Act Like You Got Some Sense ~ Part One

How many times have you heard, “Act like you got some sense!” from parents and grandparents that set the social code for your family?  If this is a familiar phrase heard in your family, you will enjoy the shared experience and humor in this episode.  Andre and Anitra examine the “SOP” standard operating procedures that are established in the home and transferred across generations. Come and laugh with us as we reflect on the connection between family social codes integrated with professional and personal lifestyles.  

Memorable Quotes:

• Families establish SOP, standard operating procedures, to guide their children ~ Anitra
• Social codes become confusing when in conflict with family codes. ~ Andre
• Social codes are your family brand or overarching identifiers assigned to your family. ~ Anitra. 
• You always have options. ~ Dangerfield Grandparents
• Family definition of social codes adapt and evolve over time to protect the brand. ~ Andre
• Social coding with siblings is in the language of sharing, assisting, and supporting. ~ Andre
• If I got it, you got it, is coding as a sibling. ~ Andre
• Mirror holding or reflective space is when siblings watch how the other sibling displays the brand of the family. ~ Anitra
• Be careful not to get swallowed in the shadow of the older sibling because of the family brand. ~ Anitra
• Society says, what are you made of? Can I change your coding? ~ Andre

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Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography

CHAPTERS
0:00  Introduction
1:44 Sibling Check-In
6:33   Sibling Sound-Off Segment
34:20Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks
35:15Savage Segment: The Unspoken Codes
44:58Savage Segment: Defining Social Codes
58:10Savage Segment: How do we define social codes as siblings