250. Blessing Your Mentee with Dr. John Trent from StrongFamilies.com

In this episode of the You Can Mentor podcast, Zachary Garza sits down with Dr. John Trent to explore the life-changing impact of mentorship and the power of words. Dr. Trent opens up about his own journey, overcoming a difficult childhood, and the crucial role mentorship played in his healing. He highlights the importance of having someone who truly believes in you and introduces the concept of "the blessing"—a biblical idea centered around affirming and adding value to others’ lives.

Together, Zachary and Dr. Trent dive into the five key elements of blessing, including the healing power of meaningful touch, and how these elements can transform relationships. They discuss how mentorship can guide individuals through their struggles, help them recognize their worth, and inspire hope for the future. Through a powerful conversation about encouragement, faith, and the deep connections that mentors can foster, they reveal how words, touch, and genuine commitment are essential in guiding others toward growth and healing.

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Dr. John Trent is an award-winning, best-selling author and the president of StrongFamilies.com and the Center for StrongFamilies, both organizations dedicated to strengthening marriage and family relationships worldwide. He is known for books such as The Blessing, Breaking the Cycle of Divorce, Heartshift, and Leading from Your Strengths. Dr. Trent is also the creator of the Lion, Otter, Golden Retriever, and Beaver personality framework. He holds a Master of Theology degree from Dallas Theological Seminary and a Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Counseling from North Central Texas Federation of Colleges and Universities. For over 40 years, Dr. Trent and his wife, Cindy, have been married and have two daughters, Kari and Laura. 

00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and the Power of Words
02:01 John Trent's Personal Journey and the Importance of Relationships
06:42 The Role of Mentorship in Healing and Growth
11:42 Understanding the Concept of the Blessing
16:52 The Five Elements of Blessing and Meaningful Touch
23:24 The Power of Touch and Connection
24:26 The Importance of Spoken Words
28:10 Overcoming Lies and Seeking Encouragement
32:26 Attaching High Value Through Words
34:42 Envisioning a Special Future
36:19 Genuine Commitment in Mentorship
42:49 Pointing to Jesus in Mentorship