Breaking the Silence

Reach 10
Breaking the Silence

This podcast and community breaks the silence, shame, and fear that often surrounds sexuality, unwanted pornography use, and betrayal trauma and helps you embrace your God-given sexuality with courage compassion and connection. People just like you share their stories of recovery and forgiveness and experts teach principles, share insights, and provide real tools to help you rebuild trust and develop healthy sexuality. Ask your questions anonymously and expert therapist, Rachel Denton, will answer them and discuss practical tools to help and gain insight as to how ecclesiastical leaders can play an effective and powerful role in your healing. Join Crishelle Simons as she breaks the silence and together we can create a culture of courage, compassion, and connection. This podcast is brought to you by Reach 10. Reach 10 is a non-profit with a mission to educate and help young adults overcome the effects of pornography and betrayal trauma and create healthy relationships with themselves and others. Join the community at @breakingthesilence_reach10 or visit reach10.org. We share these views to open the dialogue and educate on these tough issues and to create a healthier culture of sexuality. The opinions and views shared by the host or guests do not constitute as professional advice or services and do not necessarily reflect the views of Reach 10, and we don't guarantee the accuracy of any statements you hear. Reach 10 is not responsible for your use of information heard in this podcast. We keep learning, and invite you to join us as we build a more open, compassionate, and courageous culture.

  1. 12/20/2023

    Finding Hope in the 12 Steps with Kodi Maki [2.15]

    Join us in a moving episode of "Breaking the Silence," where we welcome Kodi Maki to share his inspiring journey through addiction recovery. Kodi opens up about the challenges he faced with pornography addiction and how the Addiction Recovery Program (ARP) became a beacon of hope in his life. His story is not just about battling addiction; it's about the power of faith, the strength found in vulnerability, and the transformative role of support systems. Kodi's experiences, from personal lows to spiritual highs, provide valuable insights into the journey of recovery and the relentless pursuit of personal growth and healing. In this episode: Turning Point: Kodi shares how a personal tragedy leads him to confront his addiction and seek help.The 12 Step Program (ARP): Kodi discusses his initial reluctance and eventual involvement in ARP, highlighting its impact.The Role of Support: Emphasis on the importance of having a supportive network, especially the pivotal role of Kodi's wife and best friend in his journey.Challenges and Relapses: Kodi reflects on the challenges of staying consistent with recovery efforts and the consequences of stepping away.Spiritual Insights: Kodi shares profound spiritual experiences and moments of clarity that reinforced his commitment to recovery.Motivation for Change: Insights into Kodi's personal motivations for recovery, including the well-being of his family and living the principles he once taught.Tools and Resources: Discussion on various tools and support systems that have aided Kodi's recovery process.Advice for Others: Kodi offers advice to others struggling with addiction, emphasizing the importance of reaching out for help and staying engaged in recovery.This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative journey of recovery. Join us as Kodi Maki shares his heartfelt story, offering hope and guidance to those on a similar path. Important Links: Start your free trial on Relay here: https://www.joinrelay.app/breaking-the-silenceRelive the inspiration from Chandler’s story here.Find a 12 Step Program here.Reach out to us with your questions or share your journey here.Stay updated! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!Contact me at crishelle@reach10.org or hello@reach10.org.Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach10.org

    45 min
  2. 11/08/2023

    Sex Ed Redefined: Embracing Our Bodies, Enhancing Our Faith with Bonnie Young [2.14]

    In this episode, we dive deep into the heart of human sexuality and its intersection with divine grace. We explore the complexities of chastity, marriage, and the continuous journey towards understanding our bodies and spirits with our guest Bonnie Young, therapist and author. Join us as we peel back the layers of anxiety and expectation that often shroud discussions of sexuality. From the laughter and learning curves of adolescence to the sacred partnership of marriage, we grapple with the pulsating question: How can we reconcile our natural human experiences with the teachings of Jesus Christ and His infinite atonement? We unpack the cultural dialogue that sometimes overshadows the gospel's core messages of love, trust, and mercy. With candid vulnerability, we share personal narratives that highlight the often rocky path to aligning our actions with our innate knowledge of right and wrong, emphasizing that Christ's reach and grace know no bounds. As we address the turmoil and triumphs of sexual connection, we propose a shift in conversation—seeing sex not as a need but as a celebration of the soulful ties that bind us. In doing so, we shed the shackles of obligation and chore, instead stepping into a space of mutual joy and enrichment. This episode is an invitation to a more compassionate understanding of our sexuality, a call to nurture the next generation with a narrative of hope, devoid of shame, and rich in joy. We aim to inspire an approach to sexuality education that is imbued with the spirit of Jesus, drenched in grace, and leads to a deep, authentic connection—both with our partners and the divine. So tune in, and let's journey together towards a world where every step in our sexual journeys is met with compassion, understanding, and a celebration of the beautiful, complex beings we are created to be. Important Links Connect with Bonnie here: www.bonnieyoungcounseling.comFind a therapist through Azure Counseling: www.azurecounseling.com Get Bonnie’s book Sex Educated.Start your free trial on Relay here: https://www.joinrelay.app/breaking-the-silenceRelive the inspiration from Chandler’s story here.Reach out to us with your questions or share your journey here.Stay updated! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!Contact me at crishelle@reach10.org.Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach10.org Love the content and want more? Donate to help us reach more people with compassion, courage, and connection at https://reach10.org/donate/ Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.

    52 min
  3. 10/25/2023

    Infinite Grace: Finding Worthiness in Christ's Love with Alan Larsen [2.13]

    In this episode, we delve deep into the heart of faith, exploring the transformative power of Christ's love and the journey to find worthiness. Hear personal stories of redemption, struggles with self-worth, and the life-changing moments where grace shines its brightest. Join us as we discover the infinite love that Christ offers, and how it shapes our identity, purpose, and relationships.  Alan Larsen joins to share his insights gained through years of serving with youth and young single adults as a bishop. Hear firsthand accounts of divine interventions that changed lives forever, serving as testaments to the miracles that Christ's unyielding love can bring. Whether you're a lifelong believer or just beginning your spiritual journey, this episode seeks to inspire a deeper understanding and appreciation of the boundless grace available to all. In this Episode: Nourishing seeds vs. weedsPornography as a “weed”Christ’s grace and mercyAnxiety vs. faithful action The power of nourishingContrast between worldly and Spiritual view of sexuality Creation Facing temptation and finding strength Grace and worthinessThe role of church leadership Important Links Start your free trial on Relay here: https://www.joinrelay.app/breaking-the-silenceRelive the inspiration from Chandler’s story here.Reach out to us with your questions or share your journey here.Stay updated! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!Contact me at crishelle@reach10.org.Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach10.org Love the content and want more? Donate to help us reach more people with compassion, courage, and connection at https://reach10.org/donate/ Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.

    48 min
  4. 10/18/2023

    Ask a Therapist Series | Breaking the Cycle: Tools for Meaningful Change [2.12]

    Are you caught in a cycle, repeating the same mistakes that are affecting your personal growth and the quality of your relationships? In this enlightening episode, Rachel and Crishelle unveil the curtain to a transformative journey of breaking free from these unyielding patterns. Rachel, with her rich background in social work and pornography issues, teams up with Crishelle to bring you a blend of real-life experiences, professional insights, and research-backed strategies aimed at empowering you to foster change. They are armed not just with tools but the compassion and encouragement to reassure you that change, though a journey, is indeed within your grasp. In a world that often labels and confines, this episode is a breath of fresh air, offering not just hope but practical steps to rewrite your story, to step out of the vicious cycle, and to build relationships that are rooted in understanding, respect, and love. You're not alone on this journey. Unearth the possibilities of a life where you’re not defined by your past or current struggles. Dive into Rachel’s profound insights, the efficacy of the tools shared, and resonate with real stories of change and transformation. Remember, every step towards change is a step towards freedom and flourishing relationships. Join Rachel and Crishelle in this empowering episode – because you are worth the journey, and so are your relationships. Important Links: Connect with Rachel Denton here.Start your free trial on Relay here: https://www.joinrelay.app/breaking-the-silenceRelive the inspiration from Chandler’s story here.Reach out to us with your questions or share your journey here.Stay updated! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!Contact us at hello@reach10.org.Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach10.org Love the content and want more? Donate to help us reach more people with compassion, courage, and connection at https://reach10.org/donate/ Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.

    1h 2m
  5. 10/04/2023

    Intimacy Amplified: Building Trust and Connection with Tammy Hill [2.11]

    In this riveting episode of "Breaking the Silence", join Crishelle as she engages in a heart-to-heart with the insightful Tammy Hill, diving deep into the realms of trust, intimacy, and the resilience of relationships. Tammy's wealth of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist comes alive as they traverse topics from the pivotal role of trust as the foundation of relationships to the transformational power of spiritual creation in our daily lives. Learn about the intricate ties between trust and all facets of intimacy, be it emotional, spiritual, financial, or sexual. Tammy delves into practical strategies and impactful insights on rebuilding trust after setbacks, offering hope to those navigating the complexities of relational breaches. With discussions that touch upon infidelity, sexual abuse, the importance of genuine apologies, and the power of daily "repairs", this episode promises a treasure trove of knowledge for anyone seeking to strengthen, salvage, or simply understand their relationships better. Whether you're in the thick of relationship challenges or just keen to enhance your connection with your partner, this conversation serves as a beacon of light, offering guidance, understanding, and hope. Show Notes: Start your free trial on Relay here: https://www.joinrelay.app/breaking-the-silenceListen to Chandler’s story on Episode 2.2 here.Tammy’s website: https://www.tammyhill.com/ Listen to Live Your Why - Tammy’s Podcast Follow Tammy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tammy_hill_lmft/  Learn more about Tammy’s upcoming events: https://www.tammyhill.com/events-2/ Submit anonymous questions for our Ask a Therapist series or share your story here.Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!Contact us at hello@reach10.org.Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach10.org Love the content and want more? Donate to help us reach more people with compassion, courage, and connection at https://reach10.org/donate/ Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.

    46 min
  6. 09/20/2023

    Ask a Therapist Series: Should I Stay or Should I Go? [2.9]

    If you are dating someone that is currently struggling with pornography but is taking the steps to recover, is there hope? Should I stay in the relationship? Should I run? If we were to get married, is this something that can be overcome or will I have to deal with this in the future forever? Listen to learn some principles to navigate these tough questions. Only you can know what is best for you. This episode will help you know how to move forward whether you are the person struggling with pornography or the person in a relationship with someone struggling with pornography.  Rachel grew up in Portland and came to Utah for school. She graduated from the University of Utah with her masters in social work. Rachel worked with different agencies that specialize in pornography and addiction issues, including Fight the New Drug, until she had her adorable baby girl and decided to focus on her private practice. She is also on the board for Reach 10, the non-profit that makes this podcast possible.  In this episode: Hope and opportunity for growth.Honesty and trustworthiness.Trusting yourself. Creating and maintaining equal partnership.Will this be a forever problem?How to do “the work”.Is my partner who they say they are? Show Notes: Find Rachel Denton here.Start your free trial on Relay here: https://www.joinrelay.app/breaking-the-silenceListen to Chandler’s story on Episode 2.2 here.Submit anonymous questions for our Ask a Therapist series or share your story here.Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!Contact us at hello@reach10.org.Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach10.org Love the content and want more? Donate to help us reach more people with compassion, courage, and connection at https://reach10.org/donate/ Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.

    45 min
4.9
out of 5
54 Ratings

About

This podcast and community breaks the silence, shame, and fear that often surrounds sexuality, unwanted pornography use, and betrayal trauma and helps you embrace your God-given sexuality with courage compassion and connection. People just like you share their stories of recovery and forgiveness and experts teach principles, share insights, and provide real tools to help you rebuild trust and develop healthy sexuality. Ask your questions anonymously and expert therapist, Rachel Denton, will answer them and discuss practical tools to help and gain insight as to how ecclesiastical leaders can play an effective and powerful role in your healing. Join Crishelle Simons as she breaks the silence and together we can create a culture of courage, compassion, and connection. This podcast is brought to you by Reach 10. Reach 10 is a non-profit with a mission to educate and help young adults overcome the effects of pornography and betrayal trauma and create healthy relationships with themselves and others. Join the community at @breakingthesilence_reach10 or visit reach10.org. We share these views to open the dialogue and educate on these tough issues and to create a healthier culture of sexuality. The opinions and views shared by the host or guests do not constitute as professional advice or services and do not necessarily reflect the views of Reach 10, and we don't guarantee the accuracy of any statements you hear. Reach 10 is not responsible for your use of information heard in this podcast. We keep learning, and invite you to join us as we build a more open, compassionate, and courageous culture.

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