15: My Egg Freezing Story: Overcoming Shame and Embracing My Reproductive Freedom

In this heartfelt episode, Jasmene opens up about her decision to freeze her eggs—a process that brought emotional, physical, and financial challenges. She reflects on her journey, from grappling with societal expectations and personal shame to embracing the empowerment that comes with taking control of her reproductive future.

Jasmene sheds light on the often-overlooked conversations around fertility in the Black community, sharing why she wishes she had considered egg freezing in her 20s. She also addresses the complexities of single motherhood, faith, and making informed reproductive choices. This is a conversation every woman needs to hear about navigating motherhood on your terms.

Tune in for an honest discussion on breaking shame, embracing options, and empowering yourself to make the choices that align with your life goals.

KEY POINTS

- Jasmene’s decision to freeze her eggs

- The lack of discussion egg freezing in the Black community

- Jasmene’s initial egg-freezing consultation, its cost, and other considerations 

- Egg freezing and health issues faced by Jasmene during its process 

- On guaranteed success, waiting for a partner, or co-parenting with a friend 

- The importance of empowering women in their reproductive health choices 

- Advice on women: Look into employer benefits for fertility services

QUOTES 

“I want you to release the shame because I know that there's somebody out there that may potentially be going through this, thinking about this, wanting to do this—-and they feel like it's not supposed to be this way. But, I want to empower you, because this is how I had to empower myself." – Jasmene Bowdry 

“Had I known this when I was in my 20s, I probably would have done this sooner. If you are a young woman and you are with the mindset of, ‘I have time, I don't have to think about that right now,’ And then life comes at you fast, and next thing, you may not have an opportunity." – Jasmene Bowdry 

RESOURCES

My fertility doctor hope-fertility.com

Other clinics:kindbody.com

Jasmene Bowdry 

IG | @jasmenebowdry

AND This is produced by EPYC Media Network