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Our goal is to help you, your spouse and your family, Ignite your Faith, Family, and Future and take it to the next level by giving practical tips and tricks that we have used in our own lives. We have 20 years of sobriety combined. We also have been a blended family for over 10 years!

We have lived lives of major struggle, alcohol addiction, sexual/emotional/physical abuse, and so much more. BUT!! We have fought our way out of it! We are proud Christians that feel there is a gap between the non-Christian world and the Christian world that is full of people like us! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/josh-groce2/support

Couple on Fire – For couples that want to take their faith, family, and future to the next level Josh & Kristy Groce

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Our goal is to help you, your spouse and your family, Ignite your Faith, Family, and Future and take it to the next level by giving practical tips and tricks that we have used in our own lives. We have 20 years of sobriety combined. We also have been a blended family for over 10 years!

We have lived lives of major struggle, alcohol addiction, sexual/emotional/physical abuse, and so much more. BUT!! We have fought our way out of it! We are proud Christians that feel there is a gap between the non-Christian world and the Christian world that is full of people like us! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/josh-groce2/support

    Eloy & Stephanie Martinez: The Long Game

    Eloy & Stephanie Martinez: The Long Game

    Join us on this episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast as we welcome Eloy and Stephanie Martinez to share their insights on playing the “long game” in relationships. Drawing from their own experiences and biblical wisdom, Eloy and Stephanie discuss how making thoughtful, long-term choices can pave the way for a stronger, more resilient relationship.

    Tune in to hear practical advice on balancing immediate needs with long-term goals, maintaining family bonds through faith, and the key investments every couple should make for their future together. Plus, enjoy some heartwarming stories and a sprinkle of humor as Eloy and Stephanie share their journey of blending love, faith, and family.

    Don't miss this inspiring conversation on how to play the long game and build a lasting relationship that honors God.


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    • 56 min
    The Fine Line Between Humor and Hurt in Marriage

    The Fine Line Between Humor and Hurt in Marriage

    In this episode of "The Couple on Fire Podcast," we dive into the delicate balance between humor and harm in marriage. While laughter is often called the best medicine, it's crucial to recognize when jokes can cross the line and cause unintended pain. Join us as we explore the potential dangers of poking fun at your spouse and offer insights on how to keep humor healthy and uplifting in your relationship.



    We'll discuss:



    Understanding the difference between intent and impact.

    The importance of building and maintaining emotional safety.

    Effective communication strategies to ensure humor strengthens rather than weakens your bond.

    Harnessing the power of positive reinforcement to enhance your connection through loving, playful humor.

    Grounded in biblical wisdom, we'll reflect on Ephesians 4:29 and the importance of speaking words that build up and benefit your spouse. Tune in to discover how to navigate the fine line between humor and hurt, ensuring your marriage thrives with joy and respect.


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    • 29 min
    The Best Relationship Advice for Couples

    The Best Relationship Advice for Couples

    Join us for a replay of one of our favorite episodes as we dive into "The Best Relationship Advice for Couples." In this episode, we explore the key to a thriving relationship through the lens of the five love languages, as popularized by Gary Chapman. We discuss how understanding and utilizing these love languages can transform your marriage, making it stronger and more fulfilling.

    We share personal anecdotes, laugh about our gym membership mishaps, and break down each love language—receiving gifts, quality time, acts of service, physical touch, and words of affirmation. Discover practical tips on how to communicate and show love in ways that resonate most with your partner, whether you're on a budget or looking to make grand gestures.

    Learn how to avoid common pitfalls and misconceptions, and hear about our own love languages and how they've evolved over time. This episode is packed with valuable advice for couples looking to deepen their connection and navigate the complexities of marriage, especially within blended families.

    Tune in and take your faith, family, and future to the next level with us!



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    • 50 min
    The Art of Arguing

    The Art of Arguing

    Arguments are inevitable in any relationship, but handling them with care and respect can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth. Join us as we explore four essential rules for healthy arguing:



    Stay Respectful: Discover how maintaining respect and focusing on the issue can lead to constructive outcomes.

    Use Safe Words: Learn the power of a safe word to pause heated discussions and keep emotions in check.

    Avoid Blame: Find out how using "I" statements can minimize defensiveness and foster understanding.

    Table, Return: Understand the importance of tabling arguments and revisiting them within 24 hours for resolution.

    Tune in to hear practical tips and personal insights on how to argue in a way that strengthens your relationship and promotes deeper understanding. Don't miss this valuable conversation on turning conflicts into stepping stones for a healthier, happier partnership.



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    • 24 min
    Inside Out 2 Unpacking Anxiety and Mental Health

    Inside Out 2 Unpacking Anxiety and Mental Health

    Join us as we dive into Pixar's latest hit, "Inside Out 2," and explore its newest character, Anxiety. Voiced by Maya Hawke, Anxiety reflects the complex emotions that come with adolescence and offers a unique perspective on mental health.

    In this episode, we break down four key points:


    Understanding Anxiety Through Riley's Eyes: We discuss how the character of Anxiety is portrayed in the film and how Maya Hawke's personal experiences bring authenticity to the role. Learn how Riley's journey mirrors real-life teenage challenges and the importance of recognizing anxiety as a normal part of growing up.


    The Dual Nature of Anxiety: Discover the dual role of Anxiety as both a protective mechanism and a source of stress. We'll explore how the film illustrates this balance and what it teaches us about managing anxiety in our own lives.


    Coping Strategies and Mental Health Awareness: The film provides practical strategies for dealing with anxiety, which we’ll discuss along with tips for managing anxiety in real life. We’ll also emphasize the importance of mental health awareness and reducing stigma through open conversations.


    Parental Support and Guidance: Learn how parents can support their children through anxious moments, with insights drawn from Riley’s parents in the movie. We’ll offer tips for recognizing signs of anxiety and provide resources for further support.



    Whether you’re a fan of the "Inside Out" series or looking for ways to better understand and manage anxiety, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in for a blend of entertainment and meaningful discussion on mental health.

    Listen Now to gain a deeper understanding of anxiety and how it impacts both teens and adults. Share your thoughts and experiences with us, and let’s continue the conversation on mental health and family dynamics.

    Subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and follow us on social media for more updates and discussions. Don’t miss our next episode where we continue to help you take your faith, family, and future to the next level!

    Visit our website at joshandkristy.com for more information and resources.


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    • 35 min
    Chore Wars & Happy Marriages

    Chore Wars & Happy Marriages

    In this episode of 'The Couple on Fire,' my wife Kristy and I dive deep into a topic that impacts every couple - household chores. It might sound mundane, but hear us out. We've discovered that chores can be a hidden battleground or a powerful tool to strengthen your marriage, depending on how you approach them.

    From scrubbing dishes to laundry, cleaning the house to cooking meals, we often find ourselves feeling like we're in 'Chore Wars.' But what if I told you it doesn't have to be this way? That's right! We're not just talking about splitting the load equally but finding a balance that feels fair to both partners. This episode is all about unmasking the expectations each of us carries and learning how to communicate them effectively.

    But we're not stopping there. In our Christian faith, we've learned to see chores as acts of service, an opportunity to express our love for each other in a practical and meaningful way. Imagine if we changed our perspective, and instead of seeing chores as tasks, we see them as expressions of love?

    We also want to highlight the power of teamwork. Join us as we discuss how doing chores together can bring us closer, creating a shared experience and a sense of partnership.

    Tune in to 'Chore Wars: Finding the Balance and Building a Happier Marriage,' and let's turn those chores into more than just a to-do list. Let's transform them into opportunities for connection, communication, and love. Can't wait to share this journey with you!

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    • 36 min

Customer Reviews

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19 Ratings

jasonandkelly ,

Great advise from people who have lived it.

The advise is given from a couple who has been through the fire with addiction, divorce, high conflict ex’s and blending of families. Getting guidance from this couple has helped us work through as well as avoid common issues of blended families.

Stepfamily Mission POSSIBLE ,

Stepfamily Parenting is Tough! Josh & Kristy make it easier!

Resourceful, witty, and entertaining perspectives on the tough, complex experiences we have in blended families. Keep up the great work! ~Jen Rogers, Bold & Blended Stepmoms

Nacho Kids ,

Josh & Kristy Are Awesome!

I love the energy Josh and Kristy have! They are not only down to earth, but funny too! If you haven't listened to their podcast, you really need to! They have lived what they talk about and have great advice!

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