233 episodes

Dating is hard. That's why BFFs Kimmy and Liza decided a 51 first date project would be... fun? Each week, they recap (overanalyze) a date. They also talk to cool guests about modern love in their quest to reclaim dating as a sometimes enjoyable, but still mostly horrifying, thing to do. Produced by CHIX Productions, LLC.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 513 Ratings

Dating is hard. That's why BFFs Kimmy and Liza decided a 51 first date project would be... fun? Each week, they recap (overanalyze) a date. They also talk to cool guests about modern love in their quest to reclaim dating as a sometimes enjoyable, but still mostly horrifying, thing to do. Produced by CHIX Productions, LLC.

    Secrets

    Secrets

    Kimmy and Liza discuss SECRETS - Is it okay to keep secrets from a partner? When do you tell people things that you consider secret? What is “need to know” with a partner? Do we have a right to privacy even from our partners? How and when do you share secrets? The article we discuss can be found at: https://www.verywellmind.com/secrets-in-marriage-2303980#:~:text=You%20have%20the%20right%20to,reason%20that%20you%20want%20to. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group!
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    • 1 hr 5 min
    Ultimatums or Boundaries?

    Ultimatums or Boundaries?

    Kimmy and Liza discuss ULTIMATUMS - do they ever work, have we ever given one, have we ever received one, and wtf is up with that Netflix show? We also discuss this article by Madeline Howard: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a39642936/do-ultimatums-work-in-relationships/. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group!
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    • 58 min
    Ambition!

    Ambition!

    Kimmy and Liza discuss AMBITION and Hannah Orenstein's article in The Cut - "My Ambition Turns Off More Men than it Attracts": https://www.thecut.com/2022/03/ambition-dating-men-turnoff.html. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group!
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    • 1 hr 6 min
    Fast-Forwarding: The Good and The Bad

    Fast-Forwarding: The Good and The Bad

    Kimmy and Liza discuss FAST-FORWARDING a relationship and break down the good and bad versions of fast forwarding. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group!
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    • 58 min
    VALENTINE'S DAY: A Re-Branding

    VALENTINE'S DAY: A Re-Branding

    Kimmy and Liza re-think, re-brand, and rant about everyone's favorite holiday to hate-love and love-hate: Valentine's day. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group!
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    • 59 min
    Just Do It - Confident Communication

    Just Do It - Confident Communication

    Kimmy and Liza discuss their least favorite thing in the world - open and clear communication, ugh. They break down communication issues in their own relationships, and then go discuss this Goop article on communication mistakes in relationships: https://goop.com/wellness/relationships/communication-mistakes-in-relationships/ They also discuss if there's ever an excuse for being left on read and what to do if you're feeling some time of way about a sexual dry spell. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group!
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    • 1 hr 20 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
513 Ratings

513 Ratings

Sheldonsays ,

Review Long Overdue

I’ve been listening to 51 First Dates, well, since their first date! The interplay between these two funny women is always entertaining and, as a guy, I’ve found it very interesting to learn so much about the dating world from a female perspective. This show has helped me through dating, my first long-term relationship, my first long-term relationship break-up, and even got me excited about doing therapy (their unofficial sponsor of choice!). I look forward to whatever the future brings from Kimmy, Liza, and their knowledgable guests/guest daters. Here’s to 1500 more First Dates!

Shaley Hea ,

Long time listener

I discovered Kimmy and Liza March 2020 and since then have not missed a single episode. I even asked to be on the show and they had me on! I dont know which episode it is so don’t try to find it.

Anyway, they have gotten me through two relationships, two breakups, lots of lonely single times, adventures through new england, and holidays with my family. I feel like they’re my friends :) Thanks for being one of the few constants in my life!

Camille Virginia ,

Besties with the best advice

I love being a part of Liza and Kimmy's heartfelt and hilarious dating journey, and the awesome guests they bring along for the ride. I can laugh, cry, and learn something super interesting and applicable to my own life in every episode, which is quite the combination, right? I highly recommend 51 First Dates.

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