Audrey's EASY ENGLISH Podcast

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Audrey's EASY ENGLISH Podcast

Hi, this is Audrey from Toronto. I am an English tutor on Cafetalk. I am also a life coach. Click on the link below to view my profile: https://cafetalk.com/tutor/profile/?c=eJzzyyp0MgvIcPPOCCksKzFycjOtNDArt7UFAGRwB8E.&lang=en This podcast is designed to help you improve your listening skills through short (3-5 minutes) monologues about various topics. In the near future, I will upload dialogues between myself and guests. My podcast episodes are short and easy to understand, suitable for intermediate students.

  1. 05/26/2023

    Episode 30: Desire for approval

    Episode 30  Desire for approval Script: Hello, everyone, how are you? This week, the topic is "desire for approval". Social media is becoming more and more popular these days, and we often hear the phrase "desire for approval." It means wanting others to recognize and praise us. For example, imagine you bake a cake and share pictures of it on social media, hoping to get comments and likes. When you see those comments, it makes you happy. It's the feeling of wanting everyone to acknowledge that you did something good. To acknowledge means to admit and accept. Life used to be simpler before social media became so popular. We didn't feel the need to show pictures of ourselves or of our friends and family at a restaurant. The only time we would show pictures to others was probably when we went on trips. But social media has changed everything. Nowadays, people, especially women, post pictures of their new clothes, shoes, and jewelry on their social media pages. They also post pictures of the food they eat at restaurants, sometimes even just a cup of coffee.   They post their selfies at the gym.  Why do they do that? I think maybe they feel insecure. They need validation, which means they want other people to say that they are good or important. Social media gives them a way to seek that validation from others. This desire for approval can stem from various factors. In today's digital age, social media has created a culture of comparison and competition. When we see others sharing their achievements and glamorous lifestyles, it can make us feel inadequate and fuel our own desire for validation. We may believe that receiving recognition from others will make us feel more valuable and worthy. The number of likes, comments, and followers has become a measure of popularity and success. As a result, many individuals find themselves caught in a constant pursuit of more followers, striving to maintain an online presence that gather attention and praise. However, it is essential to recognize the potential downsides of this reliance on external validation. The constant need for approval can lead to a distorted sense of self-worth, as our value becomes tied solely to the opinions of others. It can also create anxiety as we feel compelled to constantly seek validation in every aspect of our lives. It is crucial to shift our focus inward. Building self-confidence and embracing our unique qualities and accomplishments can help us break free from the cycle of seeking external validation. Our worth should not be determined solely by the opinions of others. In conclusion, while the desire for approval is increasingly prevalent in the age of social media, it is important to understand its underlying causes and impact on our well-being. By striving to develop a stronger sense of self-worth and reducing our dependence on external validation, we can find a healthier balance in our online interactions and cultivate a more authentic sense of happiness in our lives.   Vocabulary acknowledge - means to admit and accept validation – the act of checking and proving accuracy inadequate – lacking the quality distorted - twisted prevalent - widespread

    6 min

  2. 05/19/2023

    Episode 29: Phrases that native speakers use

    Script: Episode 29 This week I am going to teach you a few phrases on how to sound like a native speaker.  I will give you two examples for each phrase. The first one is "You don't say...".  It is an expression used to convey a sense of surprise or disbelief at something that has been said. It is often used sarcastically to suggest that the speaker already knew what was said. Example 1: Person A: "Did you hear that it's going to rain tomorrow?" Person B: "You don't say. I guess I should pack an umbrella." Example 2: Person A: "I just found out that the movie we want to see is sold out." Person B: "You don't say. Well, maybe we can catch a different movie instead." Number 2 "Tell me about it".  It is an expression used to express agreement or empathy with someone who is describing a frustrating or difficult situation. It suggests that the speaker has been through a similar experience and understands how the other person feels. Example 1: Person A: "I've been waiting in line for two hours to buy tickets." Person B: "Tell me about it. I waited in line for three hours last week."  Example 2: Person A: "I can't believe how hard it is to find a job right now." Person B: "Tell me about it. I've been applying to dozens of places and haven't heard back from anyone."  Number 3 "I am losing it".  It is an expression used to describe someone who is becoming increasingly frustrated, overwhelmed, or stressed out. It suggests that the person is struggling to keep their emotions under control. Example 1: Person A: "I have so much work to do and not enough time to do it." Person B: "I know, it's really stressful. You seem like you're losing it a little."  Example 2: Person A: "I can't find my keys anywhere and I'm going to be late for my appointment." Person B: "Take a deep breath, you don't want to lose it over something small like this." Number 4 "You tell me" – “You tell me" can be used to express agreement or emphasize that the speaker shares the same sentiment as the other person. It implies that the other person has made a valid point or observation, and the speaker is asking them to elaborate or offer their opinion. Example 1: Person A:  I heard the new restaurant downtown has amazing food. Person B: You tell me!  I have been meaning to try it out but haven’t had the chance yet. Example 2: Person A: I think we should leave early to avoid the traffic. Person B: You tell me.  You know the roads around here better than I do.” Number 5: "Have a beef with someone" is an idiom used to describe a situation where someone has a strong disagreement or grievance with another person. It suggests that there is a conflict or tension between the two individuals. Example 1: Person A: "Why are you avoiding Sarah?" Person B: "I have a beef with her. She said some things that really upset me."  Example 2: Person A: "Why did you quit your job at the restaurant?" Person B: "I had a beef with the owner. He was always micromanaging me and I couldn't take it anymore."   Thank you for listening.

    6 min

  3. 05/12/2023

    Episode 28: How to get unstuck and continue a conversation

    Script: Episode 28: How to get unstuck and continue a conversation: Hello, everyone. How are you? Last week I was not feeling well, and skipped an episode. Sorry about that. This week, I want to talk about how to get unstuck and continue a conversation. We have all been there. Sometimes, when somebody asks us a question, we need time to think of an answer, or we forget what we are trying to say. Sometimes, we simply don't know the answer. What should we do when we are in these situations? It depends on the question that you are asked. Scenario one. You need more time to get your thoughts together, so buy yourself time by saying something. You can say, a) "Great question, let me think about that for a moment." b) "You know, I have never thought about that. Let me think about that." c) "You know, I am not sure, let me think about that". Scenario two: When somebody asks your opinion about something that you don't know, answer a question with a question. You can say, "I am not sure, what about you?" You often hear people say "what about you?" and "how about you?". These two phrases are often used to ask for the other person's opinion or response. "What about you?" is more straightforward and direct. "How about you?" is less formal, more friendly and casual. It is often used as a follow-up question to a proposal and suggestion. But this strategy doesn't always work. What if somebody asks you about your job and you are not sure how to describe it in English? You certainly cannot say, "I am not sure." However, you can say, "Let me think about how to say it in English. In the meantime, why don't you tell me about your job?" Scenario three: What should you do if you don't understand the question? Those moments can be embarrassing. First of all, don't panic. And secondly, don't pretend you understand the question. You can ask the speaker to repeat the question or speak more slowly. a) "I am sorry, could you please repeat the question?" b) "Could you say that again more slowly?" c) "I didn't quite catch that. Could you say that again?" d) "I am not sure I understood your question. Could you rephrase it?" Sometimes, I hear people say, "say that again?" or "one more time please". "Say that again?" is very casual and informal and shouldn't be used at the workplace, unless you and your co-worker are more like friends. You should never say that to your boss or clients. "One more time please" is polite and simple. But the suggested phrases made you sound more professional. Thank you for listening.

    5 min

  4. 04/28/2023

    Episode 27 - How to sound smarter at work by using 'smart' words

    Script: Episode 27 - How to sound smarter at work by using 'smart' words Hello everyone, how are you? This week, I want to teach you how to sound smarter at work by using more professional words. Here are some suggestions. 1. Substitute "okay, no problem" with other phrases. We often say "okay, no problem" when we agree to a request. It is fine when you are talking to your friends or family members. It is not rude to reply to your boss, co-worker or clients with, "okay, no problem" when they ask you to do something. However, it will make you sound more sophisticated when you use different words and phrases. Here are some suggestions: "Certainly", or you can say, "certainly, I will get right on it." "I will be happy to take care of that for you." "Absolutely. When do you need it done by?" "Consider it done. Is there anything else I can help you with?" Note that the words "certainly" and "absolutely" are interchangeable. So you can say, "absolutely, I will get right on it". 2. Use the word "modify" instead of "change". For example, at a work meeting, somebody says, "we need to change the way we deal with customers". The word 'change' makes it sound like you need to change everything and nobody likes to make changes. Use the word "modify" instead. It means the same thing but sounds less drastic. Drastic means extreme and serious. 3. Say "sensational" instead of "awesome", or "amazing" or "great". These three words are being overused. 4. Ask the speaker to "elaborate" instead of saying "what do you mean?", or "I don't understand what you are saying" when somebody says something that you do not understand. It is less casual and more professional. You can say, "can you elaborate it a little?" 5. Substitute "confused" and "confusing" with "perplexed" or "perplexing". Examples: I am perplexed. This situation is perplexing. 6. Avoid using the word "like" too often. Some people use this word 3 times in one sentence. Substitute with "such as", or "for instance". Example, "This client is very difficult. You have to be careful with him, like when you go for a meeting, make sure you are 5 minutes early". Instead of saying "like if you go for a meeting", you can say, "such as" or "for instance, when you go for a meeting.." 7. "Exactly" is another word that people may overuse. You can say, "yes, that's so true", "yes, you are right," "that's exactly how I feel", or "you are spot on" to substitute "exactly". I hope these tips will help you. Thank you for listening.

    6 min

  5. 04/21/2023

    Episode 26: How to deal with gossips

    Script: Episode 26: How to deal with gossips A gossip is a rumor or a report of somebody, usually something bad. The conversation usually starts with, "Oh my God, did you hear...?" Gossips happen at work and at social gatherings. Why do people gossip? People gossip for a variety of reasons, which can be both positive and negative. On the positive side, gossiping can help people build and maintain social connections by sharing information and stories about others. It can also provide a way for people to bond over shared experiences or even serve as a form of entertainment. However, gossiping can also be used as a means of social control. People may spread rumors or negative information about others to damage their reputation, or it can serve as a way to make people feel superior by having exclusive information into other people's lives. If you are uncomfortable about gossiping, how do you politely ask somebody to stop talking badly about somebody else? 1. Change the topic. When somebody says to you, "Did you hear what she did yesterday?" You know the next thing that she says will be some kind of gossip or rumor. If you don't want to participate in a gossip or rumor, you can say, "no", and then immediately follow by saying something totally different, such as, "Have you started watching that new TV show?", or "how are your kids?", or "how's the new project going?" You make it clear you are not interested in the gossip, and want to move on to another topic. If that doesn't work, and the person is persistent in gossiping, then you can try the following strategy. 2. Shut it down. Simply be honest. Tell the person that you are not comfortable talking about somebody else when they are not here. You can even say, "I am not really into gossip." You can ask to change the topic by saying, "Do you mind if we talk about something else?" or "Do you mind if you change the subject?" It is good to be honest. Thank you for listening.

    4 min

  6. 04/14/2023

    Episode 25: How to sound professional on the phone – common telephone conversations and phrases

    Script: Episode 25 How to sound professional on the phone – common telephone conversations and phrases Speaking on the phone in English can be nerve-racking for English students.  Nerve-racking means causing stress or anxiety.  You already feel nervous speaking English, and speaking in English on the phone makes you even more nervous. First of all, speak clearly and slowly. Enunciate your words, and avoid mumbling or speaking too fast. Enunciate means to pronounce clearly.  The second tip is to listen carefully.  If you cannot hear or catch what the other person is saying, don’t panic. Ask the person to repeat, by saying, “I am sorry.  I didn’t quite catch that.  Could you repeat what you just said?” Use appropriate language and be respectful.    Here are some essential phrases. 1.    When you are answering a call for work, state your name and company name.  For example, “This is Audrey from ABC company. How can I help you?”  or you can state the department where you are working in. “This is Audrey in the Accounting Department.  How can I help you?”  2.    If you are the one making the call, say, “this is Audrey calling from ABC company.  I am calling about..  ( you state the reason why you are calling).  If you know the person that you are calling, maybe you speak to her regularly, you can speak less formally.  You can say, “Hey, it is Audrey over at ABC Company… I just want to… ( and you state the reason why you are calling).  3.    You are asking to speak to someone specific on the phone. Example, “Hi, this is Audrey from ABC company.  May I speak with Laura?” or you can say “Is Laura available? “.  If it is not important who you want to speak to, but you need to speak to somebody inside a specific department, you can ask, for example, “could you connect me with someone in the Accounting Department?” 4.    When you are answering a call and you need to put someone on hold because you are searching for information, or you are looking for the person, or you are simply too nervous and need to calm down and think about what to say, here are some phrases to say when putting someone on hold.  “May I put you on hold?”, “Could I ask you to hold for a moment?” “Would you mind holding for a moment?” I hope these phrases help.

    5 min

  7. 04/07/2023

    Episode 24: Small talk for social situations and how to politely end a bad conversation.

    Script: Hi, everyone, how are you? This week I am going to talk about two topics. The first one is making small talks. Making small talks with somebody you don't know well can be intimidating, but it is a great way to connect with others and build friendships. Here are some tips for making small talks. #1 - Start with a greeting, say hi, introduce yourself, and ask them how their day is going. This will break the ice and set a friendly tone. #2 - Ask open-ended questions instead of yes and no questions. For example, ask "how was your weekend?" if you are meeting that person at the beginning of the week. If you are meeting the person on Thursday or Friday, you can ask, "what are your plans for this weekend?" #3 - Find common grounds. If you are talking to other parents, you can talk about the kids, or the school activities. If you are at a work event, you can talk about your job or the industry. #4 - Listen attentively and ask follow-up questions. #5 - Keep it light and positive, avoid sensitive topics and avoid oversharing your personal life. The second topic that I want to talk about today is how to politely end a bad conversation. We have all been there - being in a boring conversation, or that the other person is saying something that makes you uncomfortable. Many people use excuses like, "excuse me, I need to get a drink", or "I need to use the bathroom". Everyone knows these are cliches. A cliche is a phrase or opinion that is overused and betrays a lack of original thought. An example of a cliche is, "life is too short." Have you heard of that cliche? There are other excuses that are more positive, tactful and honest. If you are at a party or a networking event, and you are stuck with somebody who has been talking to you for too long, or that the conversation is too boring, you can exit the situation by saying these: 1. "It has been really nice talking to you, but I promised myself I would mingle with others and get to know more people. I will catch you later." 2. "Oh, I see some of my colleagues over there, I would like to say hi to them. It is really nice chatting with you". Emphasize it has been great talking with them. The other strategy is to ask the speaker to introduce you to somebody else at the event. Say, "I hardly know anyone here, who do you think I should meet? I would like to meet a few new people at this event today. Can you introduce me to anyone?" The third strategy is to introduce somebody to this person so you can get out of this conversation. The person that you know may have something in common with this person. You can say, "I see my co-worker, John, over there. I think the two of you have a lot in common. Let me introduce you. The last tactic is to say, "I am sure I have taken a lot of your time. You have got a lot of people you want to talk to. I will let you go but it has been great talking with you. Vocabulary 1. break the ice - do or say something to ease the tension or get the conversation going. 2. mingle - socialize 3. catch you later - used for saying goodbye to someone when you expect to see them soon, or later the same day. I will catch you later means I will see you later, chat with you later.

    6 min

  8. 03/31/2023

    Episode 23: How to conduct or participate in an English online meeting

    Script: Episode 23: How to conduct or participate in an English online meeting   Since the pandemic started three years ago, online meetings have replaced many face-to-face meetings. For those of you who have experience with online meetings, you may find that you are unsure about online meeting etiquette, such as what to say in some situations. Today, I am going to share some tips with you. 1. Preparation First of all, you need to prepare for a successful online meeting. That includes testing the microphone and camera in advance, especially if this is the first time you and the participants are using this platform. You can send an email to the participants a day before. You can also inform the participants audio and video before you start. Instead of a blank screen, you can create an image or slide that says: "To prepare for the best experience, please check your audio and video before we start.  Use headphones during the discussion." 2. Introductions and greetings: If you are the host of the meeting, greet others and lead introductions. Include your name, position, and company name. For example: "Hi everyone, I am Audrey. I am a junior analyst at ABC company, and I will be leading the discussion today."   If there are new faces that will participate in this meeting, say, "There are some unfamiliar faces today, so let's do a quick round of introductions.” Be sure to call on each individual person.   3. Next, establish ground rules for active listening. In a face-to-face meeting, we use verbal cues to show that we are listening, such as saying "a-ha," "that's right," "that's interesting." These verbal cues don't always work on an online platform.  In an online meeting, try to utilize the tools on the platform, such as sending emojis or using the chat box. You can tell the participants the following:   "If you have any questions during the meeting, please let me know by using the raised hand emoji." "If you like or agree with something, use the clapping hands or thumbs up emojis." "You can also use the chat box to send me a message."   4. Etiquette   It would be a good idea to tell the participants to turn off distractions, such as their phones, and use mute if there are background noises. When you want to make a comment or ask a question, use the raised hand emoji, or you can simply raise your hand.  When the host asks you to speak, say:   "I am sorry to interrupt, but I would like to ask a quick question." Or say, "I am sorry to interrupt, but I want you to clarify something that you said."   What if there is an interruption, such as a technical difficulty? If possible, send the host a message; if not, send an email.   The next scenario is if you are the host, and you are showing a presentation and need some time, say,  "Please bear with me for a moment (or please wait a moment) while I get ready to share my slides." When you are ready after the short disruption, say, "I apologize for the wait."  5. Closing . Now it is time to end the meeting. If you are the host, summarize the meeting, repeat the main points, and thank the participants. Say, "We got so much done today; thanks, everyone, for coming."   Thank you for listening. Vocabulary Etiquette – the customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession Cue -sign or signal Utilize – use, make use of

    7 min
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Hi, this is Audrey from Toronto. I am an English tutor on Cafetalk. I am also a life coach. Click on the link below to view my profile: https://cafetalk.com/tutor/profile/?c=eJzzyyp0MgvIcPPOCCksKzFycjOtNDArt7UFAGRwB8E.&lang=en This podcast is designed to help you improve your listening skills through short (3-5 minutes) monologues about various topics. In the near future, I will upload dialogues between myself and guests. My podcast episodes are short and easy to understand, suitable for intermediate students.

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