51: Preparing for your role as husband (from "Marriage readiness" series)

Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Dr. Shmuel Brachfeld about how to prepare for your successful marriage - in the time before marriage.

• Introduction. 
• Planting seeds that will be helpful in marriage. 
• Why get married? It's not good for a man to be alone.  
• Become one unit as husband and wife. 
• Understanding what is a relationship. 
• Relationship is so much more than what they do for us. 
• In a relationship, two people experience each other. 
• A marriage is a relationship based on choice - every day, I commit again. 
• At the end of the day, we know we can rely on each other - a  'couple bubble'. 
• Each of you shouldn't lose yourself in the relationship. Consent.   
• Privacy vs secrecy.  (Reach out for help when something is off .) 
• Self-awareness is crucial for a successful marriage. 
• When have differences, see yourselves as me and you together AGAINST the problem. 
• Learn effective ways to communicate your needs. 
• Dan lkaf zchus: "What's the possible back story?" 
• Q: what is expected from the 'man'?