126: Love & Money: The Keys To Financial Success As A Couple with Doug and Heather Boneparth

Does money talk strengthen your relationship—or strain it?

Doug and Heather Boneparth, a dynamic husband-wife team and experienced financial advisors, share the inside scoop on what makes relationships tick—financially and emotionally. Drawing from personal experience, they reveal practical ways for couples to redefine financial responsibilities, appreciate non-monetary contributions, and set shared goals for the future.

For advisors, Doug and Heather break down how to create balanced, inclusive conversations that engage both partners, tackling emotional undercurrents to strengthen relationships along the way.

What You’ll Learn:

• Tools to create inclusive, balanced financial discussions
• Guidance for couples on shared financial decision-making
• Techniques to spot and resolve financial resentments before they escalate
• Ideas for planning meaningful “money dates” that foster future-focused conversations
• Strategies to redefine financial contributions, helping couples align on long-term goals

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Resources:

• 116: The Financial Advisor’s Guide To Love And Money with Sonya Lutter
• The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel
• Fair Play by Eve Rodsky
• The Millennial Money Fix by Douglas Boneparth

Connect with Brendan Frazier: 

• RFG Advisory
• LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier

Connect with Douglas A. Boneparth: 

• LinkedIn: Douglas A. Boneparth, CFP®
• Bone Fide Wealth

Connect with Heather Boneparth: 

• LinkedIn: Heather Boneparth
• Bone Fide Wealth
• Joelle Boneparth

About Our Guests: 

Doug and Heather Boneparth are the co-founders of Bone Fide Wealth, a firm specializing in helping millennials and young couples manage their finances. Doug is a Certified Financial Planner and author with a deep commitment to making personal finance approachable. Heather, having taken a step back from her active role in finances during the pandemic, brings valuable insights into balancing household contributions and facilitating effective financial conversations between partners. Together, they bridge personal and professional experience to bring empathy and practicality into financial advising.

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