#44 - Self Or Partner Pleasure

This episode is a Reddit Got It Good Episode - BUT - today I did a spin off of a TikTok video I created on why your partner may be masturbating rather than having partnered sex. Sex can be a difficult topic to communicate about in relationships because it is so vulnerable and was made out to be awkward from the time we were kids (for most of us!). Some individuals view sex as for procreation only, and some view it as something you do for fun with your partner to experience pleasure together. But what is pleasure together isn't happening, or for some other reason, your partner doesn't feel connected enough to go the extra mile of doing the work of sex? Watch this episode today to learn why this might be, and email me, message me from my website, or find me on reddit (@marriageandrelations) to send me a message with YOUR story there, to be featured on Reddit Got It Good Saturdays. If you leave me a review, I will choose one person each week to mail a deck of my cards, called Relate Connect, an intimacy game for partners.