Beyond Swiping Finding Authentic Connections in Seattle

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Are You Ready to Rethink How You Date?

Tired of endlessly swiping on dating apps and feeling like you're spinning your wheels? In this episode, I sit down with Rozie Erlewine, a compassionate matchmaker and polyamorous community organizer who’s been helping people connect in the Seattle polyamory scene since 2017. Rozie, the founder of Seattle Inclusive Matchmaking and host of polyamorous speed dating events, brings fresh ideas to creating real, intentional connections outside the apps.  

Here’s What We Talk About:
✨ How Seattle’s polyamory scene has evolved over the years  
✨ Why polyamorous speed dating is changing the game for non-monogamous folks  
✨ The power of slowing down and dating with purpose  
✨ Honest tips for navigating jealousy and insecurity in non-monogamous relationships  
✨ How to build a solid support network within the polyamorous community  

Why Rozie’s Approach Stands Out:
💡 She takes the time to understand people’s unique relationship goals and styles 
💡 Her events and services focus on shared values and long-term compatibility  
💡 She’s all about fostering community and creating spaces where people can truly connect  

If you’re new to polyamory, curious about alternative ways to meet people, or just looking to refresh your approach to dating, this episode is packed with practical tips and heartfelt insights.  

"Finding that balance between commitment and independence in polyamory can be tricky, but it’s magical when you meet people who align with your values."  

Join me for this fun and thought-provoking conversation, where we explore how to make dating more meaningful in the world of ethical non-monogamy.  

Oh, and don’t forget to check out Rozie’s affordable, inclusive matchmaking services—you might just find your next connection waiting for you! https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566891230288

Poly Healing Retreat in Crete – March 31st to April 3rd, 2025
Looking for a transformative getaway to deepen your connections and heal relationship challenges? Join Dedeker Winston of the Multiamory podcast and award-winning dance/movement therapist Orit Krug on the mythical island of Crete for a somatic therapy retreat designed specifically for polyamorous folks.
Visit multiamory.com/retreat to learn more and apply

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