AND/BOTH Podcast

Dr. Ashley Blackington
AND/BOTH Podcast

Hear from moms in all different scenarios doing their absolute best to honor themselves as individuals in a world that would prefer, as mothers, we not. ⁠⁠Hear from moms who are trying to figure out what that "something" is after the life altering transition into motherhood.⁠⁠Hear from moms that say "I know I need to do something for myself and this is what it is, but it feels impossible to do it"⁠⁠What is the AND/BOTH that you are juggling with motherhood? Career, hobbies, entrepreneurship, new identity, new activities, new passions and interests?⁠

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    63. Living in Alignment: Heather Chauvin on the Importance of Prioritizing Your Own Values

    Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing In this episode, I sit down with Heather Chauvin, a leadership coach who helps successful women live, work, and parent on their own terms—with courage and authenticity. Heather’s journey took a dramatic turn in 2013 when a stage 4 cancer diagnosis forced her to reevaluate everything she had been taught about motherhood, success, and sacrifice. Since then, she has been on a mission to challenge cultural expectations that lead to burnout and self-sacrifice, helping women redefine what it means to truly thrive. Heather shares insights on breaking free from societal “shoulds,” prioritizing your own well-being without guilt, and leading from a place of alignment—all while being an engaged parent and successful entrepreneur. Her approach is real, refreshing, and unapologetic. If you’ve ever felt like you’re checking all the right boxes but still feeling drained, this conversation will inspire you to take your power back. What you’ll learn: Why self-sacrifice isn’t a requirement for good motherhoodHow to listen to your intuition and trust yourselfThe dangers of ignoring your body’s whispers before they turn into screamsWhy prioritizing your own fulfillment is the key to thrivingHow to break free from cultural expectations and create a life that truly aligns with you Connect with Heather: Book: Dying to Be a Good MotherInstagram: @heatherchauvin Connect with Ashley: Website: https://dovetaildesigns.co Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    55 min
  2. FEB 21

    62. Transparency in Parenting: Natasha Golinsky on Being Honest About the Challenges of Motherhood

    Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing In this episode, I sit down with Natasha Golinski, a business coach dedicated to helping solopreneur moms build teams, reclaim their time, and work fewer hours while maintaining a full-time income. As a mother of three and an entrepreneur, Natasha understands the overwhelming challenge of balancing business, family, and personal time without burnout. We dive deep into the myths of motherhood and business, why so many moms feel pressured to "do it all," and how hiring the right support can transform your life. Natasha also shares her unfiltered take on motherhood, admitting that she didn’t love the early years and why it's important to normalize these feelings. If you're looking for a no-nonsense approach to business and motherhood, this episode is for you. What we dicusss:Why working less doesn’t mean making lessHow to delegate tasks at home and in business without guiltThe importance of team-building for solopreneur momsHow to step away from societal “shoulds” and define success on your own termsWhy not loving certain parts of motherhood is normal—and okay Connect with NatashaLinkedIn: Natasha Golinski Connect with Ashley: Website: https://dovetaildesigns.co Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    1 hr
  3. FEB 14

    61. The Power of Community: Supporting Women Through Pregnancy and Postpartum Transitions with Marnie Madras

    Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing In this episode, I sit down with Marnie Madras, the founder and CEO of Rumbly, a modern motherhood brand redefining the pregnancy experience. Marnie shares her journey from a corporate and startup career to becoming a postpartum doula and entrepreneur, all while balancing life as a mom of four. We talk about the challenges of pregnancy, the societal expectations placed on moms, and how Rumbly is helping women prioritize themselves during this transformative time. What you'll hear: How Marnie transitioned from corporate life to launching Rumbly and becoming a doulaThe realities of pregnancy and early motherhood, including the loss of identity many women experienceWhy self-care and individuality are essential during pregnancy and postpartumThe role of community and support in making motherhood a more positive experienceHow Rumbly’s subscription and gift boxes are designed to celebrate moms—not just babies Connect with Marnie: Website: rumbly.coInstagram: @rumbly_coEmail: marnie@rumbly.co Connect with Ashley: Website: https://dovetaildesigns.co Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    49 min
  4. JAN 31

    59. Women, Entrepreneurship, and Risk-Taking in the Nonprofit World with Allison Prieur

    Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing In this episode, we talk with Allison Prieur, a mom of three and a nonprofit professional with over 20 years of experience in the sector. We dive into the gender and racial disparities in nonprofit work, how passion-driven labor is often undervalued, and the financial instability that so many nonprofit workers face. Allison shares how becoming a mom changed her perspective on the sector and led her to entrepreneurship, and we explore what needs to change for nonprofit workers to be fairly compensated for their impact. What we discuss: The hidden gender and racial disparities in nonprofit work and how they impact financial stabilityWhy passion-driven labor is often exploited and what that means for nonprofit workers and their familiesThe challenges of balancing entrepreneurship, parenting, and higher education as a mom of threeThe reality of nonprofit funding cycles, last-minute budget approvals, and workforce burnoutWhy it’s so important for nonprofit organizations to advocate for fair wages and systemic changeThe intersection of motherhood, nonprofit work, and entrepreneurship and why women are expected to “do more with less”How we can create real change in the nonprofit sector through advocacy and collaborationThe power of evaluation and learning in nonprofits to drive long-term impact Connect with Allison: Website: www.dareic.com/store Linkedin: http://linkedin.com/in/allisonprieur Connect with Ashley: Website: https://dovetaildesigns.co Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    52 min
  5. JAN 24

    58. Compassion for Disruptive Life Experiences: Navigating Grief and Motherhood with Katie Huey

    In this Ashley and Katie Huey explore the intersection of grief, leadership, and parenting. Katie shares her personal journey through grief after losing her father and how it has shaped her work in leadership development. They discuss the complexities of navigating grief in both personal and professional settings, especially in the wake of the pandemic. The conversation delves into the importance of empathy, compassion, and self-care, particularly for mothers balancing ambition and emotional labor. Throughout the discussion, they emphasize the need for open conversations about grief and the human experience. We explore the complexities of motherhood, work-life balance, and the emotional landscape of being a woman today. They discuss the challenges of navigating personal and professional responsibilities, the importance of community and compassion, and the beauty found in both joy and sadness. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-acceptance, the power of 'and both' in life choices, and the significance of ordinary moments in a world that often pressures women to excel in every aspect of life. They also touch on future aspirations, personal growth, and the importance of finding joy in the journey. Connect with Katie: Instagram: @52beautifulthings Website: katiehuey.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katie-huey-acc-b10969aa/ Email: katie@katiehuey.com Connect with Ashley: Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    51 min
  6. JAN 17

    57. Building a Business You Love Without Sacrificing Motherhood With Jessica Murray

    Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing In this episode, we chat with Jessica Murray, founder of Empower, shares her journey from corporate success to building a business that aligns with her values as a mother and entrepreneur. Jessica reflects on the identity shift motherhood brings and how it impacts career choices, offering actionable insights for moms navigating similar transitions. What you’ll learn in this episode: The emotional and professional challenges of transitioning from corporate life to entrepreneurship as a mother.How to navigate the identity shift that comes with motherhood and embrace new career paths.Practical strategies for balancing work and motherhood without losing sight of personal fulfillment.The importance of building structure and boundaries as an entrepreneur to manage time effectively.Why it’s essential to align your career with your personal values and goals as a parent.Insights into how to ask for help, build support systems, and find your community as a working mom.The reality of overcoming societal expectations about what success looks like after becoming a parent.How to empower yourself to pursue a meaningful career while raising a family. This episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable tips for moms who want to thrive in both their personal and professional lives. Connect with Ashley: Website: https://dovetaildesigns.co Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    55 min
  7. JAN 10

    56. From Chemical Engineering to Retail Strategist: Redefining Goals and Markers for Success with Monique Benoit

    Support AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growing In this episode, we chat with Monique Hutcherson Benoit, a dynamic leader in retail and a mom of four, shares her remarkable journey from chemical engineering to retail strategy at Ulta Beauty, where she champions BIPOC-owned brands. Monique discusses the importance of embracing pivots, balancing career aspirations with motherhood, and the challenges of managing a large family while navigating life’s unexpected turns. With honesty and humor, she reflects on her experiences, including career transitions, co-parenting, and the evolving demands of motherhood. This inspiring conversation highlights the power of resilience, adaptability, and community support. What'll you'll learn: How Monique transitioned from chemical engineering to retail strategy and entrepreneurshipThe challenges and lessons learned from managing a large family while advancing her careerThe importance of building systems of support, both professionally and personallyHow to embrace pivots in career and life without feeling stuck in one pathInsights into supporting diverse-owned brands and creating equity in the retail spaceThe evolving nature of motherhood and how to balance personal identity with parenting responsibilities Connect with Monique: Website: www.scalingemergingbeauty.com Linked in: https://www.linkedin.com/in/moniquehbenoit/ IG: @scalingemergingbeauty Connect with Ashley: Website: https://dovetaildesigns.co Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/ AND/BOTH Community: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/andboth-community Dovetail® App: https://airtable.com/appn6w6IWipJYIuA3/pagZys7UnECzM46iJ/form Social: Instagram: @dovetailapp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.co LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

    1h 1m
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12 Ratings

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Hear from moms in all different scenarios doing their absolute best to honor themselves as individuals in a world that would prefer, as mothers, we not. ⁠⁠Hear from moms who are trying to figure out what that "something" is after the life altering transition into motherhood.⁠⁠Hear from moms that say "I know I need to do something for myself and this is what it is, but it feels impossible to do it"⁠⁠What is the AND/BOTH that you are juggling with motherhood? Career, hobbies, entrepreneurship, new identity, new activities, new passions and interests?⁠

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