36. Finding Purpose After 40: How a Mom and Lawyer Reinvented Her Career Helping Other Women Do the Same with Allison Marketti

In this empowering and deeply authentic episode, host Victoria Byrd sits down with Allison Marietta, a former trial attorney turned entrepreneur and mentor for women in midlife. Together, they explore the journey of stepping away from safe, traditional career paths to pursue a passion-driven life that aligns with personal values and aspirations.

Allison candidly shares her transition from an intense career in law to becoming a business coach, driven by her desire to empower women 40 and over to create thriving, flexible lives. Victoria and Allison delve into the challenges women face during midlife, including redefining identity, combating societal stigmas around aging, and balancing motherhood while nurturing personal goals.

Key Takeaways:

• Reclaiming Your Purpose: Both Victoria and Allison reflect on the “hunger” many midlife women feel—a longing for something beyond motherhood or careers they may no longer connect with. Allison shares how following her inner voice led her to a new, fulfilling career path.

• Building Confidence Through Small Steps: This episode highlights the importance of starting small, even in the face of fear. Whether it’s creating a new business, advocating for yourself in healthcare, or redefining your self-worth, incremental action builds the foundation for lasting change.

• The Power of Authenticity: Allison and Victoria discuss the liberating realization that showing up as your true self—in business, on social media, and in life—is the key to connecting with others and standing out in a crowded space.

• Embracing the “And” in Midlife: This episode breaks down the myth that women must choose between being a mother and pursuing their passions. Allison and Victoria share actionable advice for navigating these dual roles and finding alignment in your day-to-day life.

• Overcoming Judgment and Fear: The hosts share personal anecdotes about stepping into their unique callings, facing societal and personal doubts, and learning to embrace failure as a stepping stone to growth.

Inspirational Quotes from the Episode:

• “You can be a great mom and still pursue your dreams. It’s not one or the other—it’s the ‘and.’” – Allison Marietta

• “Your journey doesn’t have to look perfect to be meaningful. Just give yourself 20 seconds of courage to start.” – Victoria Byrd

• “Authenticity is your superpower. When you show up as you, you attract the people who are meant to connect with your message.” – Allison Marietta

Actionable Steps for Listeners:

1. Reflect: Take time to ask yourself, “What do I want for my life right now?” without the constraints of societal expectations.

2. Start Small: Choose one small step toward your goal, whether that’s reaching out for support, setting a boundary, or investing time in a passion project.

3. Seek Community: Find like-minded women who uplift and inspire you. Surround yourself with those who celebrate your wins and understand your challenges.

4. Embrace Your Story: Your experiences, both triumphs and struggles, make you uniquely qualified to inspire and help others. Own your narrative.

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Connect with Allison: 

Find on social media: https://www.instagram.com/allisonmarketti 

For more information to work with Allison: https://stan.store/Allisonmarketti 

Connect with Me:

Free 1:1 Coaching Consult Call with Victoria:https://victoriabyrd.as.me/booknow  

Learn more about the Women Mastering Midlife Community: www.msvictoriabyrd.com/community

Connect with Victoria: msvictoriabyrd 

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