The KYLO Show

Loving on Purpose, Bleav
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Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!

  1. The Five Words That Heal Disconnection

    AUG 25

    The Five Words That Heal Disconnection

    In this heartfelt live episode from a historic church in Springfield, Danny and Brittney reflect on their visit to Kairos Church and dive deep into one of the most crucial topics in relationships: repairing disconnection. With humor, authenticity, and practical tools, they offer steps for addressing hurt and restoring connection. The conversation also explores how our view of God impacts our ability to receive love, the power of community in healing, and memorable God-moments that have shaped their journeys. This episode is rich with insight for anyone longing for deeper connection with God and the people they love. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to identify and express disconnection using five simple words Why taking ownership is essential for restoring relationships Practical ways to shift from judgment to vulnerability in conversations How to receive God’s love and confront lies rooted in shame Keys for single parents to raise their children in a godly home Key Takeaways: You can’t restore connection by judging others—healing starts with “let me tell you about me.” Avoiding vulnerability only delays healing; honesty invites restoration. Unresolved lies will keep you trapped in self-righteousness—truth sets you free. Children learn what love looks like by watching how their parents live it out. God’s love rushes in when we stop hiding and allow His truth to wash over us. Join the Conversation: What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    24 min
  2. How Are You Experiencing Me?

    AUG 11

    How Are You Experiencing Me?

    In this special live episode from Springfield, Oregon, Danny and Brittney take audience questions that range from pursuing ministry after a life-changing injury to creating a culture of connection and growth in your home. From practical parenting tips to the power of asking, “How are you experiencing me?”, this episode is full of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt encouragement. Whether you’re building a new path forward or just trying to maintain peace in your household, this episode offers the tools and truth you need to stay connected and keep growing. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to transition into a ministry career while supporting your family. Why courage is a key part of developing confidence and calling. The importance of unity with your spouse when stepping into ministry. What it means to stay hungry for growth and embrace discomfort. Simple, powerful ways to protect connection in marriage and parenting. Key Takeaways: Commitment precedes courage, and courage builds the confidence needed to follow your calling. Ministry is a team effort—your spouse needs to be fully on board to walk in unity and power. Growth requires discomfort. Staying in the process brings clarity, fruit, and family breakthrough. “How are you experiencing me?” is one of the most transformative questions you can ask in any relationship. In a culture of connection, disconnection is treated like a four-alarm fire—nothing else matters until it’s resolved. Join the Conversation: What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    21 min
  3. Family Revival, Foster Parenting and the Fear of the Lord

    JUL 28

    Family Revival, Foster Parenting and the Fear of the Lord

    In the final episode recorded live at Jesus Pursuit Church in Albany, Danny and Brittney tackle two powerful questions. First, they speak directly to foster parents navigating the challenges of building family culture when children come from difficult backgrounds. Then, they offer deep insight into the biblical meaning of “the fear of the Lord,” clarifying how it differs from the fear of punishment. This episode is full of wisdom, practical parenting tools, and spiritual clarity for anyone walking through uncertainty or leadership in their home. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to create a healthy home culture as a foster or first-time parent. Practical tools for building trust, structure, and stability with a child in transition. The difference between punishment-based parenting and love-based leadership. What the fear of the Lord truly means—and how it leads to wisdom. Why heaven’s justice is always about reconciliation, not punishment. Key Takeaways: Lead on purpose: Whether you're parenting biological or foster children, the culture of your home should be built intentionally, not accidentally. Aim small, miss small: Start with attainable goals and celebrate every win—especially when parenting in difficult circumstances. Punishment isn’t power: True power in parenting and leadership comes from consistent love, not control. Fear of the Lord = fear of disconnection: It’s not about punishment; it’s about protecting your relationship with God. God’s justice reconciles: Unlike the world’s justice that demands retribution, heaven’s justice leads to repentance, reconciliation, and restoration. Join the Conversation: Are you a foster parent or navigating a new season of parenting? Have you wrestled with the meaning of “fear of the Lord”? We’d love to hear your reflections—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    15 min
  4. How to Handle Controlling People and Mom Guilt with Confidence

    JUL 14

    How to Handle Controlling People and Mom Guilt with Confidence

    In this live Q&A from the Albany tour stop, Danny and Brittney answer two deeply relatable questions: how to engage with controlling family members and how to overcome the crushing weight of mom guilt. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, they share practical tools for setting healthy boundaries, taking ownership of your emotions, and remembering your identity in Christ—especially in the high-stakes relationships of family. Whether you’re navigating toxic dynamics or second-guessing your parenting, this episode will leave you grounded, encouraged, and empowered. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why no one can control you without your permission. How to communicate from a place of self-control and clarity. What makes a powerful person and how to become one. The difference between toxic shame and healthy conviction. Why you were chosen to be your child’s parent—flaws and all. Key Takeaways: You are a powerful person: You have the God-given ability to control yourself and choose how you respond in every situation. Control is an illusion: Others may use fear or manipulation, but you still get to choose how you show up. Mom guilt is not from God: You were chosen to parent your children, and He equips you for every season—even the messy ones. Healthy shame builds connection: When handled well, correction and conviction strengthen relationships and model growth. Lead with love and truth: In parenting and family dynamics, your confidence, honesty, and humility create a culture of safety and growth. Join the Conversation: Are you learning to say “no” in a relationship where control once ruled? Or finding freedom from mom guilt in your parenting journey? We’d love to hear your story—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    18 min
  5. Navigating Loss, Inheritance, and Joy in Difficult Seasons

    JUN 30

    Navigating Loss, Inheritance, and Joy in Difficult Seasons

    Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for staying powerful and connected during life’s hardest seasons. If you’re in a challenging time or walking alongside someone who is, this one will speak straight to your heart. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to respond with maturity and integrity during family inheritance conflicts. Why staying a “good son” or “good sibling” matters more than what you receive. How to lead a godly business that reflects Christ in culture, excellence, and kindness. What it looks like to grieve powerfully and ask for help without losing yourself. How to access joy and hope even when life feels overwhelming and dark. Key Takeaways: You control your response, not the outcome: When it comes to inheritance or injustice, you can choose honor, integrity, and connection regardless of others’ decisions. Let your character lead your business: A godly business isn’t just about Christian language—it’s marked by the fruit of the Spirit and excellence in every interaction. Ask for help when you're grieving: Owning your need is a powerful step toward healing. You don't have to grieve alone. Joy is cultivated, not circumstantial: Don’t wait for life to go your way to choose joy. Build habits of gratitude and obedience that reconnect you to God’s presence. Stay connected even when it’s hard: Grief and hardship can make you want to isolate—but choosing connection, even imperfectly, is part of staying powerful. Join the Conversation: Have you been in a season where joy felt far away? What helped you return to hope and connection? Share your story with us at www.thekyloshow.com—we’d love to hear from you. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    21 min
  6. Confidence, Compatibility, and Choosing the Right Relationship

    JUN 16

    Confidence, Compatibility, and Choosing the Right Relationship

    In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with clarity, confidence, and community. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why self-awareness and confidence are critical before entering a relationship. How to discern if you're adjusting yourself to be what someone else wants. The importance of building relationships within the safety of community. Why shared life vision and mission matter more than chemistry alone. How early alignment can lead to long-term unity and growth. Key Takeaways: Don’t change your ticket: Choose relationships where your life mission and calling are already aligned—you’re heading the same direction. Be confident in who you are: Healthy relationships start when both people know, like, and are developing who they are in Christ. Stay in community: Surround yourself with trusted people who can speak into your relationships and help you stay grounded. Chemistry fades—clarity lasts: Compatibility rooted in purpose and values is more sustainable than just emotional or physical connection. Join the Conversation: Have you ever changed your “ticket” to make a relationship work? What’s one area of your identity that you’re learning to love and protect? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and keep the conversation going. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    25 min
  7. Learning to Listen, Love, and Lead in Relationship

    JUN 2

    Learning to Listen, Love, and Lead in Relationship

    In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-awareness, and embrace the path of growth and reconciliation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How listening better than someone is talking changes the emotional climate of a relationship. Why hurt often masquerades as anger—and how to respond with compassion. What to do when someone is stuck in self-protection or an orphan mindset. Why curiosity and self-awareness are keys to thriving in marriage. How to use five simple words to communicate emotional truth and protect connection. Key Takeaways: Listening is an act of protection: When you slow down and truly understand what someone is feeling, you create safety and open the door to healing. Self-justification is the enemy of connection: Owning your part, even when it’s uncomfortable, is the path to deeper trust. Curiosity transforms conflict: When you stop blaming and start getting curious—about yourself and others—you create space for growth. Connection must be protected at all costs: React to disconnection like your couch is on fire—drop everything and deal with it. Simple words bring powerful clarity: Words like “ouch,” “yikes,” and “ugh” help you name what’s happening inside and move toward reconnection. Join the Conversation: Which part of this episode challenged you most? Do you need to slow down and listen better, or have the courage to speak your truth in love? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and let us know how you're keeping your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    23 min
  8. Navigating Family Dynamics with Courage and Clarity

    MAY 19

    Navigating Family Dynamics with Courage and Clarity

    This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships. How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out. Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust. What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers. How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values. Key Takeaways: Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it. When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?” Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force. Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend. Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most. Join the Conversation: Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    27 min
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Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!

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  • Creator
    Loving on Purpose, Bleav
  • Years Active
    2014 - 2025
  • Episodes
    202
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