413 episodes

Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM, and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.
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By the Bi The Atoms

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 77 Ratings

Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM, and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.
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    410 - Healing and Growing with Orange Counseling and Coaching

    410 - Healing and Growing with Orange Counseling and Coaching

    This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the transformative world of therapy, counseling, and coaching with an expert from Orange Counselling and Coaching. Discover the profound impact these practices can have on personal growth, relationship dynamics, and overall well-being.
    Join us as we explore different therapeutic approaches and coaching methods that help folks navigate challenges and reach their fullest potential. Dan from Orange Counseling and Coaching shares insights into how professional guidance can support emotional health, enhance communication, and foster deeper connections in various types of relationships.
    Whether you’re curious about starting your own therapeutic journey or looking to deepen your understanding of these vital resources, this episode offers valuable perspectives and actionable advice.
    Tune in to By the Bi for an enlightening conversation about mental health and personal development. Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes that empower you to live a more fulfilled and balanced life.
    Orange Counselling and Coaching https://www.ocandc.com.au/
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    • 1 hr 7 min
    409 - Who is Hillsong Boy

    409 - Who is Hillsong Boy

    This week we dive into coming out & religion with an interview with the creative team behind Hillsong Boy.
    Hillsong Boy chronicles the weird and wonderful experiences of ex-Hillsonger, Scott Parker. During his twenty years with the megachurch he experienced the dizzying heights of Christian celebrity, and the lonely lows of being cast aside, all whilst keeping a desperate secret. Scott is queer, and there’s no such thing as a Queer Hillsong Boy. Original music, autobiography, multimedia, and a leap of faith all collide in this playful revelation of coming out and getting out of one of the most talked about church movements of the 21st Century. A Hillsong boy through and through, Scott has stories to tell, so pull up a pew and join us for a queer holy communion.
    Support the show at the Australian Cultural Fund, australianculturalfund.org.au
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    • 1 hr 26 min
    408 - To Turtle or To Volcano

    408 - To Turtle or To Volcano

    Coming out can be one of the most pivotal moments in someone’s life. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford delve into the emotional spectrum of coming out experiences. Do you “turtle,” retreating into your shell to protect yourself, or do you “volcano,” erupting with a bold declaration of identity? Both approaches are valid and deserve space and understanding.
    In this episode, we explore the different ways people embrace their truth, from the quietly courageous to the loudly proud. We’ll share some of our stories, offer advice, and provide insights into how each approach impacts personal well-being and relationships. Whether you’re considering coming out or seeking to support someone who is, this discussion aims to affirm and inspire, offering a compassionate look at the journeys of self-acceptance and public acknowledgment.
    Tune in to By the Bi for a heartfelt exploration of pride, protection, and the personal narratives that shape our coming out stories. Subscribe now for more thoughtful conversations on sexuality, identity, and the power of living authentically.

    The Trevor Project, www.thetrevorproject.org
    PFLAG, pflag.org
    LGBT Life Center, lgbtlifecenter.org
    Naz & Matt Foundation, www.nazandmattfoundation.org
    Human Rights Campaign, www.hrc.org
    ACON, www.acon.org.au
    QLife, qlife.org.au
    Twenty10, twenty10.org.au
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    • 45 min
    407 - 7 Year Itch

    407 - 7 Year Itch

    Join Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman in a deeply personal episode of By the Bi, as they reflect on their seven-year journey in a polyamorous relationship. This week, they open up about the evolving dynamics, challenges, and triumphs of their shared love and commitment. Does the proverbial seven-year itch apply in the poly world? They tackle this question head-on, sharing insights and experiences that might just change the way you think about long-term relationships in non-monogamous settings.
    From memorable milestones to the everyday adjustments that keep their connection strong, the trio discusses where they’ve been and where they’re heading. This candid conversation sheds light on the realities of sustaining a polyamorous relationship over the years, offering listeners a rare glimpse into the joys and complexities of loving multiply.
    Tune in to By the Bi for an honest look at polyamory through the lens of a lasting partnership. Don’t forget to subscribe for more explorations into love, life, and the paths less traveled.

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    • 1 hr 5 min
    406 - Shocking Trivia

    406 - Shocking Trivia

    Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap.
    This electrifying game will reveal just how much they know about sex, kink, and everything in between. Angela guides the game with her usual flair, providing laughter, suspense, and a few educational tidbits along the way. Will Bradford and The Gentleman survive the shocks and awe of Angela’s devious quiz?
    Tune in to By the Bi for this zappy, zany episode and find out who will scream for the right reasons! Subscribe now for more unconventional fun and games with Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman.
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    • 1 hr 11 min
    405 - Velvet & Rocky Horror Pendulum

    405 - Velvet & Rocky Horror Pendulum

    Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into the seductive details of these extravagant events, where costumes, role-play, and the spirit of adventure create a playground for the senses.
    From the lush allure of Velvet to the wild, time-warping fun of the Rocky Horror-themed night, we explore the highlights, the unexpected moments, and the sensational experiences that only such unique gatherings can offer. The Gentleman adds his own spicy anecdotes and insights, making this discussion a must-listen for anyone fascinated by the playful and profound aspects of kink and community.
    Join us for an episode filled with laughter, revelations, and a few saucy secrets. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more episodes that delve into the vibrant, sometimes hidden world of alternative lifestyles and celebrations.
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    • 1 hr 22 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
77 Ratings

77 Ratings

JenNickinNM ,

Appreciate your perspectives and stories

I’m in an ethically non monogamous bi bi relationship. I appreciate your lifestyle stories and perspectives so much. We are in a similar situations and it is very helpful to hear how people are thinking. Thank you!

Craigie Mack ,

The open-ness and honesty is refreshing...

As a Bi-sexual male in a committed ethically non monagamous relationship, finding podcasts I can relate to is refreshing. Love hearing the stories as it has helped me in my own personal journey of self discovery. It’s been a blast so far, and we enjoy seeing the newest episode pop up each week.

jna1105 ,

Love this podcast

Started listening to this podcast a couple months ago and I think it is great. Eastern Kentucky girl here so I found it interesting that Bradford was from eastern Kentucky too. I know this neck of the woods hasn’t been very open and welcoming to the lgbtq+ community but I do feel like it’s starting to change. Anyway I look forward to future episodes.

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