Carer Burnout, Sundowning, and Music Therapy for Dementia - Do I Sound Like I Care?

In this episode of 'Do I Sound Like I Care?' host Louise Lynch a former Emmy award-winning TV producer turned full-time carer, speaks with musician, singer, and educator Claire Pilling about her personal experience caring for her mother during lockdown.

They delve into the transformative role music played in managing dementia, the impact of the pandemic on mental health, and the importance of respite for caregivers. Claire shares touching anecdotes about her mother’s journey, revealing the challenges and unexpected joys of unpaid family care, and highlighting the therapeutic power of companionship and pets.

The episode also addresses the importance of counselling and social services, underscoring the resilience required in caregiving.

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:48 Meet Claire Pilling: Musician and Carer

01:14 Claire’s Musical Background and Family Life

03:00 Recognising the Signs of Dementia

04:15 Lockdown Challenges and Seeking Help

07:54 Balancing Work and Caregiving

11:39 Navigating Social Services and Support

14:15 Dealing with Sundowning and Wandering

15:28 Agreeing to Avoid Confrontation

15:57 Coping with Rapid Progression

18:14 The Role of Music in Dementia Care

21:12 The Importance of Respite and Counselling

21:38 The Challenges of Respite Care

23:23 Transitioning to Permanent Care

27:09 Music Therapy and Glo Sing

29:56 Final Thoughts and Reflections