Birth, Babies, & Busy Moms

Dayna Gosselin & Kia Veinneau

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“Busy Moms” Dayna and Kia discuss different stages of motherhood. They provide personal experiences and guest speakers, to empower and educate mothers around the world. Their goal is to help and support other “busy moms” to make informed decisions, while letting them know they’re not alone.

5 DAYS AGO

Please God Don't Let Me Die: Part One

Episode Overview In this episode, Kia shares her deeply personal journey through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum complications. She discusses her medical challenges, including antibiotic-resistant infections, kidney stones, hemorrhaging, and the emotional toll of being dismissed by medical professionals and loved ones. This is part one of her story, covering her first pregnancy and the severe complications she endured. Key Topics Covered Pregnancy Challenges Kia initially thought she had a smooth pregnancy but later realized the complications she endured.Experienced severe cystic acne starting at 6-8 weeks.Developed an antibiotic-resistant UTI (Enterococcus) that went undiagnosed for weeks.Endured multiple rounds of antibiotics and IV treatments, totaling over 70 days.Diagnosed with hydro ureters, hydronephrosis, and kidney stones.Went through over 20 urine cultures, but results were inconclusive.Was placed on narcotics due to the extreme pain, leading to anxiety over potential effects on her baby.Experienced severe medical trauma due to mismanagement and lack of proper medical attention.Birth and Delivery Induced at 37 weeks due to ongoing complications and pain.Diagnosed with Group B Strep (GBS), requiring additional antibiotics during labor.Anxiety surrounding the birth experience due to previous medical trauma.Postpartum Complications Retained placenta leading to postpartum hemorrhaging.Repeatedly told that her symptoms were related to postpartum depression rather than physical complications.Forced to advocate for herself, seeking care at multiple hospitals with no support.Eventually underwent a blind D&C surgery, which later resulted in further hemorrhaging.Passed massive blood clots and continued to lose significant amounts of blood.Medical professionals finally acknowledged the severity of her condition, requiring additional interventions.Key Takeaways Advocate for Yourself: Kia’s story highlights the importance of self-advocacy in medical settings.Know the Signs: Understanding conditions like retained placenta and antibiotic-resistant infections can help new mothers recognize symptoms early.Medical Dismissal is Real: Many women face dismissal of their postpartum concerns; persistence is crucial.Support is Critical: A strong support system is essential during pregnancy and postpartum recovery.Final Thoughts Kia’s story is a raw and honest look into the challenges many women face but are rarely discussed. If you or someone you know has experienced similar challenges, know that you are not alone. Join us for part two, where Kia continues sharing her journey through recovery and navigating motherhood after medical trauma. 📌 Follow us on Instagram @BirthBabiesBusyMoms for updates and community support!

46 min
JAN 31

Don’t Forget the Forceps: Part One

Episode Overview In this episode, Dayna opens up about her personal journey through the challenges of pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum recovery. She shares the medical difficulties she and her baby faced, including complications from the use of forceps during delivery, and discusses the emotional process of healing. This episode marks the first part of her story. Key Topics Covered Pregnancy Challenges Dayna experienced a kidney infection early in her first pregnancy, which required hospitalization.She dealt with low iron levels during her second pregnancy, necessitating iron infusions.During her first pregnancy, she developed Bell’s Palsy, resulting in temporary facial paralysis. Doctors warned that this could be a lifelong issue.To address the facial paralysis, Dayna underwent a two-week course of steroids.Birth and Delivery Dayna went into labor the day after being weaned off steroids.Her baby was born at 37 weeks and 2 days.Throughout labor, Dayna experienced severe vomiting due to “back labor” until an epidural was administered.The epidural wore off after two hours of pushing.Despite exhaustion, doctors refused to perform a C-section and proceeded with the use of forceps without explaining the potential risks.An episiotomy was performed during delivery.During the delivery, the doctors panicked and dropped the forceps.Dayna suffered a third-degree tear and was urgently taken to the operating room for corrective surgery.Postpartum Complications Due to the forceps, her baby’s head was deformed from two large hematomas (bleeding between the brain and skull).Scar tissue caused a blockage at the vaginal opening, and surgery was recommended.Medical professionals identified nerve damage in the sphincter and advised biofeedback therapy.The birth left Dayna with psychological trauma, resulting in a trauma bond with her baby.Her baby experienced colic, crying for over five hours each night.Breastfeeding was difficult as her milk supply was delayed due to the trauma.Dayna's blood cell count was very low due to blood loss during delivery Key Takeaways Inquire and Conduct Research: Educate yourself on various birth methods and ask questions when crucial information is not provided by your healthcare provider. Develop a Birth Plan: Approach your birth preparation with flexibility by creating a well-thought-out plan that accommodates potential changes. Advocate for Your Needs: While doctors offer medical guidance, you have the right to advocate for your own preferences, including exploring alternative birthing methods. Establish a Support System: A reliable and supportive network is crucial throughout pregnancy and postpartum recovery. Final Thoughts Dayna’s story offers an authentic and unfiltered perspective on the challenges many women face but seldom discuss. If you or someone you know has encountered similar struggles, remember that you are not alone. Join us for part two, where Dayna continues to share her journey through recovery and navigating motherhood after experiencing medical trauma. 📌 Follow us on Instagram @BirthBabiesBusyMoms for updates and community support!

43 min

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Dayna Gosselin & Kia Veinneau
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Birth, Babies, & Busy Moms

Birth, Babies, & Busy Moms

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Please God Don't Let Me Die: Part One

Don’t Forget the Forceps: Part One

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