talking about how to find the cl*t, strategies for short kings looking to cuff, my biggest first date turn-off, and a situation where a woman is trying to understand why her soul mate who has so much potential will not get it together. I don't love showing my less positive emotions, but it is time I drop the ego and take off the mask. Chapters 1:36 My Untold Truth 37:32 How to Find the Cl*t 39:48 Short King Strategies for Cuffing 43:50 Biggest Turn-Off a Girl Can Do on a First Date 45:49 Is He Shy or Just Not That Into Me? 50:37 Audience Situation: Soulmate Doesn't Like Me Back For information on how to work with me, sign up for the newsletter or take the dating quiz, go to: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

    1h 1m
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This show is your go-to for smashing dating and mindset barriers, featuring real questions and scenarios from listeners like you. Dive deep into my world as I share personal stories with explicit details and heartfelt truths. This podcast is created for high-value individuals aiming to boost their self-confidence and forge genuine relationships. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confidence-chris/support

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  • Creator
    Confidence Chris
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2024
  • Episodes
    57
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Confidence Chris
  • Show Website
    Confidence

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