22 episodes

Growing up as an Afro-Latina in the US with immigrant parents, Michelle struggled to decide which parts of her parent's traditions and identity traits she would adapt to navigate living a bi-coastal life in the US. Along the way she met friends who helped shape who she would become and ultimately lead her to her path of receiving her Masters in Social Work in NYC, where she currently resides. Follow Michelle while she invites her friends to deep dive into dialogue about their identities, past traumas, and experiences that have lead them to be the successful, young professionals they are today.

C**o Who Am I‪?‬ Michelle Pinales

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 11 Ratings

Growing up as an Afro-Latina in the US with immigrant parents, Michelle struggled to decide which parts of her parent's traditions and identity traits she would adapt to navigate living a bi-coastal life in the US. Along the way she met friends who helped shape who she would become and ultimately lead her to her path of receiving her Masters in Social Work in NYC, where she currently resides. Follow Michelle while she invites her friends to deep dive into dialogue about their identities, past traumas, and experiences that have lead them to be the successful, young professionals they are today.

    It's about to be the winter: let's go get therapy ya'll with Karla

    It's about to be the winter: let's go get therapy ya'll with Karla

    Episode 1. On the Season 2 Premiere of Coño Who Am I?  It took Michelle 30 years to finally go to therapy after advocating to her family, friends, romantic partners, and clients, to go themselves. Whew chile, it's the hypocrisy for me! However, she is finally there and couldn't be more grateful! But why does it take people this long to seek therapy? Join her and her bestie Karla (who is also in therapy) as they engage in a dialogue about why they decided to go to therapy and why it took them so damn long!

    Follow on IG @conowhoami Have a story submission, questions, or need to vent? Email: conowhoami@gmail.com Mental Health Support: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8253 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    • 51 min
    This adulting thing is a f*cking trick with Andrea

    This adulting thing is a f*cking trick with Andrea

    Episode 2. On this episode Coño Who Am I? Michelle takes a look into the real meaning of  being an adult and the verb of adulting. What does it mean to be boss b**ch? Are they synonymous?  Why don't people discuss what it takes to be a full blown adult? Join her and her long time bestie Andrea as they discuss what adulting means to them, and what are the things people don't tell you about growing up. 

    Follow on IG @conowhoami Have a story submission, questions, or need to vent? Email: conowhoami@gmail.com Mental Health Support: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8253 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    • 1 hr 6 min
    Our sisters are like the warrior women in Black Panther with Meghna

    Our sisters are like the warrior women in Black Panther with Meghna

    Episode 3. On a very long episode of Coño Who Am I? Michelle finally open pandora's box to her family dynamics! But only a tad bit, just the dynamics between her and her sisters. What makes sister relationships difficult? What makes them easy? What's beautiful about them? And what's ugly?  Join her as she invites her 10+ years bestie Meghna, as they dive into all things sisters, the good and the bad!

    Follow on IG @conowhoami Have a story submission, questions, or need to vent? Email: conowhoami@gmail.com Mental Health Support: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8253 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    • 1 hr 23 min
    A little psychotic but still my ride or die with Nicole

    A little psychotic but still my ride or die with Nicole

    Episode 4. On the longest episode yet of Coño Who Am I? Michelle talks about one of the most sacred yet hurtful relationships she has... the one with her mami.  You thought daddy issues were a thing, wait till you hear this! Join her as she has bestie/fellow #dogmom Nicole, asks her some tough questions about this oh-so-complicated relationship.  

    Follow on IG @conowhoami Have a story submission, questions, or need to vent? Email: conowhoami@gmail.com Mental Health Support: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8253 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    • 1 hr 44 min
    It's Encanto time with Jinisse

    It's Encanto time with Jinisse

    Episode 5. On this different but fun but long episode of Coño Who Am I? Michelle reviews and explains her thoughts on the new Disney movie Encanto! Her and her bestie Jinisse (who joined her in watching it) dive into all the themes, characters, and favorite moments of the film. Join them as they discuss why this movie is so special to the Latinx community!

    Follow on IG @conowhoami Have a story submission, questions, or need to vent? Email: conowhoami@gmail.com Mental Health Support: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8253 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    • 1 hr 48 min
    Papi was OUT HERE lol with Lahaji

    Papi was OUT HERE lol with Lahaji

    Episode 6. On this episode of Coño Who Am I? Michelle opens up about the most complicated relationship in her life....the one with her father. #Complicated.  Join her as she has her bestie Lahaji (who is also a therapist), ask her some intense questions from one social worker to the other, on all things papi! 

    Follow on IG @conowhoami Have a story submission, questions, or need to vent? Email: conowhoami@gmail.com Mental Health Support: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8253 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    • 1 hr 21 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
11 Ratings

11 Ratings

randym1221 ,

People need to hear this!

This is a conversation that needs to be heard because so many young women of color (and even men) can relate to the obstacles of growing up in America. Dealing with racism can be such a sensitive topic that most people would rather just ignore but deep inside it’s a providing a disservice to our evolution and how we treat each other. The situations and upbringing on this podcast really highlight, how one comment or even one experience can really traumatize how a person feels about themselves or view certain things. I also feel like all ages and genders could benefit from listening to these conversations and learn how to just treat each other better, evolve and just be better humans. Listening to this really shows me that people from all over the world deal with the same type of racial issues growing up, and we just need to do a better job at making sure we support each other and bring out the best in everyone around you. I hope this podcast gets the recognition it deserves and the right people listen to it, I’m looking forward for more episodes with different guests, listening to strong powerful women provide their perspective and share their experiences with others. Being raised by a strong woman myself, my mother single handedly raised 4 kids coming from The Dominican Republic to provide us with a better life, me being the youngest son and just seeing everything she went through. I don’t think in this society, situations like that are being credited enough or even spoken enough about, so that we can make the necessary changes, in which we can help the next generation not go through the same hardships as the ones before. That’s the next step on how we evolve as humans! Good luck Michelle! Good job!

BeckBoston ,

Beautiful storytelling

Michelle has a beautiful and articulate way of expressing her rawness and vulnerability in her storytelling. Although I am a Southeast Asian American woman, I relate to Michelle hella hard as she struggles to find her identity and place in a weird and at times unwelcoming space.I truly wish I had this when I was a teenager. Amazing work❤️

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