Attracting a High-Value Partner: The Single Mom's Guide to Showing Up Powerfully on Dating Apps

Alright, ladies—this episode of The Single Mom Collective is here to help you reclaim your confidence, style, and maybe even your love life. Amanda sits down with style coach Erin Mathis to dig deep into the transformative power of self-care and personal style. They unpack the often-overlooked truth: when you invest in yourself, from the inside out, you’re setting the stage for confidence, happiness, and those powerful first impressions—on dating apps, at work, and beyond.Erin shares her personal journey in style coaching and the “a-ha” moments her clients experience when they rediscover themselves through style. Together, Amanda and Erin explore how dressing for romance and balancing masculine and feminine energy can shift not only how you see yourself but how others see you. Let’s be real—this is more than clothes; it’s about feeling alive, worthy, and totally visible in a world that often tries to make women invisible, especially as we age.Takeaways:

• Self-Care Isn’t Optional: Single moms, it’s time to make self-care a non-negotiable. Prioritizing yourself teaches your kids a lesson about confidence, resilience, and knowing your worth.
• Style Can Transform Lives: Investing in personal style isn’t vanity; it’s power. A wardrobe that makes you feel amazing creates confidence that radiates into everything you do.
• Dressing for Romance: Get intentional with your look, especially on dating apps. Dressing in ways that embrace your feminine energy can be magnetic.
• Opportunities Are Linked to Presentation: Style can open doors—not just in dating but in your career too. Presenting yourself powerfully is about signaling to the world that you deserve every good thing.
• Take Small Steps: Even tiny changes in how you show up can have a ripple effect on your entire life. Erin breaks down easy ways to start creating your own personal style, even if you’re on a budget.

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• Amanda Carroll: @therealamandacarroll
• Erin Mathis: @erinstylecoach

Let’s make your love life and style something you’re excited about. Tune in, join the community, and let’s do this together!

Episode Chapters:

• 00:00 Rediscovering Yourself as a Single Mom
• 03:03 Why Self-Care and Style Matter
• 06:00 The Transformative Power of Style Coaching
• 11:56 Confidence Built Through Personal Style
• 18:06 Real-Life Transformations and Success Stories
• 23:55 Finding Fulfillment and Joy in Helping Others
• 31:56 Practical Tips for Everyday Style
• 39:44 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy
• 47:45 How Style Impacts Life and Income
• 53:38 Taking Your First Steps Toward Style Transformation