#301 The 'Secret Sauce': How I Turned My Unique Qualities into Strengths with Patrick Alexander

We had the pleasure of meeting Patrick Alexander in his Las Cruces, New Mexico home, just a short three-hour drive from Albuquerque. After a quick setup, we settled into his living room, with Patrick taking a comfortable spot on the couch, and The Jar positioned between us.

Patrick hails from Southern Indiana, a small-town kid who grew up in a household shaped by divorce. Raised by his father alongside his brother, Patrick describes himself as that "smart but weird" kid. From a young age, he displayed a profound interest in biodiversity, encompassing everything from plants to animals. Until the age of seven, life seemed to be in a good place for Patrick.

However, as he transitioned into middle school and high school, social challenges emerged. Patrick endured relentless teasing, and it wasn't until the final two years of high school that he found relief. He transferred to what he calls the "hippie school," where he moved in with his mom on the Indiana University campus. Here, his life took a more positive turn, and his love for biology blossomed.

Patrick continued his educational journey, pursuing graduate school in New Mexico, where he completed his doctorate in environmental science. He delved into data analysis related to biodiversity, essentially living the dream he'd envisioned.

More recently, Patrick underwent a significant diagnosis: autism. This revelation began to explain many aspects of his life, from social challenges to his internal struggles with authenticity. He shared his journey of learning to be comfortable with who he is, embracing self-love, and looking in the mirror to say, "I love you," or, as we joked, "I like you."

Our conversation with Patrick takes us through his life journey as he navigates self-discovery and integration, ultimately turning his unique qualities into his "secret sauce." Join us, Patrick, and The Jar for a candid conversation about real life and real people.

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