Are You Dating The Right One? 10 Things To Consider

Episode Summary Perry teaches through these 10 things to consider to see if you are dating the right one: 1. They are not willing to fight for purity. 2. If they are trying to get me to compromise what God’s word says so clearly. 3. If you are always defending him/her to the people who know you, love you and love Jesus. 4. If you find yourself not wanting to talk about him/her in front of the people in your life that you KNOW may disapprove of the relationship for some reason. 5. If you know the relationships isn’t really going anywhere but you don’t want to break up because doing so would cause you to be insecure because you have allowed yourself to be identified by who you are dating rather than who you are in Christ. 6. You find out they are lying to you. 7. If you cannot confront them about issues without them losing their temper. 8. If you discover they are unfaithful to you. 9. If something about them drives you insane but you convince yourself that after you get married, that problem will go away. 10. If the Lord has specifically spoken to you and instructed you to end the relationship because you can’t or you won’t because you don’t want to hurt them or fear that if you end the relationship then you won’t have a chance at another one. Episode Resources Episode Quotes If people aren’t willing to fight for purity before they’re married, there’s a greater chance they won’t fight for it after they’re married. — Perry Noble Purity is a fight. — Perry Noble It is totally possible to love Jesus and at the same time have to fight for purity. — Perry Noble You can fight better in community than you can alone. — Perry Noble Compromise can never be a consideration if you want a setup for a healthy marriage. — Perry Noble No one has EVER been fixed by compromise. — Perry Noble If the relationship isn't going anywhere, a conversation is needed. — Perry Noble If they lie to you when you're dating, it's a pattern in their life, and they will lie to you when you're married. — Perry Noble A guy that loses his temper all the time is not someone you'll be able to trust with your heart or with your children. — Perry Noble A woman that cannot control her emotions is not submitted to the Holy Spirit of God. — Perry Noble If you find out that they're cheating on you, you do not need to date them. You're better than that. — Perry Noble Marriage is a magnifier. — Perry Noble It wasn’t that she was a bad girl or I was a bad guy. We just were not BEST for each other. — Perry Noble Obedience is never easy, but it’s always right. — Perry Noble All Content is © 2005 - 2025 All Rights Reserved