Self Directed

Self Directed - A Podcast on Life, Learning, and Raising Free Thinkers. Hosts Cecilie and Jesper Conrad, full-time travellers since 2018 and parents of four, invite a new guest on the podcast every Thursday.

  1. Blake Boles | Escaping Routine: Deep Conversation and wanting a Galactic Commune

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    Blake Boles | Escaping Routine: Deep Conversation and wanting a Galactic Commune

    Send us a text Blake Boles joins us to talk about his recent editorial, "I Don't Want a Nuclear Family, I Want a Galactic Commune - on the pursuit of quality conversation", which is about the decline of quality conversation and his resistance to the nuclear family model.  We discuss the difference between daily logistics and real dialogue, why travel often brings deeper connections, and how temporary communities can support richer conversations. Blake shares ideas like hosting travelers, playing structured games like Hot Seat, and treating every interaction as a chance to learn something new. Listen to our first episode together with Blake Boles | Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? : https://www.theconrad.family/selfdirected48 🗓️ Recorded August 26th, 2025. 📍 Åmarken, Lille Skendsved, Denmark 🔗  Relevant links Website: https://www.blakeboles.com/Blake on Substack: https://letters.blakeboles.com/ Podcast: https://www.blakeboles.com/dbr/ Website: https://www.unschooladventures.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blaketotheboles/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unschooladventures/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unschool.adventuresFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.bolesBooks by Blake Boles Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School?: https://amzn.to/3RCDi20The Art of Self-Directed Learning: https://amzn.to/3GEXpXeBetter Than College: How to Build a Successful Life Without a Four-Year Degree: https://amzn.to/3RCiwzxCollege Without High School: A Teenager’s Guide to Skipping High School and Going to College: https://amzn.to/3RkZlc2 Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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  2. Chris Balme | Challenge Accepted: Turning Adolescence into Adventure Chris Balme

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    Chris Balme | Challenge Accepted: Turning Adolescence into Adventure Chris Balme

    Send us a text Adolescence is often seen as something to endure — awkward years full of turbulence and struggle. But what if these years could be a time of discovery, adventure, and growth? In this episode, Jesper and Cecilie Conrad talk with Chris Balme on the launch day of his new book, Challenge Accepted: 50 Adventures to Make Middle School Awesome. We were introduced to Chris by our friend and former guest, Blake Boles, and quickly said yes to the conversation. Chris shares why adolescence is one of the most powerful stages of development — with a brain growing faster than at any other time, and social awareness reaching new heights — yet why conventional schooling so often gets in the way. Drawing on twelve years of research with adolescents worldwide, he shows how adventures like starting a business, creating guerrilla art, or camping solo can help young people step into their capabilities and keep their curiosity alive. Peter Gray, author of Free to Learn, praises the book: “Buy this book for every middle schooler, or about-to-be middle schooler you know. It just might provide the spark that turns what can be difficult years into years of awesome adventure and growth.” We also explore Chris’s own path from unhappy student to educational innovator — founding a lab school and creating an apprenticeship program that connected more than 17,000 young people with real-world mentors (including one who learned to fly a plane at twelve!). 🔗  Relevant links https://www.chrisbalme.com/ https://www.instagram.com/chrisbalme https://www.facebook.com/ChrisBalme/ https://www.amazon.com/Challenge-Accepted-Adventures-Middle-Awesome/dp/B0FJ2R8DY8 Books mentioned in the podcast Baol by Stefano BenniThe Dispossessed by Ursula K. Le GuinThe Humans by Matt Haig🗓️ Recorded August 15th, 2025. 📍 Lindale, Grange-over-Sands, UK Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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  3. Sarah van Gelder | The Revolution Where You Live - Rebuilding Community in an Isolated World

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    Sarah van Gelder | The Revolution Where You Live - Rebuilding Community in an Isolated World

    Send us a text How can we recover the essential human connections that make life meaningful and sustainable? How can we create a world where neighbors know each other's names, children play freely outdoors, and no parent faces the overwhelming challenges of raising children alone?  Sarah van Gelder, founder of YES Magazine and author of "The Revolution Where You Live," joins us to explore the troubling fragmentation of our social structures and the promising alternatives emerging in response. A growing number of Danish households are single-person dwellings, and approximately 95% of Danish children attend daycare. There is a global trend toward smaller household units and increasing isolation that contributes to what the U.S. Surgeon General has called a mental health crisis of loneliness. Drawing from her experience raising children in a co-housing community and her 12,000-mile journey exploring grassroots solutions across America, Sarah van Gelder shares examples of how intentional communities create joy, support, and meaning. From worker-owned cooperatives transforming economic power dynamics to neighbourhood initiatives that rebuild social connections, these stories challenge the dominant narrative that privacy and independence should be our highest priorities. The conversation delves into the cultural forces driving our disconnection—media that emphasizes danger over cooperation, economic pressures that separate families, and the glorification of individualism that leaves people feeling they must solve all problems alone.  The path toward more connected living doesn't necessarily require radical lifestyle changes—simple actions like organizing neighborhood gatherings or creating mutual aid networks can begin to rebuild our social fabric.  🔗  Relevant links https://substack.com/@howwerise https://www.facebook.com/Sarah.van.Gelder/ https://www.yesmagazine.org/ https://www.instagram.com/sarahrvangelder/ https://x.com/sarahvangelderhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Sarah-van-Gelder/author/B006ASKW2M 🗓️ Recorded August 6th, 2025. 📍 The Addisons, Whityham, UK Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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  4. Hidden Voices Speak: An Anthology of Home Educated Voices

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    Hidden Voices Speak: An Anthology of Home Educated Voices

    Send us a text In this episode, we talk with Ben Feliz (14) and Addison Harding (13), home-educated children and contributors to the anthology “Hidden Voices Speak.” Addison came up with the idea for the book, Ben designed the cover, and they worked together with others to publish it. Both care deeply about children’s rights and wanted to respond to recent news stories and new UK legislation affecting home education. They discuss the motivation behind the anthology, which was to give home-educated children and families a chance to share their experiences directly. Addison notes, "Nowhere in the bill do they ask what the child thinks," highlighting the lack of young voices in education policy discussions. Ben has always been home educated; Addison has experience in both school and home education. They describe learning based on curiosity and individual interests. The book includes contributions from both children and adults. This conversation provides a direct account of home education from young people who live it every day. 🔗  Relevant links Buy the book and support Ben and Addison: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Hidden-Voices-Speak-Anthology-Educated/dp/B0F3DP9KQZ X.com page for the book: https://x.com/hidvoicesspeak Learn more about the Homeducation Family Festival where Ben and Addison gave a talk: https://hefestivals.co.uk/If you want to know more about the political aspects of Home Education in the UK, then we recommend that you listen to our episodes with Randall Hardy http://theconrad.family/selfdirected33http://theconrad.family/selfdirected44🗓️ Recorded August 5th, 2025. 📍 The Addisons, Whityham, UK Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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  5. Unschooling and Worldschooling Has Changed Us | The Conrads in dialogue with Heidi & Andrew Schrum

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    Unschooling and Worldschooling Has Changed Us | The Conrads in dialogue with Heidi & Andrew Schrum

    Send us a text We sit down with Andrew and Heidi Schrum, just three weeks away from starting their life as a full-time nomadic worldschooling family. They ask us direct questions about our seven years of unschooling and worldschooling. We discuss how the biggest changes happened in us as parents—not our children. We describe letting go of academic pressure, seeing teenagers choose their own academic interests, and how travel creates natural learning opportunities. We also talk about why we stepped away from curriculum-based education and what we've learned about trust, autonomy, and family life on the road. Topics include: Trusting children’s natural learningMoving beyond academic schedulesTeens choosing study for themselvesHow travel shapes social and cultural learningCritiques of conventional schoolingWhat changes most for parents in unschooling🗓️ Recorded August 3rd, 2025. 📍 The Addisons, Whityham,UK Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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  6. Charles Eisenstein | Are We Meant to Live Like This? The Price of “Normal” Modern Life

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    Charles Eisenstein | Are We Meant to Live Like This? The Price of “Normal” Modern Life

    Send us a text Charles Eisenstein is an author and speaker whose books and essays explore themes of community, human connection, economics, and social change. He is known for works such as The More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know Is Possible. Charles joins us to explore how modern family structures have evolved and what's been lost in our transition from community-based living to isolated nuclear families.  What gets lost when we accept today’s idea of “normal” life? Together with Charles we discuss the shift from community to isolated nuclear families, the fading of shared caregiving, and why so many people feel something essential is missing.  Charles shares his view that grief and discomfort about modern life are important signals, not problems to fix.  Together, we question how community skills have eroded and what it might take to rebuild real connection.  If you find yourself questioning “normal” and longing for deeper connection, this conversation offers perspective and encouragement to trust that feeling—and to look for ways, big or small, to rebuild genuine community in your own life. 🔗 Read articles and see videos  with Charles Eisenstein  https://charleseisenstein.org/https://charleseisenstein.substack.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@charleseisenstein 🔗 Charles Eisenstein on Social Media https://www.instagram.com/charles_eisenstein/ https://www.facebook.com/charleseisensteinauthor https://x.com/ceisenstein 🗓️ Recorded July 11, 2025. 📍 Bremerhaven, Germany Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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  7. Jamie Rumble | Beyond the Classroom: Learning Emerges When We Stop Teaching and Start Living

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    Jamie Rumble | Beyond the Classroom: Learning Emerges When We Stop Teaching and Start Living

    Send us a text What if our traditional education system is fundamentally misaligned with how humans naturally learn? Jesper and Cecilie Conrad continue their conversation with Jamie Rumble, exploring the philosophy and practice of unschooling within a nomadic lifestyle. Jamie shares how his background, including influences from Paulo Freire and the concept of eco-pedagogy, shapes his approach to teaching and learning. The discussion challenges the traditional structure of schooling, contrasting prescribed curricula with the emergent, curiosity-driven learning that happens in real life. Cecilie and Jesper explain why their family chooses not to worry about global crises like climate change and instead focus on adaptability, freedom, and the ability to hold discomfort and uncertainty. They describe how living on the road exposes their children to different cultures and environments, building emotional intelligence and cultural humility. The episode examines the pitfalls of seeking “teachable moments” and questions the idea that adults should determine what children need to learn. Reflection, dialogue, and presence are highlighted as essential elements of education. The conversation closes with a discussion of planetary citizenship, beauty, and the importance of navigating both challenges and joys with intention and love. 🗓️ Recorded July 1st, 2025. 📍 Åmarksgård, Lille Skendsved, Denmark Support the show PODCAST INFO Podcast website: http://theconrad.family/podcast YouTube Full Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/theconradfamily365 Apple Podcasts: https://www.theconrad.family/apple Spotify: https://theconrad.family/spotify RSS: https://theconrad.family/rss SUPPORT & CONNECT Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Theconradfamily Share a review: https://www.theconrad.family/review-our-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily Twitter: https://twitter.com/theconradfamily

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Self Directed - A Podcast on Life, Learning, and Raising Free Thinkers. Hosts Cecilie and Jesper Conrad, full-time travellers since 2018 and parents of four, invite a new guest on the podcast every Thursday.

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