Newborn to Teen and Everything in Between

Decibelle Creative
Newborn to Teen and Everything in Between

Newborn to Teen and Everything Inbetween - it does exactly what it says on the tin! Join childcare experts Becks and Claire for practical advice about how to communicate with children, at all ages. There can be a lot of pressure to 'get it right' when it comes to children, which can be quite daunting! Whether you’re a parent, a teacher, TA or childcare worker, or just looking to gain a better understanding of the world through a child’s eyes, Becks and Claire have 25 years of childcare experience to share with you. Listen for reassurance and support to help you navigate tricky conversations, challenging behaviour, complex emotions, and the general day to day pressures of raising and working with children. This is a judgement-free zone - you won't find a one-size-fits-all rule book here! The perfect parent doesn't exist, but in their family consultancy business Bespoke Family, Becks and Claire believe that a child centred approach which recognises and respects individuality is the best way to enable families to thrive. Join Becks and Claire for accessible, light-hearted and well researched advice and guidance on the various ways we can tackle the ups and downs of life with children (they've got a great sense of humour too, so if you love a laugh you're in great company!) Subscribe to Newborn to Teen and Everything Inbetween - new episodes every fortnight, to help you get the best out of your time with the children in your life. Find Becks and Claire online at: www.bespokefamily.co.uk Instagram: @bespokefamily Search 'Bespoke Family' on Facebook This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

  1. ٢٥ جمادى الأولى

    Gender, Clothing and individuality with Elizabeth Brunner

    Elizabeth joined us from San Francisco – she is founder of Stereotype Kids which was set up because her Boy / Girl twins didn’t want to be restricted to wearing their own clothes and wanted to wear each others.  We chatted about:  Why Elizabeth feels it’s important to challenge traditional views on boys and girls clothing and to allow the children to dress for joy rather than what they ‘should’ be wearing’. Friends and family reactions to the children wearing clothes that they didn’t think they should be. ‘Dressing is expressing’ - how this is where Elizabeth wants her children to be and feel comfortable in what they wear with no limits. Dressing children (not just twins etc) in the same clothes and how Elizabeth feels about that. Individuality and the importance of allowing children to express their personality / style etc. Stereotype – which is a gender inclusive clothing line. “You were born to stand out” is their tagline. Matching outfits as a family.  Responding and reflecting if your child wants to wear something you don’t want them to and allowing them to do this freely. What if other children or adults (or you) have an adverse reaction to what your children are wearing. School uniforms and the responsibility schools have to ensure gender equality in what the children can wear. Slogans on tops and colours for children of both genders.  Stereotypekids.com (clothing will be available in the UK next year 2025)  Instagram @bespokefamily / @stereotypekidsofficial  Facebook @bespokefamily  For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations     ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars including behaviour, toilet training, sleep and more)   This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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  2. ١١ جمادى الأولى

    Too much to do? Here’s how to cope... with Safia Rana-Jaswal

    Safia told us all about her company The Mum Hub which she founded in Lockdown, her family and what else she has done and is doing in her career. We also discussed:  Time management for parents and the common things parents experience for example feeling they are having to be in too many places at once! Having a to do list / a priority list and putting things on paper. E.g. what are the top 3 things that I have to focus on?  Planning and not feeling like you have to ‘do it all’.  Lowering expectations of yourself. Walking pads! Some techniques / tools to help manage time as well as setting boundaries - how available you make yourself / the ways you can be contacted. How often it isn’t as bad as you thought it might be – having some perspective.  Teaching our children about how to manage their time and the myriad of notifications that are thrown at them on a daily basis.  Things we can do to help organise (and how it’s important to be able to trust others with tasks and preparation to help spread the load!). Carving out time for yourself – how important it is, but how it can also lead to guilt. Safia’s tips for how to cope when you are feeling overwhelmed.  The Mum Hub website  Instagram @bespokefamily / @the_mumhub  Facebook @bespokefamily  For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations     ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars including behaviour, toilet training, sleep and more)   This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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  3. ١٣ ربيع الآخر

    Love the skin you are in – with Molly Forbes

    Molly is founder of The Body Happy Organisation and author of ‘Every Body’ and ‘Body Happy Kids’   We spoke to Molly about:  Her background as a journalist and why she decided to focus on researching and promoting Body Confidence for children (and adults). Diet culture around children and becoming aware of all the things they are watching and absorbing all the time. Teaching children to value, respect and give dignity to everyone regardless of what they look like. Body diversity, discrimination and poor body image. Weight stigma and weight bias and how this can affect people throughout their lives, for example how well children do in school, in their career and future lives. Molly’s books – ‘Every Body’ for children aged 9+ - and how body image is ‘a we issue not a me issue’ and ‘Body Happy Kids’ written for parents to help children and teens love the skin they are in - raising children with a positive body image. Being at peace with your body and all the things that feed into this – body appreciation. How parents can approach conversations with children when they are being negative about their bodies or when someone has made a comment about their body.  How listening and encouraging children to talk to us is one of the most important things we can teach them.   Instagram @bespokefamily / @MollyJForbes / @bodyhappyorg  Facebook @bespokefamily  For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations     ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars including behaviour, toilet training, sleep and more)   This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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  4. ٢٩ ربيع الأول

    Raising Transgender Teens with Josephine Hughes

    We met Josephine at The International Women’s Podcast Awards when she was nominated for her podcast ‘Gloriously unready’ and we were nominated for ours 😉.  Josephine was mum to 3 boys – quite the challenge (her words!). However, two of her children told her (completely independently and within a few months of each other) that they were transgender. One of Josephine’s daughters has now been on hormones for about 8 years (she is now, at the time of recording, 30) and the other daughter for about 3 years (she is now 26). Josephine now has 1 son and 2 daughters.  Amongst alot of things, we spoke with Josephine about:  How hard it was to accept – Josephine had to readjust all her thinking and deal with her own feelings of loss and fear – were her children they wrong, were they making a mistake? Josephine’s feelings when the children told her (you can listen to Josephine's youngest daughter’s side of the story at the start of the second series of Josephine’s podcast Gloriously unready). How there were no signs of the children questioning their gender in childhood, yet one of the girls said to Josephine that she had felt like it for the whole of her life.  How Josephine's middle child has felt about it all. Whether the religious side of Josephine's life made it harder for her especially with regards to acceptance of what had happened in her church. How while the explosion of social media and open discussion around sexuality and gender has opened up the conversation for teens, it can be difficult for parents to navigate how to handle this.  How important it is that people might not understand transgender but that having a respectful society is what we need. Puberty blockers, surgery and the recent Cass review. How meeting transgender people and having conversations with them about the process and hearing their stories has provided Josephine with support and understanding in this area.  Practical things that can be done to change your gender and how much easier it is to do these things in other countries. How Josephine's wider family reacted to the girls including how, since her 2 girls came out, and just a couple of years ago, Josephine’s brother also came out as transgender and is now her sister. What Josephine would say to parents whose children have just told them they are transgender. The real positives of being a transgender parent.   Another of our podcast episodes you might find interesting – Gender and Sexuality  Josephine’s podcast page - Gloriously unready  Instagram @bespokefamily / @TheJosephineHughes  Facebook @bespokefamily  For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: a href="https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

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  5. ١٥ ربيع الأول

    Hugging and showing affection

    Are you a hugger? Becks is, Claire isn’t (she just doesn’t feel the need all the time!)!    We spoke about:  Our own experiences with hugging and showing affection. How to approach situations with children and hugging – should it be an expectation that your child hugs people? If not, what should you do? Having conversations with people about the fact your child can say no they don’t want a hug and when to do it. Kissing little ones and reasons we don’t kiss newborn babies (or you could kiss their feet!). Teaching children life skills so they know the importance of saying no if something doesn't feel right – that their body is their body and it’s OK. How showing affection can be done in many different ways.  The pandemic and how we weren’t allowed to hug! 5 Love Languages and how helpful they are for all of us. The power of the Disney Hug. NSPCC and the PANTS rule.  Blogs – Should I make my child hug people?  You might also find this blog interesting – Why doesn’t my child show much affection?  NSPCC PANTS rule  Find your Love Language with this free quiz  Instagram @bespokefamily   Facebook @bespokefamily  For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations     ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars including behaviour, toilet training, sleep and more)   This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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    Baby wearing, fitness and more! With Vern Hill, Carifit

    This episode was so much fun!  Vern joined us from Carifit, the original baby wearing fitness programme. Cari stands for Cardio and resistance intervals and when he started the classes for new mums Vern used to wear the babies while the parents worked out - he had a light bulb moment that parents could wear their own babies to work out and it went from there!  We talked about:  How from small beginnings the Carifit classes grew and then the baby carrier was born. (Shout out to Hannah Lowry who was one of the first mums to join Vern at a class!) Groupology and the science and benefits of moving in sync. The benefits of mood, energy and mental health from doing exercise like Carifit – it can even improve postnatal depression symptoms. The marvels of the women’s body and how incredible it is! How the Carifit caters for parents from the moment they become pregnant and how attitudes to postnatal and ante natal exercise has changed / is changing. Shifts in attitudes to ‘getting back in shape’ after having a baby over the years Vern has been working in this area.   Benefits of Carifit eg no separation, no childcare required, no other people required. How Carifit works if you have multiple babies.  Carifit classes and the App. How great baby wearing is in general - ”A tool for freedom and movement – wear your baby and move!”.  Golden rules for babywearing and positioning of baby’s legs. Is babywearing ‘making a rod for your own back’ - spoiler alert – absolutely not, in fact research supports that babywearing will help keep your day successfully moving forward! Three things that Vern wishes he had been told before he had children. Babywearing benefits for baby’s brains! Shout out from Vern to Mamma Social and Blaze Trails – two highly recommended babywearing walking groups.  Instagram @cari_fit  Carifit website - https://www.getcarifit.com/  Instagram @bespokefamily   Facebook @bespokefamily  For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations     ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars including behaviour, toilet training, sleep and more)   This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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    Birthdays!

    July going into August is a month of birthdays and celebrations for us – starting with our business birthday at the end of July, Becks’s dog Olive’s birthday on 1st August (!), then Becks and her twins (all on the same day!), Claire’s birthday exactly a week after and then Becks’s husband at the end of August! So, we thought that this was the ideal time to look at birthdays, presents, parties and everything that goes along with it!  We spoke about:  Why birthdays are Becks’s very favourite thing!  Baby’s first birthdays (they don’t know..!) Birthday parties – for all ages and how the most important thing is making it personal for everyone and celebrating as a family together.   Inviting the WHOLE class from school (and the associated presents!)! How parties can be quite overwhelming if the birthday girl / boy doesn’t like being the centre of attention. Present alternatives – perhaps give experiences instead (thanks @nannyanita – they are quite often better as a gift for older children). Parties – thanks to Mel @sleepNannymelaniehastings – who suggested picking a theme for the party to help keep focus on the party planning. Claire’s party project for nanny training (and her duck cake..!). Birthday cakes (and some of Becks’s creations for the twins’ birthdays!!). Birthday build up and managing expectations and emotions. Birthdays and multiple children – twins, triplets and more. Christmas and New Year birthdays. Party bags (no whistles please!).  Ps – following up on something we said in this episode, Ben actually pulled it out of the bag and ended up giving Amy a beautiful Pandora charm for her birthday 😊!    Instagram - @bespokefamily / Facebook - @bespokefamily   For information about a Bespoke Family Parent Consultation click here: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations     ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars including behaviour, toilet training, sleep and more)     This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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Newborn to Teen and Everything Inbetween - it does exactly what it says on the tin! Join childcare experts Becks and Claire for practical advice about how to communicate with children, at all ages. There can be a lot of pressure to 'get it right' when it comes to children, which can be quite daunting! Whether you’re a parent, a teacher, TA or childcare worker, or just looking to gain a better understanding of the world through a child’s eyes, Becks and Claire have 25 years of childcare experience to share with you. Listen for reassurance and support to help you navigate tricky conversations, challenging behaviour, complex emotions, and the general day to day pressures of raising and working with children. This is a judgement-free zone - you won't find a one-size-fits-all rule book here! The perfect parent doesn't exist, but in their family consultancy business Bespoke Family, Becks and Claire believe that a child centred approach which recognises and respects individuality is the best way to enable families to thrive. Join Becks and Claire for accessible, light-hearted and well researched advice and guidance on the various ways we can tackle the ups and downs of life with children (they've got a great sense of humour too, so if you love a laugh you're in great company!) Subscribe to Newborn to Teen and Everything Inbetween - new episodes every fortnight, to help you get the best out of your time with the children in your life. Find Becks and Claire online at: www.bespokefamily.co.uk Instagram: @bespokefamily Search 'Bespoke Family' on Facebook This podcast is produced by Decibelle Creative

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