445: Charlotte A. revisits

Live IFS

🔸 First is worst? Making it work for dad.

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Why are my prompts missing the mark? Why am I rushing the witnessing? Why am I getting blended? We speak every two months or so, I get lost in the context shifts, the windows to connect come and go, and then her Self steps in and makes me irrelevant. And of course I'm dealing with my own mad parts.

I took a shot steering towards exile, and when we found that connection, I wanted to push the gas before story-teller closed the window. Prompting you-turns wasn't so effective, I could have done that better, but instead tried being more direct to the exile. She had given us so much.

I need to find a way to interrupt story-tellers.


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